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“AITA For Telling My Fiance I’m Locking Myself In The Room For The Rest Of The Vacation Because I’m Tired Of Holding His Sister’s Kid?”
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“AITA For Telling My Fiance I’m Locking Myself In The Room For The Rest Of The Vacation Because I’m Tired Of Holding His Sister’s Kid?”

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It would probably be safe to assume that not many people enjoy babysitting. It is work that requires a great deal of patience and focus so that the baby stays safe as well as entertained. In short, babysitting isn’t easy, and if you don’t enjoy it, it’s even tougher. Especially if you’re on holiday, probably the last thing you are going to want to do is spend all your time and attention on a toddler. Also, if you have children of your own already, babysitting somebody else’s kids is probably pretty difficult too, considering you spend a lot of time babysitting already. As you can probably tell, this story is going to be about exactly that—babysitting, but with a rather curious twist. The Reddit post from which this story originates quickly gathered 15.7k upvotes and prompted 1.9k comments. Scroll down to find out more and consider leaving a comment!

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Taking care of a baby is hard work as it is, but if you have to do that on holiday, it can be even more frustrating

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As the text above implies, this story is about babysitting, at least on the surface. Slight family drama and inconsiderateness of the person in question are there too. Also, if you ever thought of babysitting of your own free will, what follows might change your mind about that.

A woman and her fiance got invited to go on holiday by car, and it turned out they would have to endure a screaming baby and bad odors for the whole trip

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The original poster on the Reddit subforum embarked on a road trip with her fiance’s family and it went quite poorly from the get-go. They were “trapped” in the car for the duration of the journey, having to listen to a baby that wouldn’t stop crying and endure the odor of dog poop. Such a journey would be a challenge to pretty much anyone, so it is no wonder why, for the rest of the story, the OP was rather on edge.

Next thing she knew, the woman was quickly turned into a babysitter for pretty much the entirety of the holiday

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Once the actual holiday started, the Original Poster got suddenly turned into a babysitter. Although the necessity of the woman’s reaction you’ll see later on is questionable, most people in her situation would probably get quite frustrated. And that is completely understandable—you go through a living hell of a car ride, which wears you out, and then you are pretty much forced to take care of a baby that isn’t even your own. The woman who posted her story, as she mentioned earlier, actually has children herself so it is extra unfair to give her this responsibility when she should be resting.

At this point, the woman could not stand it anymore, but instead of refusing, she decided to lock herself in her hotel room

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The original poster eventually snapped after all the mandated babysitting and locked herself in her hotel room to avoid another round of that. It could easily be said that the woman didn’t ever say no to the babysitting, but here she does mention that there were no requests for her help as the baby was practically “tossed” at her. So this situation begs the question whether saying no would’ve actually changed things for the better. There is a chance that the family would not be very pleased with her “rebellion”. Furthermore, her fiance doesn’t seem to stand in the OP’s defense, which is also peculiar.

Although the people in the comments didn’t see a problem with her locking herself away, most were surprised she didn’t just say “no”

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Overall, this is certainly a situation you wouldn’t want to get yourself into. After all, holidays are for relaxing, not for taking over someone else’s responsibilities. But it is true that the woman could’ve at least attempted to reason with the parents and say no. After all, the baby wasn’t exactly her responsibility. In any case, now we know that running away from your problems sometimes somewhat works.

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Žygimantas is a Bored Panda writer and content creator. He has recently graduated with a degree in Journalism & Communications from Cardiff University and has a professional background in Public Relations. During his spare time Žygimantas makes electronic music, codes, tinkers with electronics and aspires to be a great bass player.

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Monika Pašukonytė

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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WilvanderHeijden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really can't believe that this is real. How can you take all that crap from strangers without loosing your temper and telling them to shove their baby where it came from? She should have arranged transportation back home and dump the spineless fiancé and his parasitic family in their dog poop car.

Elizabeth Line
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anxiety, depression to name two. There are many reasons why someone will take a bunch of crap without losing their cool. Watch kids who have been bullied intensely for years. They will just take it, it is the path of least pain.

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SilverSkyCloud
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the people in the comments have a point, not once in the post did op mention that she said no to the fsil, but the fsil could've asked before handing her baby to op

Rahul Pawa
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, the fiance should be stepping in to help with the baby when it gets passed to OP. At least some times it should be the FSIL passes baby to OP, and OP immediately passes to fiance (or better yet, fiance offers to hold baby).

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WilvanderHeijden
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really can't believe that this is real. How can you take all that crap from strangers without loosing your temper and telling them to shove their baby where it came from? She should have arranged transportation back home and dump the spineless fiancé and his parasitic family in their dog poop car.

Elizabeth Line
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anxiety, depression to name two. There are many reasons why someone will take a bunch of crap without losing their cool. Watch kids who have been bullied intensely for years. They will just take it, it is the path of least pain.

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SilverSkyCloud
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the people in the comments have a point, not once in the post did op mention that she said no to the fsil, but the fsil could've asked before handing her baby to op

Rahul Pawa
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, the fiance should be stepping in to help with the baby when it gets passed to OP. At least some times it should be the FSIL passes baby to OP, and OP immediately passes to fiance (or better yet, fiance offers to hold baby).

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