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Hey Pandas, AITA For Overreacting About This Payment Location Mix-Up?
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Hey Pandas, AITA For Overreacting About This Payment Location Mix-Up?

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Hi Pandas! I need honest feedback. I (59F) went with my husband of almost 40 years to a phone store to grab a charger. It was a satellite store, not a company store. That apparently makes a difference.

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    A week or so later, my husband calls me at work and asks me about a $42 purchase on our credit card

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    I told him how to check charges he’s not familiar with. That’s when he told me, “I did. I’m confused.” When I asked why, he told me the date, amount and location.

    It was a sleazebag nasty motel that no one in the know ever goes to!

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    Image credits: Daniel Gregoire (not the actual photo)

    I was confused as I recognized the purchase date and amount as the phone charger.
    I called the phone store and the ‘manager’ said the person who sold me the charger was staying at the motel and his swipe square ‘must have registered that location’!

    In that area there are over 100 businesses, fast food, small stores, restaurants and the motel is about a half mile away!

    Image credits: Lakeisha Bennett (not the actual photo)

    To say I was mad is an understatement!
    Not so much for myself. My husband laughed and said if I were to go to a hotel during the day, it would be a $300 a night not $42 a night c**p place! He’s right! Haha, after 40 years, he knows me!

    But seriously, what if a woman or man had come home from work and encountered a jealous spouse? A violent, angry spouse or partner?

    Sadly, it takes a hell of a lot less for people to be abused in DV incidents and I called the management company of the phone store. They said it’s independently owned, not really ours! But I see the bright red V signs everywhere!!! I called the local news, no one… NO ONE gave a damn! Apparently, I am being overly dramatic?

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    My husband and I feel that it is only a matter of time before someone gets hurt, but according to everyone I called, I am making a big deal out of nothing.
    Note: the credit card bill only had the date, the amount and the address of the sleazebag motel. There is no other business at the address of the motel. It stands alone in its own parking lot.

    This situation happened over a year ago, but it still haunts me. I thought I would share. Thanks, Pandas for your feedback.

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    Hello Pandas! My name is Ieva, though it's often mistaken for the word 'Leva,' and in Lithuanian, it means 'loser' (insert the pain emoji). While I don't take offense if you accidentally call me a loser, I thought I'd share something interesting with you, which I also do professionally at work.Anywayyy, my favorite part here is introducing you to creative people who deserve just as much recognition as famous celebrities. Besides that, I also enjoy memes and funny, lighthearted posts, and occasionally, I find myself drawn to a bit of internet drama.

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    Ieva Midveryte

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    Hello Pandas! My name is Ieva, though it's often mistaken for the word 'Leva,' and in Lithuanian, it means 'loser' (insert the pain emoji). While I don't take offense if you accidentally call me a loser, I thought I'd share something interesting with you, which I also do professionally at work.Anywayyy, my favorite part here is introducing you to creative people who deserve just as much recognition as famous celebrities. Besides that, I also enjoy memes and funny, lighthearted posts, and occasionally, I find myself drawn to a bit of internet drama.

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    Strawberry Pizza
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no idea what this story is supposed to be about, it is incomprehensible to me. Can someone please explain what is going on in this article??

    Mike F
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, they have no grasp of the ins and outs of debit/credit card procedures. They don't appear (typically) until the processing device "settles" or batches. And often the name is incomprehensible and the cardholder needs to search via the phone number that accompanies the entry. It can be maddening but when you make purchases at a kiosk rather than a brick and mortar shop you should be prepared to turn over a lot of rocks to determine the actual name of the business because that often is VERY different from the d/b/a.

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    54 s
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In this case, it's probably not a big deal but, in addition to op's concerns, it could cause problems if you have to dispute the charge for some reason. Or if it were a business purchase with a company card.

    Jessica Shookhoff
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Considering the very real fear many people trapped in DV situations live in, I think an overreaction is far better than an under-reaction! I have to wonder if the motel owner is the same person that owns the kiosk, and used the motel address for the kiosk address as well. OP, you could always poke around the Open Corporates website and see if both businesses are owned by the same person. https://opencorporates.com

    Ace
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's a "DV situation" (searches only show up some sort of Visa), how can someone be trapped in it and why is the wrong address relevant to that? Your comment just raises more questions.

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    Strawberry Pizza
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    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no idea what this story is supposed to be about, it is incomprehensible to me. Can someone please explain what is going on in this article??

    Mike F
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, they have no grasp of the ins and outs of debit/credit card procedures. They don't appear (typically) until the processing device "settles" or batches. And often the name is incomprehensible and the cardholder needs to search via the phone number that accompanies the entry. It can be maddening but when you make purchases at a kiosk rather than a brick and mortar shop you should be prepared to turn over a lot of rocks to determine the actual name of the business because that often is VERY different from the d/b/a.

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    54 s
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In this case, it's probably not a big deal but, in addition to op's concerns, it could cause problems if you have to dispute the charge for some reason. Or if it were a business purchase with a company card.

    Jessica Shookhoff
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Considering the very real fear many people trapped in DV situations live in, I think an overreaction is far better than an under-reaction! I have to wonder if the motel owner is the same person that owns the kiosk, and used the motel address for the kiosk address as well. OP, you could always poke around the Open Corporates website and see if both businesses are owned by the same person. https://opencorporates.com

    Ace
    Community Member
    9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's a "DV situation" (searches only show up some sort of Visa), how can someone be trapped in it and why is the wrong address relevant to that? Your comment just raises more questions.

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