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We often hear the notion that you should try everything at least once, especially when peer pressure comes into play. But it's not really valid, or healthy. Still, there's some expectation that people should just universally want to do some things that are considered 'milestones'.

Well, one user on Reddit was wondering what people absolutely refuse to try even once, aka their "anti-bucket list" items. There's no need to have an excuse not to do something - "No" is a full sentence - though these people still made some very valid and interesting points.

Maybe they're missing out on the hype, maybe they're protecting their sanity, but over 4k people shared their biggest 'nopes' in this thread, and Bored Panda selected the most popular answers. Scroll down and and let us know if you find these relatable, or maybe they are actually on your bucket list? Either way, don't forget to upvote your favorites, and make sure to share what you would never ever try in the comments below! And if you want to read more stories on a similar topic, here's our post on things people actually did, but would never do again.

#1

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Having children. I'm not passing on my fibromyalgia or any of my sucky genes. I have my own under control very well, but I just can't put someone else through that. I refuse. Plus I'd rather have freedom, than take care of children. I don't hate them or anything, but mom life isn't for me. Neither is married life.

DetectiveSnickers , Marisa Howenstine Report

#2

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Climbing mount Everest. Too cold, not enough oxygen, too many dead bodies. I don't get why people feel the need to do it/try, but I sure don't, ESPECIALLY after watching Everest. Nope.

HigherMind9200 , watchsmart Report

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Daniel Atkins
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m glad I read this cause I was thinking I’d do this but this list changed my mind ;)

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29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Cave-diving. Crawling through very small, dark spaces and chances of getting stuck and suffocating down there. With almost no way of calling for help, if u did it alone. Even if you were with someone there is still not much time to get help if you are stuck. No sir, I am never gonna do that.

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#4

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Cigarettes. My grandfather passed away from lung cancer and was a heavy smoker back in the day. The fact that he didn't smoke for so long before he was diagnosed really shows how bad smoking is. The thought of cigarettes and even seeing others smoke repulses me and I never want to try one.

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M Calad
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As an ex-smoker, I can say this to whoever feels like trying: don't. It's the stupidest vice ever. You'll be literally paying to slowly make yourself sick and possibly have a gruesome death. All just for a short stress/anxiety/boredom relief. Smoking will always hunt you. It is always lurking around your subconscious mind waiting for the right trigger to come back with full force. It will never leave you; you just learn to ignore it and replace it with something healthier. But it's there. I willingly paid for it to be there. My biggest regret. Get a hobby instead. Learn EFT or meditation or other ways to deal with stress and anxiety peaks. Thank you for reading my TED-talk. Merry Christmas!

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#5

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Spelunking! I'm so claustrophobic that even thinking about being in a tight cave gives me the chills.

nownowthethetalktalk , Dave Bunnell Report

#8

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What SURSTRÖMMIMG
Or as others know it, the Swedish rotten fish.

anon , Lapplaender Report

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Gremlan jonnson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It really just tastes salty, smells more foul than I have words to describe though

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#9

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Casu marzu. You couldn't pay or bribe me with anything.

AvsMama , Shardan Report

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ShyWahine
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope. Nope, Nope. Hard pass. Just Google'd it: translates as rotten cheese in Sardinian including wriggling maggots and their cheesy excretions.

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#10

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Going on a cruise. I get seasick really easily. Like REALLY easily. I’m also very introverted so the idea of being stuck on a boat with a bunch of strangers while barfing myself to death sounds like torture.

RackhamJack , Jeff VanLandingham Report

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Stardust she/her
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I also don’t want the ship to sink. I’ve had a fear of being anywhere in or near a body of water ever since I was 5

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#11

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Balut

Not_quite_a , Charles Haynes Report

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Kat O.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For those wondering, Balut is a fertilized developing egg embryo that is boiled or steamed and eaten from the shell.

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#12

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Drunk driving. I live in Wisconsin and the number of people who do it is astounding to me.

RufRufRufio , why kei Report

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JB
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Illinoisan here, can confirm, but also seems like more drunk driving everywhere since the pandemic.

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#14

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Drinking alcohol. I don't like saying this because it sounds whiny, but i've had too much problems in my life and i'm afraid i would find alcohol as a solution and get a bigger problem.

HeavyWeath3r , joyce Mutesva Report

#15

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Energy Drinks.

Main reason: they smell awful to me. I don't care if they taste better than they smell, they'd still probably taste horrible.

Not-Sure24 , Jeff Siepman Report

#16

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Sky Diving

PandaGod2003 , Kamil Pietrzak Report

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M Calad
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I did skydiving twice. You are attached to your instructor's front side. You take off the plane backwards, so the instructor literally "pushes" you out of the plane... like "ok, set ready GO!" And off you are. Yes, terrifying. The first few seconds when your body is registering that is falling are the most violent. You can feel all the cells in your body screaming, and there's nothing you can do to help them. Then... then you feel nothing because suddenly you... float. In other words, you reached constant acceleration so you no longer feel you are falling. And that feeling is amazing, it can't be described. It's like being in a rollercoaster: adrenaline, speed, body sensations, the vacuum in your stomach. But it doesn't last long as the parachute needs to open after a minute or so. Then gliding with the parachute is just... out of this world. You see the world below so big, so magnificent, so green, so pure... and all is silence around you. Pure crystal clear silence.

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#17

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Deep sea diving. I know whats down there, and id rather not go say hi.

CLTalbot , Kris-Mikael Krister Report

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Ivanh
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a diver...i'm going to say that you don't know what's actually down there. It's amazing, peaceful and just another world. I've introduced so many people to diving and even just snorkeling that regret ever having the view that the ocean is a terrifying place and that they would never dive and they couldn't wait the go again. But yeah yesterday's dive with sea turtles was truly terrifying and horrible experience 😛

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#18

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What That stupid amusement park ride where you look like you're bungee jumping to your death. No, thank you.

Lulu_42 , momentcaptured1 Report

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#19

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Weed. My roommates are major pot heads and they're always trying to get me to smoke with them. But I'm just not interested. That's some of the grossest s**t I've ever smelled in my life. To each their own, it's just not for me.

troysplay , Matthew Brodeur Report

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JB
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's an acquired taste, just like alcohol and coffee. I'd posit it's healthier than alcohol. (All should be done in moderation)

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#20

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Instagram

thisyourspecialBUSH , Solen Feyissa Report

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Tams21
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why Instagram in particular? All social media has its downsides but I don't think think Instagram is worse than any other.

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#21

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What A quiji board

Im-addicted-to-memes , jmawork Report

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DC
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

... issued and sold by a board game company. And that tells all that is to tell about these.

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#22

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Chitlins

chabs1965 , stu_spivack Report

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Natasha
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is this? I’m too scared to Google it (edit) thanks so much for telling me…..I did not want to have to look for it. I just knew it’d be bad!

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#23

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Lobster. Not vegetarian but the thought of how its cooked and breaking it open to get to the meat gives me the heeby jeebys.

MostlyInTheMiddle , David Todd McCarty Report

#24

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Karaoke. Not enough alcohol in the world.

To be clear, I have nothing against karaoke, I just know full well that I would suck at it. Ergo, not on my bucket list.

dr_tess , Brandi Alexandra Report

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#25

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Tattoo

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JB
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just can't commit to something permanent on my skin for life. Nothing is that profound or meaningful, I change and grow

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#26

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What A durian fruit. I can't get past the smell.

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Jay Son
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bought one once when on vacation in China. Stank like hell but though the taste was pretty good.

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#27

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Contact lenses. Eyes are not meant to be touched.

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ShyWahine
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

IKR? touching my eyeball creeps me out - I can't do it.

Derek Sandoval
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't have to touch your eye to put in contacts. If fact the optometrist specifically tells you not to touch your eye like come on why would you poke yourself in the eye

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Adeline D.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wear them on (almost) a daily basis, compared to glasses they're a real life changer.

Empresslockness
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! I remember finally getting contact lenses and it was so amazing to not have to worry about my glasses fogging up or getting wet in the rain. I have been wearing glasses since I was 9 years old and lasik is not a viable option as I would need two procedures in each eye. So contact lenses are great.

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Zull&Panda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well. This is when the list starts to include regular activities that millions of people do everyday and they really can be overcome easily, so...I'm out

Bob La Capra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had cataract surgery on both eyes a month apart. Going in for the first one was the hardest thing I've ever done...I was voluntarily letting someone poke me in the eye with a very sharp object. But, I survived with no complications so the second one was much easier.

Bec
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wore contacts for years but my eyes were starting to get damaged and decided to stop. I am impossible to get the glaucoma test where they puff air in your eye, as soon as I sit down at the machine my eyes start blinking like crazy.

Elisa Arden
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You get used to it. I've been so tired I've forgotten I already took them out and just dragged my finger all over my cornea and then tugged on the membrane only to realize my mistake.

Seaweed Vibes
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Technically you never touch your eye. You touch the contact which then touches your eye. You never touch the eyeball.

Philly Bob
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've worn them for 10 years or more. Never had a problem once I learned how to get them in properly.

Diana Pahule
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could, but I can barely get eyedrops in my eyes. Putting my finger on my eye just isn't going to happen.

Raccoon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk if something’s wrong with me, but I can totally touch my eye without flinching or anything. It really creeps people out lol

Auntriarch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hehehe when I had contact lenses I used to tap them with a fingernail to worry people.

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Leo Domitrix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oddly, I'm fine with this, but I respect the no-way-no-how people have about it.

Oops
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I ruined my eyes in the 1970ths with the hard glassy ones - when there was only a little dust corn under them, they rubbed my lens totally, i have a look now like through a star lens, everything is weird now.

O.M.Miki
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got lasik surgery - best choice ever. But still like wearing colored contacts for fun ;)

Riley Quinn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never could wear these blasted things. Several cornea abrasions later, I resigned myself to wearing glasses.

Jane W.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eyes are only touched by the soft lens and solution. But putting them in was not the worse of it. It was WEARING them all day. 18 months of trying and gave it up.

Joel “Pop” Henslee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

6 months ago I had a cornea transplant due to contacts. Throw out your case every 30 days.

sylvantic
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

tell that to 4 year old me who would touch her own eyeballs for fun. i was a weird kid.

Kaitlyn Najvar
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i have contacts and for some reason i love touching my eye with my contacts on, its soothing

No Name
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agreed, but for opposite reasons: I have to rub, rinse, and dig c**p out of my eyes entirely too much for them to be safe. My eyelashes contribute more to the problem than they help.

Jessica J.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My eyes are just too dry...I tried them for awhile, but could only leave them in up to 4 hours, so it wasn't worth it.

Jewels737
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dailies are a game changer if you've never tried them. Throw them away every night & your eyes will get more oxygen so they aren't as drying.

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Angeline Shalyn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I started wearing contacts about a month ago and I kinda miss my glasses, I developed a nasty eye infection because of them

Virgil Blue
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had them for years and after getting used to them for a few days, you don't really feel them. But now my allergies have changed and my tears are more acidic (I think) and soft lenses tend to turn opaque after a few days. So glasses for life I guess.

Jewels737
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get dailies. You throw them out every night, fresh ones every day. So...no clouding & they're way healthier for your eyes.

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Natasha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ex husband couldn't even watch me put the in, however, I'm a huge fan

Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yea no thanks. Can't even look at my friend doing it and even the picture here gives me slight anxiety

Powerful Katrinka
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish that I could still wear them. There are so many problems with my eyes now that contacts can't begin to correct them. I seem to be farsighted and nearsighted in the same eye, and at the same time.

RMA
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really really hope for you that your retina never starts to detach. Traumatic.

RMA
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m being serious, not snarky. It is the ultimate in having your eyeball touched and it is dreadful.

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Paulo Freitas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got them once even today, almost 25 or 26 years after i got them, i still cry the 120€ that i spent on them ( well not 120€ but the equivalent to )

CrazyKnitter
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't even look at this photo, it makes me literally hyperventilate. Eyes definitely cause so much anxiety for me, I'll keep my glasses, thanks very much. Plus, extra protection!

Stardust she/her
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can easily touch my eyes but I’m afraid that if I blink too hard I may break it while it’s still on my eye

Mike Soigne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dumb. I wasn't meant to be blind, and it's not always possible to wear glasses. "You" can't even feel them once they're in.

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29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Work on stage somehow like an actor or singer.

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#29

29 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Will Never, Ever Do, No Matter What Coffee, I hate bitter things and I know by the smell I won't like it.

X0AN , Devin Avery Report

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Kimba
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the smell of coffee, but I hate the taste of it. Every since I tried a moccachino, I can't start my day without one of some sort.

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