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If you and I lived in a movie or TV series, then identifying some villain in our life would be as easy as shelling pears - after all, every time they appeared, that very strange, disturbing music would sound. Or, for example, in the classic epic fantasy, where all the bad guys, with rare exceptions, are ugly and accompany every second line with some demonic laughter.

But you and I live in real life, so these successful ways of determining not-so-nice persons, unfortunately, do not work. On the other hand, this is for the better - after all, the "villainous" musical theme could also be turned on when we appear in the frame ourselves... Be that as it may, people still have to rely on their own experience and the advice of other folks - such as, for example, in this collection of opinions from netizens.

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#1

30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" For me it has to be when they treat animals really poorly.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They dump garbage out of their moving vehicles.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Today I carried some trash for a mile before I found a trash can, but the inconvenience never made me want to litter. Like you have an entire car to hold your trash, it can wait until you're back home.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When they are rude to service people like waiters or cashiers. I think it shows a lack of empathy.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It also shows an air of ignorant superiority (I'm better than you, you're just a pleb doing menial service work) and entitlement (I'm more important than you, I deserve to be waited on hand and foot). Its rude and totally uncalled for, treating servers like that. Even the Queen said please and thank you to her household staff.

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    What else distinguishes real life from heroic fantasy is that our world does not accept pure light or dark, and each of us living, in fact, has those very notorious shades of gray. And not just fifty, but many more. In the end, a person can have a great appearance, have an amazing mind and/or brilliant wit - but at the same time, in some aspects of their personality, turn out to be not the nicest person at all. But how to evaluate and accept them at the same time is a personal choice for each of us.

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    #4

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When you’re having an argument with someone and they start saying things just to hurt you because they don’t have a valid argument.

    Yeaaah this ones personal

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh hey I’m literally living this one right now! I’m reading BP to distract me from the fact that I’ve been crying so hard as a result of this that I can barely breathe properly!

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" “All my exes were crazy.” Really now?? Like you were the victim in all of those??

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They're an "Alpha".

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    By and large, the collection of opinions and 'red flags' that we present to you today is not so much a "universal determinant of scoundrels", but also a questionnaire that can help you understand and realize what dark sides of your mind you personally have. In other words, if you find yourself in at least a few items on this list, it makes sense to seriously think about it - maybe your own behavior isn't the best?

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    "Keep in mind that asking yourself, 'Am I a bad person?' isn't unusual. Simply considering this question shows you have some measure of self-awareness and empathy," writes Crystal Raypole, a writer and editor in Healthline. "If you try to avoid causing harm, that's a good sign. If you can acknowledge you have some room for improvement - and who doesn't? - you're taking a promising first step towards positive change."

    #7

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They can't handle being wrong

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When the rules apply to everyone except them.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They litter.

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    If we started to consider this topic with examples from culture, then the hallmark of a good story has always been considered character development, when a character starts the story as one person, and ends as... well, if not someone completely different, then they certainly have undergone some changes. In the end, almost any scoundrel can go their own way to reform. Just remember how disgusting Darth Vader looked at the beginning of Star Wars... oh, we hope this has not become a spoiler for anyone now.

    #10

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" Not respecting shared spaces. Like, leaving garbage on a picnic table or leaving a shopping cart out.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worse when they justify it as "keeping someone else in a job" - because apparently cleaners should be grateful for extra work on top of the regular cleaning.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" How they treat their significant other in front of other people

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When they still believe in racial stereotypes and look down on people because of their race

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    As Forrest Gump's momma used to say, "life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get." And when a new person comes into our life, there is always a chance that they will turn out to be not so good. And then, perhaps, this collection will be useful to you in some way. At least we modestly hope so. So please feel free to read and scroll it to the very end and add your own 'red flags' to expose a truly terrible person before that disturbing musical theme comes out...

    #13

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They don't respect the people who clean up their s**t.

    A coworker once made fun of National Custodian Day.

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    Malfar
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grandma told me there are no bad professions, each profession is important and needed. Except shoemakers, "If you don't study well you will be repairing shoes". Something to do with one of her exs maybe, idk.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" Saying horrible things about people all the time.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When they mock you for trying to lose weight or trying to improve yourself in general

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't stand gyms with people who laugh and snicker at you for being fat, like that's why I'm here!

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They talk about cheating on their partner in a bragging way like its something that makes them cooler.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" "bro look at this!" (Shows a minor achievement I'm proud of)

    "Oh bro, that's so easy I literally did that like a million times"

    With all due disrespect, f**k yourself.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    when i said something i felt bad about, my mom tells me she knows how i feel but she had worse..then she starts telling me about her side n sht i would just look at her and keep nodding. Its so annoying she always makes everything about herself

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" Cheating.

    No matter how nice someone acts, if they’re willing and capable of betraying anyone who intimately trusts them, they are absolute s**t.

    Also, if she’ll cheat with you, she’ll cheat on you. Good luck with that, bro.

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    Malfar
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would also add "lies in general". If someone boasts to you how he tricked/fooled his colleague/boss/ex/THE SYSTEM (government, tax collection, electricity bills etc).

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They do not put shopping carts in the cart corral.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i get this one but, being mobility disabled, it is hard to get it to the corral when you are using it for support. wish the corrals were closer to the disabled parking then i could hobble back

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    #20

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" Demanding respect just because they are older.
    Edit: or because they are family.

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    #21

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When they say “f**k all my haters” when people are just giving them suggestions on how to be a decent human being

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They only talk about themselves and complain about every little thing. They also expect you to help them but they don’t give a damn when you’re in need.

    Oh yeah and never apologising or being accountable for anything.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They don't let u speak. At all. They just keep talking over you countless times in a row.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this to my friends sometimes without realising until it's too late. I always apologise is necessary cause I feel bad afterwards. I don't realise I'm doing it, I just get really excited about contributing to the conversation. Plus they're the kind of people who would def speak up if I was truly irritating them.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" Complete lack of awareness of how their actions affect other people's reactions

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    Stolas
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    again this could literally just be autism or a different neurodivergence

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" If they don't care about anyone or anything but themselves than that's usually a pretty good indicator.

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    Malfar
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But a healthy egotism is actually good. I wouldn't trust a person who doesn't care about themselves at all.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" They can’t stand different opinion

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    However, it needs to be noted that hate, intolerance and bigotry of any kind is not "different opinion" and nobody is obligated to respect or tolerate it.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When they constantly try to one up you in a conversation.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" If they treat family or staff members like s**t all the time

    Edit: for the replies of examples of s****y families, responding to verbal abuse with more verbal abuse doesn’t solve anything, because verbal abuse is a sign that someone is a piece of s**t. So it’s not a good thing to stoop to someone’s level when they abuse you.

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    Stolas
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sometimes it becomes someones trauma response (ex: borderline personality disorder and "splitting" in a fight) and with therapy the original abuse victim can get better

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    #29

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" - When they're factually wrong but resort to deflection rather than stick to the subject

    - 'I did my own research'

    - Mistreating animals

    - Being unfriendly to waiters, shop employees etc.

    - Heckling people for whatever reason

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heckling is allowed if the performer has asked the audience a direct question.

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    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" Their adult children don't talk to them. They don't know their grandchildren.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother had 5 children. By the time she died only 1 of those children were talking to her. She has 7 grandchildren she never met

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    #31

    30 People Answer "What's A Dead Giveaway That Someone Is A [Bad Person]?" When they wait for you to stop talking instead of listening to what you're actually saying, and some people don't even wait, they just try to cut you off constantly.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boss constantly interrupts me or just walks away when I'm talking. Sometimes he comes back later and asks what I was going to say and now i just tell him i don't remember. I told my him one day he better hope I was never the one who had to tell him he was on fire. He had the nerve to look hurt and shocked.

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    1. They will treat you like a doormat and the relationship dynamic is incredibly one sided in that regard. They will fully expect you to tolerate extremely poor behaviour from them and other people but will react very angrily when you actually stand up for yourself or they otherwise feel you have disrespected or offended them in some way.
    2. They seek conflict on purpose and will cause it in any way possible.
    3. They hold onto grudges easily and won't let anything go without a fight. They keep track of how you have disrespected them over time.
    4. They are extremely vindictive and will find any way to punish you every time they feel you have disrespected them.
    5. They are extremely argumentative and will proceed to give long, ranting lectures instead of speaking in a calm, respectful manner.
    6. They are extremely negative and critical all of the time and will never offer anything positive to a discussion. This also extends to them never being happy for you in any way. E.g., getting good grades at school or a job promotion at work.
    7. Due to this constant negativity, you cannot speak to them because you know that they will respond in this way, or feel that you are walking on egg shells around them because of their negativity.
    8. They are verbally abusive. They'll insult you, call you names, etc, etc. They'll also belittle you, your hobbies and interests, as well as friends and family. They'll use offensive language to that effect, e.g., calling your (actually decent) car a piece of junk or calling your friend a loser.
    9. Lack of effective communication.
    10. They are never willing to compromise on a situation and will issue ultimatums instead.
    11. They put conditions on their love towards you and having a relationship with you.
    12. They view you as as a burden.
    13. They are prone to physical violence.
    14. They are gaslighters.
    15. They love bomb you.
    16. They are extremely selfish and self-centred, they will only ever think of themselves. They will also only ever care about their own needs and wants, no one else's.
    17. They lack empathy and compassion towards other people.
    18. They are financially abusive. They will use money to control and manipulate you into doing what they want.
    19. They are very accusatory. E.g., when you are looking for a job, they're calling you lazy or saying that you "have a bad attitude" and you don't want to work. However, these accusations would be completely unfounded and it's just an extension of their abuse as per #8.
    20. Almost every time you would spend time with them or otherwise communicate like a phone call or a text message, there would always be some kind of agenda or ulterior motive behind it, because they want something from you and not to have a "normal" conversation. It is very much a transactional relationship.
    21. They view you as a punching bag. Meaning that if they're having a bad day for whatever reason that had absolutely nothing to do with you, they'll lash out at you regardless.
    22. They outright refuse to help you in absolutely any way whatsoever, even in difficult times. Or if they *do* choose to help you, they want something in return. They want you to "return the favour."
    23. They crave attention 24/7 and have an intense dislike towards the idea of you having a life outside of them. They fully expect you to be at their beck and call at all times with no exception.
    24. They do not respect your privacy. They'll repeatedly barge into your room, demand to know who you are phoning, etc. They'll also speak about you to other people behind your back and share extremely personal information about you without your explicit permission.
    25. They are frequently dishonest to you and to other people about you. They'll attempt to paint you in a bad light by omitting certain details and otherwise twisting the narrative to suit their agenda.
    26. They are never, ever wrong and refuse to ever apologise for anything. They think they can sweep their poor behaviour under the rug and pretend nothing ever happened. Instead of accepting responsibility for their (or other people's) poor behaviour, they will deflect blame away from themselves and engage in victim blaming and scapegoating.
    27. They might attempt to isolate you from friends and family.
    28. They play the victim in any given situation.
    29. They might also give you the silent treatment and ignore you for prolonged periods of time without explanation. And then out of the blue they'll start speaking to you again like nothing happened.
    30. When other people criticise you, they won't defend or support you in any way. In fact, they'll likely take the side of the other person criticising you.
    31. They do not accept different opinions and theirs is the only valid one. They judge other people's opinions without understand their perspective first. They think that they own a monopoly on all the correct answers.
    32. They threaten cruel and unusual punishments for the smallest mistake or infraction. This might also extend to threatening to ceasing all contact and disowning you completely as well for really minor things too.
    33. They are prone to wild mood swings. One moment they'll appear to be "fine" and in a good mood, next moment they're angry and abusive. You never know what kind of mood they will be in on a given day. They get angry at the smallest thing and saying the "wrong" thing would instantly change their mood for the worse.
    34. Whenever they are harassing you with any kind of abuse (physical, verbal, etc) and you plainly ask/tell them to stop, they'll ignore you and continue regardless. Either they lack the genuine empathy, or they just don't care in the slightest about the harm that they cause others.
    35. They are extremely dismissive of your feelings and when you attempt to address a legitimate concern with them or otherwise confront them about their behaviour towards you, they'll attempt to invalidate your feelings and justify their behaviour towards you or otherwise downplay a situation that they caused.
    36. They view parenting as simply providing the physical needs of the child, i.e., providing a roof over their head and feeding and clothing the child. But caring about the child's happiness and mental wellbeing? Not a concern for them.
    37. They think that parenting has a age limit. As soon as the child reach X age (usually 18), they think that their job as a parent is done and subsequently want to kick out their child as soon as possible.
    38. They view children as simply extensions of themselves and not as separate individuals with their own needs and wants. As a result, they think that they are entitled to dictate every aspect of their children's lives, even extremely trivial things.
    39. They will blatantly favour one child over another instead of treating all of their children equally.
    40. In the case of divorced parents, they'll use their children as pawns against the other parent and, more specifically, parental alienation. Meaning that they will constantly badmouth the other parent in an attempt to turn the child against said parent.

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