And mean what they say!

Lol, I just want to add that I had this experience as a woman with my ex, so yeah, guys do this too, maybe less often since they're taught to be more direct than women, but it exists. I hate that passive aggressive b******t

Being passive aggressive simply means you're downplaying your emotions. Flat out telling someone the complete opposite of what you want is playing MIND GAMES.

We play games because YOU make us. trust me if you let it be simple we'd be happy.

Well, when men say what they mean, women get butt-hurt and start World War III. A woman is willing to fight for hours, while the children are being neglected and the house is a mess (because women are emotionally-driven). A man will evaluate the situation and decide that there is no point wasting that kind of time, only to discover that nothing will change by the time the argument is over (since men are more logically-driven).

Juana, you confuse passive aggressiveness with someone not wanting to be your servant.

They love you when you're alone and ignore you when you're not.

Women do transference, too. It's called the above post.

When Men do say what we mean, you Women don't believe, or being needy, and pull away from us? Relationship Sabotage!

Yep guys play so many damn games or whe they are evasive about what they want and lead you in for a year in a half or say little saddle hunts that clearly mean something then when you bring it up they change the subject or walk away from you

Passive Aggressiveness is the bane of my existence. My ex boyfriend used to do that all the time. I would say "Where do you want to go to eat?" He would say "Oh, I don't care...Anywhere is fine"...."Are you SURE?" "Yes, Anywhere is fine"....I would say "Alright" and go to Red Robin.....30 min in and him picking at his plate I would say "What's wrong" and it would always be "Well, I really wanted to go to TGI-Fridays, Why didn't you pick that?" OOoooOOoooOoooOOOOooo How I spent over a year with that turd is beyond me.

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Juana, that would take away all of the excitement from the game of "Catch me if you can". :D