1. Good dental hygiene - floss, brush twice a day always

2. Make exercise a part of the day, it is harder to get this into routine as you get older. Plus the fitter you are when you’re younger, the more it will tide you through when older

3. Continue pursuing things that I find interesting, even if I’m not (and will never get) good at them. It is wonderful to have things to enjoy for the sake of it

4. Be nicer to my parents, especially my mum. It is a lot of responsibility, and they did their best

5. Take feedback and criticism in stride, and not let every negative thing make me question everything

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I never pick up a cigarette.

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I take my little brother to the hospital because he has a tumor that no one knows about.

I tell my Dad that he shouldn’t sell his company because we end up homeless.

I buy bitcoin.

I live with my family and appreciate them.

I go to an IHOP many years later and find the waitress, I ask her on a date, hopefully I can keep both my families this time.

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I'm sorry you had to live through so much pain and regrets... I hope you're doing ok.

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Don’t date my first girlfriend. Try to maintain friendships while moving. Take college more seriously. Buy Bitcoin. Hug my grandparents more often.

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I agree with the last one especially.

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Everyone saying what they’d do better while I’d be having a total mental breakdown. Can you imagine going back to living with your parents? Waking up at 6am to get a bus to be in class at 8am? Taking exams again? Having to study all over again? I have nightmares about this. Please no, no, I’d rather stay an adult please.

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Being a teen in high school is stressful, juggling between homeworks, studies, social life, family life and possible bullying! And now add social medias, cyberbullying and a freakin' pandemic, teens these days have even MORE stress!

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Honestly just the knowledge that lots of the sh*t 15-year old me was agonizing over and worrying about ultimately didn’t bring about the end of the world would help. I’d know which things to stress about and which ones I could let go of.

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Growing up isn't easy, no matter who you are.

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Take better care of my teeth.

Looking back, I wish it had been explained that cavities were growing holes in my teeth, and not something invasive, like a bacteria.

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Isn't that the truth!

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I was in my freshman year of high-school, I'd go back and relive those years being completely and totally myself like I should have done way back when.

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Always be yourself-everyone else is taken.

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Stop caring about what anyone thinks

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Aww thanks I need this

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Buy up domain names and sell them after internet gets more mainstream

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This would have been a great idea, but I'd have had to wait for the internet to be invented first!

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I am hugging my grandfather for a solid 5 minutes.

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this one is lovely. i feel the same.

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Well, knowing me, I don't make the stupid choices I made for the past 31 years. But also knowing me, I would make totally different stupid choices. Because I'm human. Just because I could now avoid the traps I had fallen into back then, this does not mean I would not fall into different traps. But hopefully the sum total would be a better life.

I know there are career changes I would make. There are financial decisions I would do a better job with. For instance, on the day I graduated college Apple stock sold for 15 cents a share. If I had bought $5000 worth of Apple stock that day, I could sell that today for 4.6 million dollars. So there's that.

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I'd keep all the Apple stock I had in '86 and not sell it when it doubled.

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I’d live in existential dread that somehow, somewhere I’d mess something up in the chain of events that led to me meeting my wife and the subsequent birth of my children. Life without my children would destroy me. Utterly.

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Best comments for sure. No matter how rough the path we take, it always leads to where we are now so unless your life is super crappy and you have nothing to lose, changing your past could be a terrible idea.

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Warn my grandma that she has cancer that will kill her in 9 years because they caught it too late.

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Oh yes! My father would live!

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I wouldn't be too afraid to report my father to the authorities. I wouldn't live life in fear of his hands. I would fight back like I never did.

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Oh dear. Leading a life of fear is terrible. u ok?

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People here are getting rich or saving lives but I'm 100% using this as an opportunity to deploy all the clever responses I came up with hours later in response to various people.

I still have a lot of them memorised thanks to my brain's love of reviewing stupid things I've said and done over the decades late at night so I feel pretty prepared.

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i never thought of that but that is such a good idea! every single time i've thought of what i should have said way too late...

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Be single and lonely for a while. Holy sh*t do I not want anything to do with most high schoolers.

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Tell my parents I was depressed and go through therapy/get medicated.

Ask that girl out. She's a wonderful person and she absolutely has a crush on you.

Talk to more people and stop pushing them away. You won't disappoint them and they won't hurt you.

Fix your relationship with your mom. She will have cancer later so make the time count.

Learn Viet. Your grandparents will get sicker and you'll want to be able to talk to them before they leave.

Stop worrying about embarrassing yourself. For every person that may think you're cringy for your interests, there'll be another who'll think they're cool.

Stop playing CSGO all the time and explore those hobbies that you always wanted to get into. I know you're depressed but you'll regret wasting all that time on a game you hate.

Things will get better.

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I am constantly reading "things will get better" but when? I have hoped this for over 40 years, they have not yet.

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All the fun of these hypotheticals vanished the moment my daughter was born.

I know that realistically I'd never be able to recreate the exact circumstances to have the same child, but I'd have to put everything I have into trying... doing otherwise is unimaginable. It would be years and years of stress and planning and dread knowing that I'm essentially doomed to fail at the only thing that matters, the one thing I'm trying desperately to achieve. Along with the constant feeling that I'm being an idiot to pour myself into something that will never work, and the guilt of even contemplating giving up.

And there's basically no good ending, eventually I either have a child who's clearly not her and try desperately not to burden them with my grief, or I have a child who might be her and I spend the rest of my life struggling to deal with thoughts of "Is it really her?" without my preoccupation messing her up, or I give up and live feeling like I abandoned my daughter and erased her from existence. And god, my poor wife in all of this.

Basically, "What if you got to re-do your life?" used to be a fun thought experiment. Then I met the love of my life and adopted a couple cats and it got more emotionally complicated. Then I had a perfect baby girl and imagining this scenario became like imagining hell.

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An important lesson in cherishing the life we have, not the might have beens. (Although, for various reasons I was picturing Tony Stark in Endgame while reading this!)

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Lose fat, start lifting weights and running, play less video games, sleep more.

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It's as easy to give old you hard things to do as future you and as easy to not do them in the present.

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I’d want to tweak a few things. Hit the pricks who messed with me. Kiss the girl when I should’ve. Spent more time with my old man. Little things

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I wouldn't go to University, possibly travel more and spend a bit more time deciding the direction I want to go with my life.

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I agree with this. I went to uni and it just landed me in debt and jobs that just barely got me by. I'd have liked to have more time to decide.

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Go straight to my room, blast Powerman 5000 from my humongous CD player, and bury my head in my pillow while I cry. High school was a living hell for me and living with my stepmom was a living hell but after I came to terms with my situation, I’d find my dad (who died last year), hug him tight then go and do the same with my grandparents.

Then after that I might cut down a bully or three. I’ve gotten surprisingly good at insults and standing up for myself in my old age.

Oh! And have a DQ blizzard. I wasn’t lactose intolerant at 15 and holy sh*t do I miss blizzards.

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PM5K! Oh to hear Mega Kung Fu Radio for the first time again.

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Get some bitcoin, put a lot of effort into regularly working out, learn professional cooking skills so I can whip up fancy food for myself

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Never to late to learn how how cook. I'm a professional chef, and I will say it's nice being able to cook something decent when your tired of skip the dishes.

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Focus on high school a bit better, try and keep in touch with my best friend at that time a bit better after she moved across town, talk with my dad more about family and stuff, apologize for being a little sh*t in middle school more. Figure out my major a lot faster.

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1. It wasn't a good relationship, both of us did some fu**ed up s**t that only inexperienced people would

2. I would be 25 in mind and she'd be 15

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I think I would do the same. It was a good relationship, but it went on for far too long, and we both missed out on experiencing different things with different people.

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Oh man, I have an whole plan for such things.

Background, I've been disabled since I was 4. T1 diabetes and being on the spectrum sucked combined with back then (90s) learning disabilities not being as "accepted" at my schools so they tried to forcibly correct me and it went horribly wrong.

So, thing the first: High school. I wouldn't let it stress me out and push me to the breaking point like it did. I almost died in HS because things got so bad with my T1 diabetes and it spiraled so far out of control that it almost took me out. No. We're not fu*king doing that s**t. The walk for the diploma isn't worth it. If I fail, I fail, we make this up in community college. FU*K high school.

Thing the second: Fight harder to get your disability benefits. My mom had representative payee status over me and it kinda fu*ked everything up, so I had to go to work for a retail job that didn't give a singular fu*k that I was diabetic. I ran my sorry ass into the ground so hard that I'm still cleaning up the mess almost 10 years after I got fired. If anything, THIS is what utterly fu*ked me and THIS is the thing I would change the most.

(I finally got my benefits...way too late into that job. And by the end of it I was making so little at that job that I was 90% living on disability anyway. I should have quit and salvaged what I could. But I am dumb.)

Thing the third: Fu*k the job once disability is done, go the fu*k to college. Community college would have been easily affordable and where I live there are plenty of grants and waivers. I should have taken advantage of them. Again, I am an idiot.

Fourth, and definitely not least: SEE A FU*KING DENTIST. That's another thing older me had to clean up and it wasn't pretty. I'm in a good place now (bless my SO for helping cover the dental bills because disability sure fu*king didn't) but man, I could have saved myself a TON of hurt down the line if I wasn't so scared of the dentist.

I post this in hopes that maybe someone is currently in my situation, reads this, and knows to get the fu*k out or advocate for oneself before things get so bad that older you is going to have a right mess on their hands to clean up. It's not fun.

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As I lie on my sofa in a super dark place only a year in to ASD diagnosis, being fired for being ASD and feeling utterly stuck... know that you've reached one person. I hear you. I needed to hear this. Also being targeted by a neighbour and starting the road to an injunction. I'm terrified. But thank you

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Save more money. Take better care of my teeth. Not eat as much junk. Not date people who were just a waste of time. Not worry as much. Appreciate the irreplaceable things more. Not say some mean/wrong things I said. Choose a different career path.

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Move out as soon I become 16. My parents were very toxic and harmful for my mental health.

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