Exactly, Marco. Well said. Grow the hell up you stupid little man boys. Women's bodies exist outside your need to sexualize them for your own gratification. It's pathetic.

Amen Marco. My soon to be hubby is amazing. Myself and my two daughters cycles have synced so he knows EXACTLY when to go to re up on our stash, he also ensures we have midol and our fave snacks for that time. My son goes to HS with a ziploc baggie of tampons / pads and midol just in case one of his lady friends is in a bind. His buddies tried to give him crap one time, and he took a page out of my fiance's book and was like "bro, every girl goes through this, and they are miserable. Don't be part of the problem." I was so proud.

Marco, Being (at one time) a single father of 4 girls growing up... yeah, I'd walk down that tampon isle and I'd grab them and march right up to the counter thinking nothing of it! I grew up with 2 sisters and a Mom who was an OB-GYN. So yeah I agree with you 1000%!

In the society we live in breasts are sexualized for us, that's just the way it is, we grow up with adverts of big boobed ladies advertising things, programs like Baywatch in the 90's, page 3 girls whatever. Right or wrong boobs are sexual to most hetero guys. A sign of maturity is to not let that take over if you are in this situation and you act like a grown-up and not a kid. Not every guy is there though.

Don't ask what you can do to help. Just avert your eyes and mind your own business.

Summary: video appeared some weeks ago concerning women at a Korean spa, where everyone is naked, outraged that a man who claims to be a woman was walking around the women's section "slinging" his penis. They understandably had concerns about the behaviour. Protest later occurs outside the spa, women demanding privacy. Antifa shows up, causing trouble. Turns out the man has been charged multiple times for "indecent exposure". What makes it indecent? Your version "Nudity natural, what's the problem?" How do you automatically jump to a conclusion that this woman is necessarily different? Another person who oversimplifies things and omit nuance and context in an effort to earn some Sesame Cents. Sense before cents. - THIS VIDEO WILL MAKE U RAGE. Transwoman with a CRIMINAL RECORD enters a Spa... Women get attacked. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1d94HWEQ0HU

At what point exactly did the synchronous damage to the brain occur, resulting in a collective inability to recognise that we are all individuals, a pathology accompanied by the chorus to respect the individual, and by attacks on individuals for expressing individualness? "Power is in tearing human minds to pieces and putting them together again in new shapes of your own choosing." Dude. People are different. Different experiences. Different values. Who the f**k are you? Your own words could find no better target than yourself: Grow up.

Man = guilty. Woman = innocent. That's how you want it, isn't it? Because you're one of the sane ones. > Female who is complete stranger proceeds to undress: "Is there anything I can do to help?" You f*****g clown. Here's the flipside: man needs to take a slash, whips it out. Women, get your mind out of the gutter you little girls. Men's bodies exist outside of your need to criminalise them via projected sexualisation for your own perverse desire for power. It's pathetic.

I don't know, it might be the CONSTANT F*****G ACCUSATIONS AND CRIMINALISATION OF MASCULINITY along with the S**T FLINGING FROM OTHER MALES WHO WANT TO GIVE THE IMPRESSION THAT THEY ARE NOT LIKE THE OTHER DEGENERATES!?! No. These men are enhanced degenerates. What do you think? Gotta call bullshit on a male who claims to have a closer affinity with an unfamiliar woman undressing in public than with another man who feels uncomfortable about it happening in front of him. How is it possible that you can understand how she feels and not him? Have you lost your humanity entirely, or just the part that matters? The part that understands? The part that knows. That has experienced, has been touched. Here's a question you never thought to ask: was it considerate of her to whip her tit out at a table that she shared with a complete stranger in a crowded public space without asking the person who kindly allowed her to sit at their table if he was comfortable with that? Especially in a climate where any suggestion of inappropriateness is a considerable danger to even the most undeserving of men? And given that she has no consideration for others, then why is she so deserving of unquestioning consideration from others? Was it even appropriate of her as a mother to feed a child in a busy area in the first place? Maybe the child needs peace? Especially in this time defined by zealous germaphobia, it seems pretty careless of her. Here's another challenging question all this nonsense raises - is it now even appropriate for children to be in public given that they are now deemed more likely to spread the plague? Is there not something more we can rob them of? In the interest of safety and compassion? Is there any question as to why you were so easy to question his character but never thought to question hers? Any question whatsoever why that would be so? What does the name "Salem" bring to mind?

This is what they are taught to feel uncomfortable about. You were taught otherwise. Can't really blame them or praise you for that. The only thing is if the person wants to learn to be better, and undo the years of conditioning.

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So, knowing full well that quite a few people in a public setting would be uncomfortable with her breastfeed her child in public, she couldn't have also been a grown up and gone elsewhere to feed her child? Sorry. A baby hanging off of anyone's hip, be it the father or mother, doesn't give that person a free pass to impose on anyone else's space or enjoyment of a public space. Guess what? Tens of thousands of women had babies in the past, we wouldn't be here having this conversation if they hadn't, so no woman of today is special in any way for having a baby and they shouldn't demand special disregard for their actions just because they had a baby.

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I don't want to see you do bodily functions in the toilet

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Bring a bottle of breast-feeding milk for restaurants

Yea, I don't think he is an asshole. He handled the situation poorly, but it could have been worse. I don't understand why he felt uncomfortable tho, drink your coffee and continue focusing on whatever you were doing.

Well a little bit asshole, but he could have handled it much better. If I were him and was bothered by it (for some reason) I'd just changed the places telling the woman that she'll have more privacy that way and not asking her to change seats.

If he was uncomfortable then he could've moved to the table where he didn't have to see her. It's an asshole move to ask HER to move when breastfeeding is 100% a natural thing for mother's to do. The baby was crying and hungry, what else was the mother supposed to do? Feel forced to leave because one man in a cafe can't understand that babies feed on breastmilk and that comes from what again, oh yeah, breasts! And he literally only started to give it "serious thought" when he saw other cafe patrons giving him a stink eye for being an asshole meaning he literally doesn't give a s**t about the breastfeeding aspect, he just cares about how others view him

To be honest, And i'm saying it as currently breastfeeding mother, i would be taken aback too, if i were him. It's one thing to breastfeed at the next table And something conpletely difderent doing it right under his nose. If i were that mother, i would sit at the other table, or asked him to switch places... Or at least (And i Always do that, even with my friends) i would asked if he's cool with me breastfeeding. I think it can make most of the akwardness dissapear...

The ahole might not be quite the right term, because he seems willing to reconsider his behavior, but he was in the wrong. Now he feels bad, other people have confirmed he was in the wrong and he has the opportunity to be better going forward.

He is an arsehole because 1. he sexualised a women feeding her baby. 2. Her breasts are not his to police. 3. He was the one uncomfortable and he demanded the she be the one to leave.

Any man of 27 years of age who has never ever contemplated the purpose of breasts vis a vis feeding babies and doesn't know how to behave appropriately is 100 percent an a55hole.

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He was there first. Why should he be considered to be less? If she was already there and doing her thing and then he showed up and asked her to leave it would be an entirely different story. It's called respect. She undoubtedly doesn't know how to give it but she, just like so many others like her, will demand it because by some unknown, never been done before, miracle she threw out a baby.

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No, he's an asshole because he expected the breastfeeding woman, who probably is tired as f**k, etc to move, instead of him himself just moving. He needs to grow the f**k up and 1. Realise breastfeeding is completely natural 2. realise the world doesn't evolve around him and wether he is "comfortable" or not when he literally could of moved his own f*****g ass to the other seat.

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Take a bottle. Don't want to see your boob

I really like your comment.

Just because something is natural doesnt mean its meant to be done in public or that everyone is going to comfortable watching. Sex is natural (its how you make the baby in the first place, right?) so is peeing or being naked for that matter (we are born naked, arent we?). But we live in a society that have created rules be it written or just unwritten ones. And one of the rules is that public nudity between adults is usually not okay. Just as you dont wanna see a peeing person or people having sex, some people dont wanna see a breastfeeding person - just because it shows piece of the nudity. Even its natural.

It’s simply that some people don’t want to see this done in public - no matter how “natural” it is. Of course it’s natural; It’s the “in public” part that’s the issue. There ARE alternatives (bottles with milk the mother expressed, etc.) and no one should be made to feel guilty or wrong because they’re uncomfortable with seeing this personal, private act in a restaurant, outdoor festival, movie they’re, etc.

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What? It is just gross. The smell, the noises, the salivating all dirty smelly baby, EVERYTHING about it is gross. And don't even start about "all natural" and so on. Shitting ios natural too. And changing tampons, but we don't do it in public, don't we? She could've just cover herself a bit - that for once. Second - NEVER EVER do it on someone's else table. This was her ASShole move. She asked if she can SIT there, not feed the offspring. She sat, okay, baby gets fussy, okay - then she ASKS if HE don;t mind she will be breastfeeding at HIS space. If he is not okay - she moves, end of story. You are not special because of having a kid.

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No, lady, "baby needs goes first before HIS PARENTS" not random people in public. Go breastfeed in kid area, parent area or maternity restroom or whatever it is called in your country. Not at my table. IDGAF about our kid. Your kid - your responsibility, not mine.