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“In That Time We Had Finished The Meal”: Guy Is Furious At His Wife After He Misses Dinner Because He Was Scrolling TikTok In The Bathroom
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“In That Time We Had Finished The Meal”: Guy Is Furious At His Wife After He Misses Dinner Because He Was Scrolling TikTok In The Bathroom

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While most adults are known to be little kids in disguise, one woman has had enough of her husband spending hours trapped in an endless TikTok scroll.

“My husband has an obsession with TikTok. He’s 40, btw, not 14,” the woman who goes by the nickname BraveField explained in an Ask Reddit post.

The last drop in her patience was a family roast dinner during which she “saw him heading off upstairs.” Fast forward two hours and ten minutes, the husband comes back. The only thing is that at that point, there’s no trace of a done and gone dinner.

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The woman later added an update about the whole situation

If the use of social media impairs a person’s important life areas, they may be addicted to it

Among the 7.91 billion people in the world as of 2022, 4.62 billion active social media users, the average time individuals spent using the internet was 6 h 58 min per day with an average use of social media platforms of 2 h and 27 min, according to the 2022 global overview report.

Despite countless advantages they have, a growing body of research has linked social media use to negative mental health consequences, such as suicidality, loneliness, and anxiety. Recently, more and more attention has been given to social media addiction and its potential treatments.

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The US Addiction Center defines social media addiction as follows: “Social media addiction is a behavioral addiction that is characterized as being overly concerned about social media, driven by an uncontrollable urge to log on to or use social media, and devoting so much time and effort to social media that it impairs other important life areas.”

Some estimate that between 5 and 10 percent of social media users are addicted, according to Newport Institute.

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Whenever we log on to our favorite apps, dopamine, which is associated with pleasure, increases in our brain

Kristeen Cherney, PhD, a mental disabilities scholar, explains that our brains are compelled by social media because whenever we log on to our favorite apps, dopamine signals in the brain increase. These neurotransmitters are associated with pleasure.

“When you experience more dopamine after using social media, your brain identifies this activity as a rewarding one that you ought to repeat. Such a reaction may be more felt whenever you make a post of your own and gain positive feedback,” Cherney argues.

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The problem lies in the fact that these positive feelings experienced during social media use are only temporary. “The way your brain engages in this positive reinforcement is also seen in other addictions. Thus, as the feel-good dopamine wears off, you’ll go back to the source (in this case, social media) for more.”

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Liucija Adomaite

Liucija Adomaite

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Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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Liucija Adomaite

Liucija Adomaite

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Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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Rasa is a photo editor at Bored Panda, they have a college degree in photography and are currently studying sewing. Ever since childhood Rasa was interested in visual arts, including painting, photography, knitting and so on. When not at work or studying they like to knitting, cooking and spending quality time with their cats.

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Rasa Žilinskaitė

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Rasa is a photo editor at Bored Panda, they have a college degree in photography and are currently studying sewing. Ever since childhood Rasa was interested in visual arts, including painting, photography, knitting and so on. When not at work or studying they like to knitting, cooking and spending quality time with their cats.

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Ovata Acronicta
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's been a year since this post was made - brand-new top-quality AITA posts are made daily without the digging - but supposing this man is still on tiktok for 2+ hours while sitting on the toilet, he is going to suffer many bootyhole problems in his life. He is the real AH, while he ruins his AH.

Aria the Dog Lover
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey everyone. He made changes once he saw how much of a problem this was. He's not a total AH and this just proves that people can change and be better than they were yesterday. And that's a goal everyone should strive towards.

Sam Landon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great to hear, also if the issue ever resurfaces you can program your phone to lockscreen and require you to input your passcode after a certain timeframe on specific programs to prevent getting caught in a doomscroll. It can feel a little silly but for most androids it is in parental controls and iphone i think its under screentime. I use parental cobtrols on myself because I easily lose track of time, the brief lockout is enough to cue me to stop if I wasnt actively intending to engage in a longer use of insta or tik tok.

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DarkViolet
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If ever there was a clear example of social media addiction, this is definitely it. I hope that DH gets the help he needs.

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Ovata Acronicta
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's been a year since this post was made - brand-new top-quality AITA posts are made daily without the digging - but supposing this man is still on tiktok for 2+ hours while sitting on the toilet, he is going to suffer many bootyhole problems in his life. He is the real AH, while he ruins his AH.

Aria the Dog Lover
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey everyone. He made changes once he saw how much of a problem this was. He's not a total AH and this just proves that people can change and be better than they were yesterday. And that's a goal everyone should strive towards.

Sam Landon
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great to hear, also if the issue ever resurfaces you can program your phone to lockscreen and require you to input your passcode after a certain timeframe on specific programs to prevent getting caught in a doomscroll. It can feel a little silly but for most androids it is in parental controls and iphone i think its under screentime. I use parental cobtrols on myself because I easily lose track of time, the brief lockout is enough to cue me to stop if I wasnt actively intending to engage in a longer use of insta or tik tok.

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DarkViolet
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If ever there was a clear example of social media addiction, this is definitely it. I hope that DH gets the help he needs.

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