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Hey Pandas, AITA For Teaching These Kids And Their Mothers A Lesson By Cutting Their Flowers?
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Hey Pandas, AITA For Teaching These Kids And Their Mothers A Lesson By Cutting Their Flowers?

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One kid in my neighborhood has autism and enjoys touching the flowers I grow. Other kids, not so much. I do not have children because I couldn’t.

So, this one particular child who loves to ‘touch’ flowers comes by my house daily. I like him. He’s totes adorbs, and he never harms anything. He has verbal communication issues, but he seems very intelligent overall. He likes to smell the flowers and talk to them in his own form of language. His mother and I are now very good friends.

Today, I found three kids in the yard pulling out my zinnias and making bunches for themselves. I asked them to stop and told them it was wrong of them to take things that weren’t theirs

Image credits: Leslie Cross (not the actual photo)

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I took the flowers from them and put them in a vase. I was devastated by the audacity of these kids to do such a thing. They were over twelve, an age that most children know right from wrong.
They left my property after a bit of back and forth that included language that children shouldn’t know, let alone use.

I was soon confronted by two angry mothers who told me that I was wrong for chastising their children the way I did

Image credits: Julien L (not the actual photo)

I showed them the damage they had done, and again, I was met with the excuse of “they’re just children.”
Cue malicious response…

I found out where they lived. I cut down all the roses in one woman’s yard and proceeded to clip off every flower from the other woman’s bougainvillea

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Image credits: Angèle Kamp (not the actual photo)

Maybe that will let them know not to let their kids do whatever they choose. AITA for doing this?

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Hello Pandas! My name is Ieva, though it's often mistaken for the word 'Leva,' and in Lithuanian, it means 'loser' (insert the pain emoji). While I don't take offense if you accidentally call me a loser, I thought I'd share something interesting with you, which I also do professionally at work.Anywayyy, my favorite part here is introducing you to creative people who deserve just as much recognition as famous celebrities. Besides that, I also enjoy memes and funny, lighthearted posts, and occasionally, I find myself drawn to a bit of internet drama.

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Ieva Midveryte

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Hello Pandas! My name is Ieva, though it's often mistaken for the word 'Leva,' and in Lithuanian, it means 'loser' (insert the pain emoji). While I don't take offense if you accidentally call me a loser, I thought I'd share something interesting with you, which I also do professionally at work.Anywayyy, my favorite part here is introducing you to creative people who deserve just as much recognition as famous celebrities. Besides that, I also enjoy memes and funny, lighthearted posts, and occasionally, I find myself drawn to a bit of internet drama.

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arthbach
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a saying, "Two wrongs don't make a right." If it was wrong (and it was) for the children to cut the flowers in this person's garden, it was also wrong for this person to do the same thing. Instead of solving the problem there's at least 5 angry people. This was not handled well.

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rullyman
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All she's done is made her neighborhood worse. Now there's friction between her and their parents. 12 year olds are quite often not very nice people- their brains are rewiring and they're pushing boundaries. It's up to the adults to be adults.

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Min
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Vandalism as retaliation is still vandalism. YTA.

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K. LNU
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was stupid of the mothers to say anything except making the kids (pre-teens/NOT children) apologize and/or reimbursing you for the flowers lost. And yes, that was petty of you to cut up another's flowers instead of using your words. I'm all for pettiness, but I don't think anyone learned anything here.

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arthbach
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a saying, "Two wrongs don't make a right." If it was wrong (and it was) for the children to cut the flowers in this person's garden, it was also wrong for this person to do the same thing. Instead of solving the problem there's at least 5 angry people. This was not handled well.

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rullyman
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All she's done is made her neighborhood worse. Now there's friction between her and their parents. 12 year olds are quite often not very nice people- their brains are rewiring and they're pushing boundaries. It's up to the adults to be adults.

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Min
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Vandalism as retaliation is still vandalism. YTA.

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K. LNU
Community Member
1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was stupid of the mothers to say anything except making the kids (pre-teens/NOT children) apologize and/or reimbursing you for the flowers lost. And yes, that was petty of you to cut up another's flowers instead of using your words. I'm all for pettiness, but I don't think anyone learned anything here.

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