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Seeing something cringeworthy is like watching a trainwreck. It’s uncomfortable and unpleasant, yet you can’t seem to take your eyes off of it. 

If this forgettable mishap happened in the digital realm, it may have been broadcast in the Cringetopia subreddit. As the name suggests, it’s an online group that immortalizes people’s embarrassing situations. 

We’ve collected some of the posts that stood out. These may amplify feelings of secondhand shame or induce a headshake of disappointment. Scroll through and see which resonates with you the most.

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He's Also 1 Million Times More Useful Than She'll Ever Be

He's Also 1 Million Times More Useful Than She'll Ever Be

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Ge Po
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd rather have a partner who is generous, earns a steady income, who's concerned about my well-being and at the same time challenges me to become a better me, than some hot guy who only cares about his looks and popularity. Not that all hot guys are that way, but: looks does not the man make. Attitude does.

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Keep Your Neck

Keep Your Neck

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Alexandra Nara
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so marry your stalker that don't accept your borders? Sound like a happy marriage 🙄🙄

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We cringe because of vicarious embarrassment (a.k.a. secondhand shame). But according to clinical psychologist Dr. Marielle Collins, there is an upside to it. 

“That’s the concept of empathy,” she said in an interview with the Cleveland Clinic. “Our brains are wired to be able to simulate the emotional experiences of other people and feel what another person is feeling.”

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Cultural Appropriation

Cultural Appropriation

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Virgil Blue
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not only that, the Japanese government made a statement that the man is a revered master and a honored friend of Japan for keeping ancient musical traditions alive. Also of note: Not only was the game and western developer praised by the Japanese for being a great representation of the actual Island and culture, the developers were made honorary ambassadors for setting up a donation drive to repair the islands historical locations after a big storm damaged the island.

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#5

The Woman Is The Cringe One Here, In Case Anyone Is Confused

The Woman Is The Cringe One Here, In Case Anyone Is Confused

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Livingwithcfs
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people just take things too far. If someone holds a door open for you just say thank you. It honestly doesn't matter if it's male or female because it's good manners. Getting in a s**t about it is bad manners

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Gatekeeping... A Language?

Gatekeeping... A Language?

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Sanne
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3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

for some weird reason Americans don't think Spanish people are white either. (edit: NoT ALl AmERicaNs)

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But there’s also a reason why seeing something cringeworthy feels like listening to fingernails running down a chalkboard. Here’s an explanation from Dr. Collins: 

“A lot of times, these feelings can come with anxiety and a fear of negative social evaluation. Anxiety can be distressing and may get in the way of whatever you’re doing in the moment.”

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Cringe Post Followed By A Funny

Cringe Post Followed By A Funny

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What Were They Thinking?

What Were They Thinking?

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Since secondhand embarrassment can be an anxiety trigger, Dr. Collins says it could be problematic if you’re already dealing with the disorder. 

“Witnessing someone else experiencing embarrassment could increase anxious thoughts about whether a similar experience could happen to you and activate your body’s stress response.”

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Facepalm

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Iampenny
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3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can confirm that period pain is worse, and I'm clumsy AF and have rolled my ankles a lot (even tore a ligament doing so)

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#12

Hysteria Has Always Been Everywhere

Hysteria Has Always Been Everywhere

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Sanne
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just the fact that the two rows are facing opposite sides should be enough of a clue that it's NOT a muslim prayer. They always pray facing Mekka.

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If vicarious embarrassment puts you on edge, Dr. Collins shared some tips on how to handle it properly. It begins with reframing emotions. 

“When we experience emotions that are uncomfortable, we often think they are ‘bad,’ and that makes us even more anxious as we try to get rid of it, increasing distress,” she explained.  

“It can help to have a more mindful approach by acknowledging how we are feeling in the moment without judgment and allowing the emotion to pass.”

#13

Dork A** Losers

Dork A** Losers

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Auntriarch
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, a dress that manages to almost reveal the capillaries, and magically perky booobs; a woman sculptor wouldn't have been my first guess either.

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#14

She Is Not The Cringe But Those 6k Neck Beards Are! I Freaking Love Her Idea

She Is Not The Cringe But Those 6k Neck Beards Are! I Freaking Love Her Idea

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Want Another Baby But Your Husband Doesn't? Just Get Him Drunk

Want Another Baby But Your Husband Doesn't? Just Get Him Drunk

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Dealing with anxiety is primarily about recognizing when it begins to manifest. This also applies to the distress from feeling secondhand shame. For this, Dr. Collins recommends the STOP technique.

This simple method involves four steps: stop what you’re doing, take a breath, observe what’s happening to your body, and proceed mindfully.

#16

Yikes

Yikes

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Virgil Blue
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My tale would be "mate, kindly p×ss off I'm having some quality alone time. Now away."

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#17

Imagine The Conversation

Imagine The Conversation

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Savahax
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Can I pet your muffin". I've gotten in trouble for WAY less at work

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As Dr. Collins explains, the STOP technique makes you effectively take notice when anxiety and self-judgment from secondhand embarrassment begin to creep in. 

“When we go down a rabbit hole with our thoughts and emotions, it can all end up being amplified. This STOP technique helps you move in a more helpful direction by pausing for a minute to stop whatever stream of thought you’re having.”

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So Much For Independent

So Much For Independent

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Those Damn Scorpios

Those Damn Scorpios

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However, some people don’t feel secondhand shame. But does that mean they lack empathy? Psychotherapist James Hartley has an answer to this question. 

“It could be that they are on the other end of the spectrum genetically, or their environment didn’t develop their empathy in childhood much, but it could also be that they have learned how to have boundaries with their sense of self,” Hartley told Refinery29.

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People Think That Negro Refers To The Racial Slur

People Think That Negro Refers To The Racial Slur

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Whitewashing

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Virgil Blue
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Evolution noticed those bits of skin were almost always out of the sun and decided to call it an day when applying the melanin.

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#25

I Hate This Sub But This Fits Here So

I Hate This Sub But This Fits Here So

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Sanne
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even if it was a woman, that cringy acting stuff is a turnoff for anyone. And in one text he goes from playing shy to ready to unzip his pants. That's not normal in any circumstance.

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#26

The Definition Of L

The Definition Of L

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SCamp
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am I right in saying the internship was subsequently rescinded as a result?

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#27

Literal Cringe Face

Literal Cringe Face

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HangryHangryHippo
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh damn! English is not my first language and maybe I'm missing something... but I'm assuming it was "puberty"?

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#28

Cardi B Approves This Message

Cardi B Approves This Message

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Sanne
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, this isn't a fun prank or something to applaud. It would be a nice joke if she venmo'd herself a few bucks, just to show what she could've done, but 2k could put this man into serious financial trouble. She's just an ordinary thief and he should get the police involved.

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#29

When You Just Want A Legitimate Business

When You Just Want A Legitimate Business

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Iampenny
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every Thai Massage salon in the town I live in here in Germany has a sign saying "no erotic" due to this.

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#33

How Does This Even Happen

How Does This Even Happen

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Savahax
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hahahahahaha "Yo gaby this is the surgeon" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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#34

Wow Real Help

Wow Real Help

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KaiPonpon
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You either pay us or the hospital! Your choice :) /j (hope that's the right tag, still learning)

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#35

Gatekeeping Children’s Names?

Gatekeeping Children’s Names?

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Cringe

Cringe

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think pronouns should be banned. I will never use a pronoun, especially in reference to me.

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#37

But I Have 11k Followers!

But I Have 11k Followers!

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What Is Even The Human Race Anymore

What Is Even The Human Race Anymore

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Vegans Forgot To Read Food Chain In Schhol

Vegans Forgot To Read Food Chain In Schhol

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Annik Perrot
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And tyrannosauruses ate grass. Wait, guess they don't believe in dinosaurs either...

Savahax
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course not. The earth is 6000 years old and "god" put the bones there to test our faith. It's the only logical explanation really

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WindySwede
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lions 3001 years ago: "mighty fine grass we are having today". Human: "Can I offer you some fava beans...?"

Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All those million of years before humans evolved, there were no predators and all animals walked around together, paw in paw.

Vix Spiderthrust
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not even that. This spatula reckons humans were vegetarian for nearly a hundred thousand years before we suddenly started eating meat three thousand years ago (about two thousand years after Judaism was established)

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Cindy Brick
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why not hop down into the tiger pen at the zoo, and announce that they need to stop killing and eating...because you did?

Ge Po
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And those forest fires are started by animals now too. Ever since we made the first fire, the animals have studied us and have tried to copy that. They have now gained the ability to starts fires too, just do not now how to extinguish them and our technology is way too advanced for them (fire-trucks and helicopters) and so we should actually all head out to the next forest fire with branches and shovels to put those fires out so the animals can learn to copy ... never mind. Got carried away in this fantasy a little too much, I guess.

Your Mom
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do you care about animals enough to go vegan but not enough to learn the most basic facts about them?

LakotaWolf (she/her)
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They're probably the kind of person who feeds their cat a vegan diet and then blames the vet for not "saving" their cat when it dies horribly of malnutrition.

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something
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if we don't stop, the alpha carnivore born of darkness will come and eat us all

Nicole Weymann
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Soooo we started it, and every carnivore out there mimicked us? Wow, we ARE an inspiration! Why didn't it work with sheep, ducks, elephants, camels, and bison? And why do they kill each other instead of focusing on the "actual" culprits? /S (in case that wasn't clear enough)

Linda Robinett
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, not even going into extinct animals but before humans came to the Americas, animals were eating animals.

Bill Marsano
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You've got it backwards. 3000 years ago man noticed animals killing and eating each other and thought, as he picked up a rock and snuck up behind a tiny and vulnerable hamstersaurus, "Why the heck not? Gotta be better than grass and roots for dinner every night."

Emie N.
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3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess before 3000 years ago, ancient humans were strictly vegan lol

Nix
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry, I'm still stuck on 3,000 years ago being the first time anyone ever ate an animal

imsouravmitra
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually like the way the guy thinks. Can be very useful for aspiring authors.

Bay Bo
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My last group of chickens ate their eggs..., before I could feed them to my kids....

Angelshark
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Friend, you have partaken of the stupid fruit. You should stop talking.

Miki
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3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After this one, i think half of my brain cells committed suicide.

BoredPossum
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, you ate my grandfathers grandfather's grandfather's cousin.

BMXemplary
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bill Hicks has a lot to answer for, but very little to say these days........

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Notice At An Anime Convention

Notice At An Anime Convention

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This Is A Classic "Ooof" Moment

This Is A Classic "Ooof" Moment

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Ellinor
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I shaved my hair everyone at my school asked me if it was : cancer, military, my parents forcing me... In their narrow minded heads it just couldn't have been by choice. (I precise that I was in a small countryside school and was previously in an art school so the difference between me and my classmates was WILD)

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That Is A Good Question

That Is A Good Question

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Nannychachi
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I swear I just wanna slap up on the underside of her chin and make her bite her tongue.

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This Would Haunt Me For The Rest Of My Life

This Would Haunt Me For The Rest Of My Life

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Pheyonagh
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More embarrassing than having your assets frozen and being sued by the uk dept of health? Bet she wish it was

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Sheesh

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Virgil Blue
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Better get tested for some other things too if that is the way you handle all your interactions.

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Height Of Stupidity

Height Of Stupidity

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Logic Not Found

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SerumSeven
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Excuse me, Mr. Waiter, sir? Will you please escort this woman out and bring me some pie?"

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Huh

Huh

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Break up with him, you'll be doing him a favour, getting your toxic a**e out of his life.

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