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There are lots of benefits to living in an apartment versus a house. Security, convenience, more amenities, lower maintenance, a sense of community, and often it’s more affordable. Recent data reveals that around 38% of American renters reside in apartment blocks. But staying in such close proximity to other people also has its downsides. Less space, landlord or body corporate restrictions, and of course, limited privacy.

There’s an online community dedicated to sharing the joys and sorrows of apartment living. It has over 110,000 members posting tips and tricks about anything from decorating, to dealing with landlords, to maximizing space. What really caught our eye were some of the horror stories apartment dwellers have had to deal with.

From neighbor’s complaints about snoring, to cigarette butts landing on their balcony, and even cars crashing through the wall. Some people are dealing with the most. Keep scrolling for Bored Panda’s best picks from r/Apartmentliving, and don’t forget to upvote your favorites.

#2

Not My Neighbor But Love This

Not My Neighbor But Love This

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is sweet, maybe the only "nightmare neighbors" here are those who keep their music loud late at night; when others are sleeping. But it doesn't always work so well; we've had neighbors for 6 years who'd play music loudly and often outdoors, until 2am, sometimes 5am. My husband is in a high-up position at a medical facility and gets called in at any odd hours of any day (in addition to his regular working schedule). Sadly my many quiet, sweet pleads did nothing... Only when recently I started using the weed-eater, lawnmower, miter saw, edger, basically any power tool of our arsenal outside during their many frequent, obnoxious parties...did they stop 😅😹 I never wanted to be that person but they pushed me to "fight fire with fire"

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Cigarette Butts From Upstairs Neighbor On My Patio

Cigarette Butts From Upstairs Neighbor On My Patio

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time to get a pool-cleaning net (some thick gloves!) scoop them up and toss them back!! Also maybe some umbrellas... I do recognize that this is completely disgusting and disrespectful behavior, but also know 98% of landlords will do nothing about it...

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Scrolling through this list of horrors brought back memories of my own apartment dwelling dramas. And boy, have I had a few. Personally, I prefer living in a free-standing house. Partly because I have a pet, and partly because I love my privacy and space. When I say pet, what I mean is a furkid. Anyone who knows me knows how much I love my dog.

So imagine my surprise when I got an unexpected knock on my door one random Friday morning and found an animal welfare inspector standing there, alongside a security guard. Completely confused, and very convinced they were at the wrong apartment, I asked how I could assist.

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Upstairs Neighbors Pouring Water All Over Balcony

Upstairs Neighbors Pouring Water All Over Balcony

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...this seems reasonable?? I would not like my cats, husband or I randomly doused in water (the dear cats would hate it 10,000x more than us, trust me) but also...that thumbnail... 😬 Time to find a new nail tech

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#6

Drunk Neighbor Just Drove Through Our Bedroom And Condemned Our Apartment. Landlord Won’t Answer Our Or The Police’s Calls And Now I Have Nowhere To Live

Drunk Neighbor Just Drove Through Our Bedroom And Condemned Our Apartment. Landlord Won’t Answer Our Or The Police’s Calls And Now I Have Nowhere To Live

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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Old a*s stolen pics posted as new story by some loser who likes make sh*t up for likes.

EJN
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as the neighbor is paying... talk to a lawyer. They should have to pay your hotel bills until you can locate housing.

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“I’m here to investigate a complaint, mam,” came the reply. To which I confidently told him that he must have my apartment confused with another. The inspector glanced down at his notes, repeated my apartment number and told me that he was definitely at the right place.

At this point, my very healthy and happy “velcro dog” was right at my feet, seemingly just as confused as me. Mind you, I did notice the inspector checking the dog out, with a slightly perplexed look.

#7

Here’s A Good One… Last Month My Lovely Downstairs Neighbor Taped This To My Door

Here’s A Good One… Last Month My Lovely Downstairs Neighbor Taped This To My Door

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Eroe Infinito
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally should reply with, "My child passed away tragically last year...." Both to mess with them and for the Halloween season. :p

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#8

Is Leaving This Note On My Neighbor’s Door Too Harsh Or Not Harsh Enough??

Is Leaving This Note On My Neighbor’s Door Too Harsh Or Not Harsh Enough??

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#9

Is This An Acceptable Note To Leave My Neighbor That’s Smoking In A Smoke Free Building?

Is This An Acceptable Note To Leave My Neighbor That’s Smoking In A Smoke Free Building?

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To cut a long and crazy story short, it turns out “someone” had reported me for leaving my dog alone at home for days on end. The inspector was very satisfied that this wasn’t the case, and that my dog was living his best life, at times believing he too was human.

I obviously had more than enough proof that I’d not gone away. I also allowed the inspector to check the dog, his food and treats cupboard, water bowl, sleeping quarters (my bedroom), etc. I had my dog's up-to-date vet card at hand, as well as great photos and references to prove my competence as a pet owner. The inspector didn't ask for these but did apologize for his visit, adding that he often has to waste time and resources being called out to complexes, for nothing in particular.

#10

Ex Kicked A Hole Through My Door And I Was Quoted $675

Ex Kicked A Hole Through My Door And I Was Quoted $675

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Ripley
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That door is literally made of cardboard. How can it possibly be $675?!?

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#11

Well This Is Embarrassing

Well This Is Embarrassing

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#12

New Apartment Building Drama

New Apartment Building Drama

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Alex
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn't that legislation in most countries? I mean, probably not generally until 8AM, but asking neighbours to be quiet during the night is reasonable enough.

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When I posted about my experience on the complex WhatsApp group chat (don’t get me started on those), I received a very rude direct message. The guilty party told me they’d been “watching” me since I moved in and that I am “never at home”.

I found this quite amusing but also infuriating since I am at home 90% of the time – and how would they know whether I was or wasn’t. I responded by telling them to up their stalking game because I’ve been home the whole week, and I’m currently typing this message from my lounge. "Can you see me now, Karen?"

#13

Neighbors Letting Homeless Man Sleep In Front Of My Door

Neighbors Letting Homeless Man Sleep In Front Of My Door

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TribbleThinking
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ummm, I think that's a portable barbecue at his feet. If he lights it indoors, it's a quick way to potentially kill you all with carbon monoxide poisoning.

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#14

My Upstairs Neighbor Dropped Something Super Heavy And These Popped Up Through My Entire Ceiling

My Upstairs Neighbor Dropped Something Super Heavy And These Popped Up Through My Entire Ceiling

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm very curious, are these nails/screws/other fasteners that popped out of some framework..?? The spacing is even enough to suggest so... But the easiness with which they popped through that,...."ceiling" leads me to believe this happened in America (I say as an American 🙃)

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#15

Only Fire Extinguisher In The Hallway Did Not Pass Inspection 3 Months Ago Md, USA

Only Fire Extinguisher In The Hallway Did Not Pass Inspection 3 Months Ago Md, USA

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time to call some authorities. Not even in a petty way, but, peoples' lives could actually be in in danger .-.

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A bit more back and forth, and it emerged that my lovely neighbor had assumed my long absence because she hadn’t seen a car parked in my parking bay for a while. And at one point, she had heard the dog barking. As I reminded her, I have a front door. You’re able to knock on it, or slip a note underneath.

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What I should have said was “Never Assume, it makes an A*s of U and Me”. One of my very funny friends later advised me to park my son’s toy car in the bay, to avoid any of this ever happening again.

#16

Note To Upstairs Neighbors With Kids

Note To Upstairs Neighbors With Kids

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Upstaged75
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My upstairs neighbors have a kid who apparently can't walk anywhere based on the constant running I hear. Even worse they stomp around like elephants. I call them the Stompersons. The kid is Stompy junior. :)

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#17

My Neighbor Returned A Stolen Package 1 Year Later

My Neighbor Returned A Stolen Package 1 Year Later

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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do you know it was a neighbour and not the parcel company losing it?

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#18

My Ceiling Fan Fell On Me While I Was Sleeping

My Ceiling Fan Fell On Me While I Was Sleeping

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In another incident, three actually, my dog was getting bouts of violent illness. The kind where you find yourself wanting to throw up while cleaning up. I thought it strange because I hadn’t fed him anything weird. He and I hadn’t done anything out of the ordinary. He hadn’t been in contact with sick dogs, and was fully vaccinated. It all made sense when I caught an upstairs neighbor throwing food scraps (old meat) from her balcony into the garden of my ground floor apartment.

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I’d like to believe the elderly woman was doing this with good intentions. As angry and disgusted as I was, I decided to take a calm approach. I kindly informed her that her “generosity” was making my dog sick, and if she wanted to give him any treats, she should please ask me first. She understood, apologized never did it again, and we were able to live happily ever onwards.

#22

Landlord Is Charging Me $8000 To Replace Floors

Landlord Is Charging Me $8000 To Replace Floors

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#23

Someone Left Butter (??) On My Door

Someone Left Butter (??) On My Door

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Loving thy neighbor is often easier said than done. A recent LendingTree survey found that 1 in 4 Americans can’t stand their neighbor. Almost half say it’s because the guy or girl next door is unfriendly or rude. 31% say they make too much noise, and 29% say they live next door to someone who just can’t mind their own business. Around 3 in 10 millennials have even packed up their belongings and moved because of a problem neighbor.

#25

Woke Up To A Lovely Note On My Car This Morning— I’m Parked In My Assigned (Paid For) Parking Spot

Woke Up To A Lovely Note On My Car This Morning— I’m Parked In My Assigned (Paid For) Parking Spot

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#26

I Come Out This Am With My Dog And See The Cleaning Lady At My Complex Spraying Down The Mailboxes With A Hose On Full Blast 🤦🏻‍♂️

I Come Out This Am With My Dog And See The Cleaning Lady At My Complex Spraying Down The Mailboxes With A Hose On Full Blast 🤦🏻‍♂️

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#27

Do You Think I Can Ask For Reimbursement On This?

Do You Think I Can Ask For Reimbursement On This?

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Weltschmerz
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had this happen to me me at an air bnb whilst on holiday in Italy at 12am!! Was not fun.

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#28

The Building Next To Mine Got New Outdoor Lights… This Is Now My Bedroom At 2am

The Building Next To Mine Got New Outdoor Lights… This Is Now My Bedroom At 2am

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Cee Cee
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A social housing landlord installed a bulkhead light on a house opposite me. Unbelievably bright and completely unnecessary as the street is very well lit. Months of back and forth. Emailed the CEO x 2. Finally the light was disconnected last month.

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#29

Neighbor Threw All This Trash Out Her Window And Keeps Throwing More. Today's Friday, And Management Won't Be Available Until Monday

Neighbor Threw All This Trash Out Her Window And Keeps Throwing More. Today's Friday, And Management Won't Be Available Until Monday

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they are clearing the apartment, that might be the easiest way to get everybody downstairs, maybe to skip the bags later? If just left there then there is a problem.

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#30

The Dumpsters Behind My Apartment Building Have Not Been Emptied In 3.5 Weeks

The Dumpsters Behind My Apartment Building Have Not Been Emptied In 3.5 Weeks

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Vermonta
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have contractors that take ours. Perhaps they have not been paid.

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#31

Downstairs Neighbor Came To My Door At Midnight After Throwing Rocks At My Window And Calling Me A C***

Downstairs Neighbor Came To My Door At Midnight After Throwing Rocks At My Window And Calling Me A C***

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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he has an issue he needs to ask management to address it. If it is 2 am and the noise is to loud he can call the police. This is scary and dangerous. I would report this to management.

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#32

Saw This When I Came Out This Morning

Saw This When I Came Out This Morning

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, at least it's that person's problem..?? 🤷 They're obviously stuck on the gate with their personal vehicle, without damage to anything else, and I believe that's a patrol car to the left

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#33

My Entire Ceiling Collapsed Last Night

My Entire Ceiling Collapsed Last Night

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IORN
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks like it was glued. And not too much glue, at that.

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#34

Found This Note On My Door. How Do I Walk Around In My Apartment Without Bothering This Person?

Found This Note On My Door. How Do I Walk Around In My Apartment Without Bothering This Person?

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arthbach
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of the first ways is to make sure you don't wear shoes inside. Then put down rugs and carpets. And no stomping.

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Bathroom Roof Collapsed In The Middle Of The Night. I Live In Texas. I Have No Idea Who To Call In Case Of Emergency And I'm Kinda Freaking Out Since Idk If That's Black Mold And If I Can Spend The Night Here Tonight. What Can I Do? Sorry If It's Not The Right Place I'm Just Scared

Bathroom Roof Collapsed In The Middle Of The Night. I Live In Texas. I Have No Idea Who To Call In Case Of Emergency And I'm Kinda Freaking Out Since Idk If That's Black Mold And If I Can Spend The Night Here Tonight. What Can I Do? Sorry If It's Not The Right Place I'm Just Scared

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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the roof collapsed all the sudden then it's probably water damage so I would say yeah it's black mold. Call your landlord?

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#36

Woman In My Building Has Police Called On Her Routinely For Abuse Of Her Children, One Disabled. She Left This In Public Space

Woman In My Building Has Police Called On Her Routinely For Abuse Of Her Children, One Disabled. She Left This In Public Space

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#38

The Main Door To My Building Doesn’t Lock And The Main Door To My Apt Is Hollow With Just A Lock Knob… I Feel Like This Isn’t Right I’m In Nh. First Apt. Please Give Me Insight On A Girl Living Alone

The Main Door To My Building Doesn’t Lock And The Main Door To My Apt Is Hollow With Just A Lock Knob… I Feel Like This Isn’t Right I’m In Nh. First Apt. Please Give Me Insight On A Girl Living Alone

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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Buy a chain lock...or multiple. This is scary AF no matter where you live or who you are.

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#39

I (26m) Found A Huge Roach In My New Apartment

I (26m) Found A Huge Roach In My New Apartment

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Curious As To What The “Formal Complaint To The Leasing Office” Would Look Like…

Curious As To What The “Formal Complaint To The Leasing Office” Would Look Like…

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oil a mattress? Never heard of that. And what specifically have they been up to between 2:30 and 4:00 am?

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#41

Not Sure How To Feel About This Or Go About Handling It

Not Sure How To Feel About This Or Go About Handling It

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not want any text tattooed on my body by that person, tentents, coast, underdstand, startel.

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#42

Neighbor Parking Issue: How Do I Deal With This?

Neighbor Parking Issue: How Do I Deal With This?

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Put the note back on their car? Obviously they're the ones closest to the line ..but maybe put it back with some maple syrup.. 😈

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#43

My Upstairs Neighbor Attacked My Apartment And Broke Our Window

My Upstairs Neighbor Attacked My Apartment And Broke Our Window

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#44

Update To Lady Downstairs Harassing Us

Update To Lady Downstairs Harassing Us

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

..update to what original problem?? Do you actually have trash and/or abandoned vehicle?? Needs context :p

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#45

Neighbor Left A Note On My Door…

Neighbor Left A Note On My Door…

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Sara Frazer
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"obnoxioff"?? Does it say "obnoxious, PLEASE turn it off", perhaps?? I'd need to see this "patio decor" in question because I've seen my fair share of obnoxious decor in my life, including a neighbor who previously had a floodlight beaming right into our living room window. Luckily we were able to hang blackout curtains and place tall plants in front of that window, and that neighbor has since moved. But be considerate of others, especially in close living spaces! We wished we didn't have to hang thick curtains in front of our window, we love the natural lighting

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#46

My Friend Parked My Car And Got Me This LOL

My Friend Parked My Car And Got Me This LOL

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My Neighbour Is Disgusting…

My Neighbour Is Disgusting…

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Bambi
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's two bags closed up they will take it out, they may be swamped with something, this is not bad. If it was trash everywhere maybe but this.....no..

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