We all make decisions that we later end up regretting. Some are minor or even funny while others really impact our life negatively. Have you ever wished you could go back in time? Well, these people have.

Our community members were asked to share some bad decisions they regret making, and quite a bunch of them delivered. Scroll down to do some “eavesdropping” and see if you can relate.

#1

Procrastinating. I wanna stop, but maybe later?

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Half-Jewish-Doggo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lemme try to help. if you need to do something, start it now so you wont have to later. dont overwork yourself, you can take 5-10 minute breaks if youve done a good amount of work. if you want, get a lil candy to reward yourself :)

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#2

Staying at a job too long where I was unappreciated and paid crap wages, for no good reason other than it was familiar and the prospect of leaving it was scary.

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Sarah
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Understandable. Looking for a job is one of the suckiest activities a person can engage in.

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#3

Not visiting my relatives when I was a teenager because I wanted to look "cold and distant". Now many of my amazing and loving aunts, uncles and grandparents are dead, and I would give up anything to go back in time and hug them.

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#4

Not being able to say "no" when I should.

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AccioQueenFans
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try searching up some refusal skills. They help quite a lot. If you don't want to search 'em up, here are the refusal skills. 1. Say "No" in a strong voice but calmly 2. Just leave the situation 3. Suggest another idea 4. Try changing the subject

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#5

Not focusing too much on school when I should have

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#6

Stress eating, “eating my feelings”. Wish I could address my stress and anxiety better, and stop normalizing food as stress reduction.

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#7

overeating

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Meko
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see the problem here food is yummers but a good tip to lose weight is to climb a mountain in order to get food, that way u procrastinate and get so anxious that u lose weight and also realise this was all a dream and I didn't get enough sleep last night

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#8

Letting myself get used time and time again.

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#9

marrying the wrong person

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Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Im sorry for your experience, but I'm really glad that someone out there can understand me. I'm going through a lot right now and nobody understands me. It's hard, really had. And ther is nobody, literally nobody I can talk to. It's feels like I'm drowning

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#10

Trusting a fart after eating Mexican food.

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#11

Going to a huge 4-year uni instead of a CC. Costs were nuts and the teaching was impersonal

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#12

Not speaking my real feeling because it can sound harsh. It always ended up with me being hurt cause I’m too sensitive.

Boy, how great my life would be if I can speak it up.

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#13

When I bought my home, I put my husband on the deed even though the mortgage was in my name and my parents had given me the downpayment. He tried to get half when we divorced, but I reminded him that I paid off his student loans with my inheritance and he shut right up. I miss that house.

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A Cat Named Dragon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope young people here read this. So many of my friends and relatives made this same mistake. Just think seriously about the financial side of divorce before you get married or make any major decisions. Thank you for posting.

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#14

a messy room

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Meko
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS I mean my rooms not that messy *weirdly hops to other side of the room* *develops specific methods of walking across my smoll room* *can't close door* *finds treasure on the floor every day*

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#15

binge watching shows, and them missing them once i watched all the episodes later

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#16

Not caring about high school, I had no GPA in 11th grade. Still doing well in life but if I would have applied even anything back then who knows.

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#17

engaged in an online discussion

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Tracey Hirt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Arguing on the Internet is like playing chess with a pigeon. The pigeon craps all over the board and then struts around like it won.

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#18

Started "dating" too soon. It set the unstable pace for the rest of my emotional life. And led to worse decisions.

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Elvira Dirge
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I started becoming intensely interested in boys crazy early, like third grade. I often wonder if I had managed to focus more on friends and becoming my own person, could I have avoided a lot of the emotional trauma of trying to have serious relationships so early in middle anf high school. I think I was seeking approval where it came most easily at that time. I lucked way out finding my husband and having a real, healthy partnership.

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#19

Looked for happiness and left a high paying job to do things I wanted to do like travel, write and what not.

Now I am in a role that is not just annoyingly demanding but comparatively low paying.

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#20

Nearly committing suicide

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sylvanticx
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Has happened twice, and another time if i had a weapon. My mother found me disassembling razor blades to do it with once about a year ago, and around a month ago i had another incident where i REALLY wanted to but couldn't work up the nerve to just do it. i have scars from that day (testing out my weapon of choice on my wrists, which i lied aobut and claimed were papercuts). Depression is hard. I hope you feel better though, you deserve a good life.

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#21

50 years ago, I could have bought cakes of Red Seal pu’er tea in Hong Kong for about two bucks a cake. They had piles of them. Now one is worth about $300,000.

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Scott Crowell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep 34 years ago I could have put $500 into an empty prepaid cell phone business and had mu own territory. But hey it was just a passing fad right.

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#22

Staying with my mum when my parents split up

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Romery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ouch. im sorry about your parents. i know what its like to have a bad relationship with my mom.

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#23

Using the key once on my math homework. Now every time I can't complete it easily I get frustrated, remember how easy copying the key is, and copy it. I can not stop it's insane

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#25

Not going to college! I wish I had pursued my dream to be an avian vet; now I don’t have the time to do it.

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Terilee Bruyere
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's never too late! I went to college with a wonderful couple in their 60s that were working on their third degree (not meant as a pun). With online or correspondences courses available, you just need to find what works for you.

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#26

Staying with my family. My parents divorced and I stayed with mum, she overworked herself to the point where she had to retire early due to mental breakdown. Now she has crappy pension and (in her opinion) has to take care of Granny that can no longer walk. Since I started working along with attending Uni, I became far more straightforward and clearly say that I don't agree with that. She is exhausted and all she does is complain to me in the evening about everything at granny's. I love my family, they gave me and my brother what they could with the little we always had, but it's a while that I started to notice just how toxic this family actually is. Every little thing will either be ignored or start a both sided yelling fit, there is no room for healthy discussions, every time I wanted to raise a valid argument over something, it's ignored or I'm point blank told that someone like me (a stupid student that can't hold a job, I work with people, not really possible nowadays) should just shut up and leave if I don't like something and in the next breath they start to discuss when will we do the transfer of ownership of Granny's apartment (another issue altogether). I just can't, I'm exhausted, every little thing that happens at our place becomes my fault although I warned them it could happen. I just wish everything will be open again so I can at the very least escape to my job...

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Mary
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stay strong, you can get through this; It might not get better but you will be stronger or it will get sorted out somehow; trust me...

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#27

Trust a friend that pushed me in a lake causing me to get surgery on my foot.

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#28

Quitting a job after 20 years due to racial discrimination 🙁

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yut lung
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

nothing to regret. if they disrespect you, you report it and leave you can get another job, keep looking

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#29

Playing video games at school, I never got caught but now I can't sleep well.

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Cooky Puss
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Playing video games since I was 5 ...... a solid 40 years never did i cringe

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#30

I said my opinion on a character's sexuality in an anime because I think he's Bisexual (not proven and I even say that but it is a huge theory) and I started an entire war on a YouTube video with one comment that said "There is no way this character is straight"

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#31

Smoking 🤮

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#32

Deciding to drive to the hospital to see my dad for the last time. I wrote the car off, thankfully was not injured but could have avoided that accident by realising I was too emotional to drive.

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#33

being born

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Tina Smith
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have days like that too. Remember people do care and it does get better!

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#34

16 when a lit agent wanted to represent my novel. I told her I could only write short stories 😂🥺

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#35

Not attending an Amy Winehouse concert because I was too hungover and really didn't want to travel an hour to the venue. I never got another chance :(

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#36

I once saw a squirrel that had somehow got the wire of a bird feeder stuck between it's two front teeth and was hanging helplessly. Without thinking I cradled it's little body and helped it free its teeth. Once free it spun round and sank it's teeth clean through the fleshy part of my palm . It then shook around for about ten seconds (absolute agony) before hurtling off up a tree. Oh how the nurse laughed as she gave me my tetanus shot!

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Mary
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

next time take gloves :))) this is quite a nice story though I`m sorry it ended up badly for you

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#38

I'm going to tell myself that I'm going to play Minecraft for only 1-2 hours but i end up playing it for 5 hours

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#40

Making my bedtime too late. Now, it's really hard for me to go to sleep any earlier and I have to wake up early so I'm always tired. :|

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Phyzzi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look up "good sleep hygiene" and get some melatonin to take about an hour before when you want to go to sleep. Get yourself in the habit, and then keep the good sleep hygiene while letting your body take over melatonin production again.

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#41

Decided to make a curry last week. But instead of mild curry powder, put extra hot chilli powder instead. Guess I should have labled the containers. Fiance' was not happy.

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#42

accepting the job with the initial salary and not negotiating

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#43

Not studying enough
It's not too late to change this though

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Scagsy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good! Go for it! For some of us it is too late and you don't need those kind of regrets when you're having your mid-life crisis! lol

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#44

Agreeing to wash the whole team's rugby jerseys when they played on grass on a wet day. (Their team colours are white and Maroon)

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#45

I was accepted into a few colleges and chose the one further from home. After one year I transferred and all my credits didn’t transfer so I basically was a freshmen for 2 years due to my bad decision of just not going to the closer college in the first place.

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El Dee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The reality of adulthood. You have to make decisions without all/any of the facts. Sometimes this works out, sometimes not. You have no way to know what could be a problem therefore giving you no way to prepare. Life's crap like that..

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#46

Letting my father push me into computer science instead of graphic design when choosing a carreer path.

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Rena
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Become ui or ux designer! Knowing the basics of programming and being able to acknowledge/crate good design is the best.

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#47

i decided to skip pe for a day next pe class we were doing gymnastics and it was compulsory and they practiced in the class I missed so I had a sprained foot because I missed 1 pe class

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#48

I was my blind aunt's home health aide. She berated, was rude to me, and always tried to make me feel guilty for not giving her her pain pills when she wanted them. She would put me down to her friends and never was happy with anything I did. I knew I should have quit and gotten a different job, but I stayed and let her mistreat me. That was the worst decision of my life. I still suffer from low self esteem issues from that time in my life.

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Suzanne Haigh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not as unusual as you may think. The child who helps the most is usually the one disrespected, I know I have been there.

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#49

Not leaving relationships soon enough because I didn't want to go through the breakup phase.

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#50

When i didn't become friends with someone in my school. His name was lebron james.

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#51

eating lots of food

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#52

today... telling my colleagues at work that i once helped a young refugee with integration...

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#53

Spend all my money I got from my first ever job, I was trying to save up for a car but I've never had my own money so spend however I please. So it was nice to buy things I wanted (a pc, a new phone) but now I'm saving up for a car and going to be more strict about my spending habits due to the fact I really want a car. :)

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Scagsy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That sounds like a solid plan. Try not to worry about what you've spent - you can't unspend it. Focus on enjoying your purchases instead. I did the same with my first wage but I still have the watch I bought and I love it. It kinda reminds me about what I had to do to earn it. In a good way!

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#54

Being Born.

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Suzanne Haigh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This will pass and things will improve, try and think positive about yourself.

#55

drinking alcohol.

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#56

yeah, I can trust this fart...

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#57

Downloading Gacha-related stuff. I am too rooted in the community to ever stop. Ever. (Technically, its my sis's fault)

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#58

I was given the chance to fly a plane. I fricking hate myself for that

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Vanta Black
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn't very clear. Did you pass it up, or accept it? And was it real, or RC?

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#59

i got a lot of em.
repeatedly breaking the trust of those i love (not like commiting a crime, more like computer when not allowed).
Not taking my meds because "i can miss it just this once" and "eh i don't have water up here" or "i'm in bed already"
Less my fault, but not telling my mother that i'm not grabbing her because i'm joking around, i'm grabbing her because i have a bad headrush. if i'd told her, i wouldn't have hit my head on the table after fainting.
Overeating.
Staying up too late.
Not studying enough.
Not taking enough notes in class.
Procrastinating.
Breaking the "take care of yourself and your mental health and don't do dangerous things" contract.
The list goes on for miles, as most of my decisions are small and bad.

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Sarah
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That sounds rough. Start with one bad habit you can break; just one. Once you've conquered that, you'll feel better about yourself and more able to handle just one more...and then just once more.... Hope this helps.

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#60

Letting my dog get into my purse and letting it sniff around but instead it ate some pills, it died a week later 😭😭😭😭

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Aster Oli
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope that you can find someone or something to help

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#61

Not realizing I wasn’t cut out for romantic relationships and that the real treasure was friends and family until I was nearly 30.

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#62

not having a good voice if i did i could tell my sister to not want to move at 15 beacause our parents and family can die anytime and we need to spend as much gime with them as possible and she would take me serious

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#63

Swallowing something all at once. I mean, its not that bad since I didn't choke.

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Phyzzi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only thing worse is swallowing something not all at once... but also still connected.

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#65

Bitcoin

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Scagsy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup. Same. Very disappointing. Coulda been a gazillionaire by now and bought an island or something.

#66

I was on a toxic meme app for a while (it was full of racists, homophobes, transphobes ect.). I once posted something expressing myself (not a meme), big mistake. I'll tell you the full story, so, I am an insecure person, there's so many things I hate about myself and I wish I could change. I've never been open to my family about it and this was one social media platform that my family was not on. I've always kept it bottled up inside me for so long. I made a picture, just a blank picture with a text saying "when someone doesn't know how to respond to a compliment, it means they think you're lying to make them feel better, and when they compliment you it's because they don't want you to feel the same way they feel" and I posted it, on a toxic meme app...I got a lot of hate comments, only like 3 people actually cared. People were all just joking about it, but the worst thing is I actually started a huge argument because I was so pissed at these people, I was literally trying to express myself, and everyone hated me for it, and the one argument I was in was really ugly, this person kept calling me homophobic slurs and other mean stuff and then after everything calmed down they acted like it was nothing..

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Cynner
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's the shitty thing of internet... You will not get the response you hope for, i am sorry it backfired. But if you don't like yourself, wishing you were different, why don't you get some professional help? You don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to. It helped me, i wish i did it yeaaarsss ago. I worked so hard for others and denied my own needs and feelings, i had a massive burnout at 28. You yourself is the most important person in this world, be nice for yourself and for you to do that, you have to take care of yourself. And stop going to toxic forums, stop going to toxic anyting.

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#67

I had a college assignment that required us to compile our notes into one document. They said we could use some of each other’s notes for extra detail or incase we missed anything. I went a bit too far with copying my classmates stuff. I wasn’t thinking. We both got called in for cheating. I nearly cried. Thankfully he was a really nice teacher and let me redo the assignment.

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#68

Not being born two weeks earlier than my actual birthday. My great grandpa passed away two weeks before i was born and i honestly hate myself for it. I wish i got to meet him everyday of my life and all of my other friends like to make fun of me for not being able to meet him. They all have met theirs though.

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Vanta Black
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No need to feel bad about something you weren't in control of. Also, why the hell would anyone make fun of someone not getting to meet their great grandfather? How weird are your "friends"?

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