Man Leaves Bad Review On Airbnb, “Superhost” Sends His Wife Security Camera Pic Of Him Cheating
A spat between an Airbnb host and a married guest has been dragged to court after the “superhost” emailed a photo of the man with another woman to his wife. Shawn Mackey, the guest from Mississippi, is suing Airbnb and “superhost” Pamela Fohler for the fiasco and the “damage” that Fohler caused to his marriage. “The plaintiff’s marriage has suffered as a result,” said Mackey’s 22-page complaint, which was initially filed last September.
- After negative review, Airbnb superhost sends guest's cheating photo to his wife.
- Guest Shawn Mackey sues Airbnb and host Pamela Fohler over privacy invasion and marriage damage.
- Mackey faces extreme emotional distress and public humiliation after the incident.
- Fohler retaliates to negative Airbnb review by threatening to post cheating photos on YouTube.
- Mackey seeks damages for privacy invasion and action against similar future incidents by Airbnb hosts.
Mackey has faced “extreme emotional distress” and “public humiliation” due to the incident, the lawsuit added.
After an Airbnb guest wrote a negative review following his stay at a Tennessee rental, the superhost fired back by emailing his wife a photo of him with another woman

Image credits: Airbnb Newsroom
The series of events began in September, 2022, when Mackey booked a stay from Sept. 9 to Sept. 11 at Fohler’s Airbnb in Memphis, Tennessee, according to the New York Post.
Mackey rented the three-bedroom, two-bath home, named ‘Little Bit More Country,’ which Fohler was renting out for $567 a night.
In an email exchange that was attached with the court filing, Mackey told Fohler that he may invite additional guests over for a “very low-key” dinner.
“That sounds like a lovely time,” Fohler replied. “I would be delighted to host you all.”
The series of events began in September, 2022, when married guest Shawn Mackey booked a three-night stay at host Pamela Fohler’s Airbnb in Memphis, Tennessee
Image credits: Mississippi District Court
Fohler told Mackey during their initial exchange that he would have to provide a list of names of all the guests staying at the Airbnb.
The superhost had also sent Mackey a lengthy list of rules that forbade guests from smoking, vaping, making excessive noise, having unregistered guests from the local area over, or parking in front of the garage doors or on the right side of the driveway.
The rules also included: no skinnydipping and no glass, food, drinks, or urinating in the pool.
Fohler also made it clear to Mackey that he would be fined $500 “at our sole discretion” if the police were called to the property “for any reason.”
He would also have to pay a $250 fine, plus cancellation of the stay, if he arrived with additional guests, the host added.
In the exchange between Fohler and Mackey, the host also reminded him that the property had security cameras outside the house that were functional “at all times and are used to verify Guest count, noise, and any disturbances.”
“We will take great care of your home,” Mackey assured his host.
During his stay, Mackey broke several house rules, including inviting unregistered guests and partying
Image credits: Mississippi District Court
On the day of Mackey’s stay at the Memphis Airbnb, he sent Fohler an updated guest list a couple of hours after he checked in. He also noted that a few more guests may be joining him and added, “Only 4-5 will be staying overnight.”
“Hello Shawn, we will be able to accommodate a max of 8 guests,” Fohler replied, according to screenshots from the lawsuit. “This is due to the city restrictions and capacity at our home. I apologize we had not discuss [sic] the guest count tripling. Each guest does have to be put on Airbnb and accounted for, per Airbnb rules and insurance requirements. There is a cost to each guest, even if they do not spend the night. I should also remind you about the strict no-parties rule. Thank you for understanding.”
As the evening progressed, Fohler sent another message to Mackey and demanded that he either add the extra guests’ names or have them leave immediately, according to Mackey’s filing.
She also claimed that she had received complaints about disturbances and yelling from the property.
“You have violated the no-party rule, disturbed my neighbors by cursing and yelling in the parking lot, and have unauthorized guests,” read one of Fohler’s emails
Image credits: Mississippi District Court
“Hello Shawn, I am asking you to either add the extra guests now or have them leave immediately,” read her email, according to the suit. “We have also gotten complaints of disturbances, yelling, and profanity in the parking area. Our home is in a quiet neighborhood, and we need to maintain that.”
In less than half an hour, another message allegedly came from Fohler: “I am very sorry, but you have violated the no-party rule, disturbed my neighbors by cursing and yelling in the parking lot, and have unauthorized guests. I am asking you to leave now. I can’t allow you to stay, I am sorry.”
In the lawsuit, Mackey refuted Fohler’s claims of yelling and profanity on the property. He called her accusations “unfounded” and asserted that “none of this was true.”
According to Mackey’s account, he called Fohler’s number and spoke to her husband because he had nowhere else to go, and the husband assured him that he could stay the night.
As agreed upon, Mackey left the next day, and he left a negative review on Airbnb’s website in addition to asking for a partial refund of $502.46.
Mackey left the property and wrote a negative review on Airbnb’s website, prompting the vengeful superhost to email his wife a security camera photo of him with another woman
Image credits: Mississippi District Court
Consequently, “Fohler began harassing [Mackey] about his review and was obviously concerned about her Airbnb Superhost status,” the lawsuit claimed.
Airbnb later contacted Mackey and said his account would be suspended as they investigate the claims.
Mackey responded to the company and said he didn’t violate any rules and urged them to check the surveillance footage from the property.
Days later, Mackey allegedly received a message from Fohler, who threatened him with a picture of him and another woman.
“Hello Shawn, hope you are well,” read the text. “Sorry, it took so long to get the photos you requested together to show your stay at our home. But I had faith, [and I] was driven by integrity, so I committed to get these posted for you and Airbnb. Photo at 3:16 AM is especially notable. Should I forward the photos and videos to [Mackey’s wife] Teresa, or will you?”
Now, Mackey is suing Airbnb and “superhost” Fohler, accusing both of invading his privacy and causing “damage” to his marriage
Image credits: Mississippi District Court
Fohler also said the video files were too large to send via text and allegedly threatened to post them on YouTube “shortly.”
The debacle did not end there, as Mackey later received a hefty bill from Airbnb for $960. The bill included a $160 fine for four extra guests, $500 for violating two house rules, and $300 for “moderation of your review.”
When Mackey refused to pay the bill, a vengeful Fohler allegedly emailed the photo of him and the other woman to his wife from a fake email account: Shawn69@outlook.com.
“Fohler began harassing [Mackey] about his review and was obviously concerned about her Airbnb Superhost status,” the lawsuit claimed
Image credits: Mississippi District Court
“Instead of reacting as any decent person of even decent corporation would at such illegal and abhorrent and evil conduct, Airbnb sided with its Superhost, its co-defendant, Fohler!” the lawsuit said, according to the Daily Beast.
Mackey “has suffered economic damages, and damages to his marriage, and emotional damages as a result to [sic] the Defendants’ invasion of his privacy rights,” according to his lawsuit, which also noted that his relationship with his wife deteriorated because of the photo.
Mackey is seeking actual and punitive damages, as well as efforts to “prevent similar action taken against [other] customers of Airbnb”
Image credits: Mississippi District Court
He is seeking actual and punitive damages, as well as efforts to “prevent similar action taken against [other] customers of Airbnb.”
Fohler, in a response filed in court last December, denied sending the email to Mackey’s wife. She also insisted she “has never had any kind of correspondence with [the] plaintiff’s wife.”
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The people who are claiming its a violation of privacy are missing the key point: The cheater violated the hotel policies in having the second person; the camera, OTOH, was in the notifications. There is no right to adultery, nor a right to turn B&B operators into your wing man. It's not blackmail because SHE's not robbing HIM. If the guy is supposedly rude to a waiter, everyone on BP cheers on whatever horrible and nasty things the restaurant owner replies to the review with, but if it's adultery, that's his sacrosanct right to privacy? No, you've been watching too many Hollywood movies.
I agree with you. He knew the rules prior. He chose to disregard them. I'm not mad he got busted for cheating. He seems like a pretty terrible person.
Load More Replies...It wiont het you as much space as a 3 bedroom house.
Load More Replies...It's not bad enough that all rents around the world have skyrocketed because of Airbnb and similar companies. That these companies allow "hosts" to add ridiculous fees to your credit card, and look the other way when they know you're being spied on. Now they're supporting blackmail?? They should be boycotted everywhere!
Well, there was not spying if the cameras were outside for security and the guest knew about them, and I understand that he asked for that footage. Anyway, in this situation EHS and the host should have kept it professional and let Airbnb deal with it, both parties had it coming for their poor choices.
Load More Replies...I know we’re all hating on Airbnb (with good reason) but… There can be no reasonable expectation of privacy if you have been advised ahead of time that there are security cameras functioning at all times and they WILL be used to enforce compliance with the rules. The host made it clear that ALL guests must be identified via the app to comply with city and insurance regulations. Mackey tried to subvert this by writing there would be 4-5 additional people; but it’s ok as they won’t be staying overnight. No, it’s not ok. The host didn’t make those rules and they will be subject to fines &/or insurance will refuse to cover damages if the rules are broken. The rules being poked fun at are absolutely reasonable, try smoking in a no smoking room at a hotel; and no glass, food, drinks or urinating around/in a pool is common. Most video files are far too large to be sent via email, there are defined limits people, though I concede that saying they would be uploaded to YouTube would be an invasion of privacy. However, that didn’t happen. I reckon that was a hollow threat made in anger. If compromising stills were sent to Mackey’s wife: one, that isn’t public, it/they were sent to a private individual. Two, I don’t see how two people merely standing next to one another proves infidelity. This is based on the specific image in the article; maybe it was a different image showing them in flagrente. Who knows? The bottom line here is Mackey broke a lot of rules and there is video evidence. That his wife now knows he’s a slimy cheater is icing on the s**t sandwich he tried to force on the host.
the cameras were advised for security reasons not for blackmailing purposes
Load More Replies...The surveillance was advised before he arrived and therefore not an invasion of privacy. Putting it to the public though? Yeah, that's defamatory as context cannot be ascertained or defended by the group now exposed. She is in deep poopoo and I have have no sympathy for his marriage issues but his poor wife has my sincere condolences and I support whatever she does about this, petty or other included..
Wow both people are awful.... AirBNB is overpriced and should be done away with
Whoever thinks this is an appropriate way to deal with an unruly guest should get tested for psychopathy. Is the man an ässhole, you bet he is. Is he a cheater, dang right. Does that excuse sending private pics to get revenge, not in the slightest way. This time, it might be "justified", but a pereon who does this just to damage someone will not stop at "justified" times. The host should be punished. Severely.
These photos show no proof if rule violations. The host was DEAD WRONG, and definitely invaded his privacy. I don't see anyone outside yelling in any of these video stills, do you? He stated more guests would be coming, and she agreed. She was WRONG
Absolutely love it. The host should have had a statement in the rental agreement that all footage is their property and at their discretion how its used. And he absolutely deserves everything he got and hopefully his wife knows to leave his worthless, petty, lying, cheating @ss
Mm. Having footage for security reasons, or to prove something happened, is entirely separate from sending a photo of your guest to an unrelated party.
Load More Replies...The people who are claiming its a violation of privacy are missing the key point: The cheater violated the hotel policies in having the second person; the camera, OTOH, was in the notifications. There is no right to adultery, nor a right to turn B&B operators into your wing man. It's not blackmail because SHE's not robbing HIM. If the guy is supposedly rude to a waiter, everyone on BP cheers on whatever horrible and nasty things the restaurant owner replies to the review with, but if it's adultery, that's his sacrosanct right to privacy? No, you've been watching too many Hollywood movies.
I agree with you. He knew the rules prior. He chose to disregard them. I'm not mad he got busted for cheating. He seems like a pretty terrible person.
Load More Replies...It wiont het you as much space as a 3 bedroom house.
Load More Replies...It's not bad enough that all rents around the world have skyrocketed because of Airbnb and similar companies. That these companies allow "hosts" to add ridiculous fees to your credit card, and look the other way when they know you're being spied on. Now they're supporting blackmail?? They should be boycotted everywhere!
Well, there was not spying if the cameras were outside for security and the guest knew about them, and I understand that he asked for that footage. Anyway, in this situation EHS and the host should have kept it professional and let Airbnb deal with it, both parties had it coming for their poor choices.
Load More Replies...I know we’re all hating on Airbnb (with good reason) but… There can be no reasonable expectation of privacy if you have been advised ahead of time that there are security cameras functioning at all times and they WILL be used to enforce compliance with the rules. The host made it clear that ALL guests must be identified via the app to comply with city and insurance regulations. Mackey tried to subvert this by writing there would be 4-5 additional people; but it’s ok as they won’t be staying overnight. No, it’s not ok. The host didn’t make those rules and they will be subject to fines &/or insurance will refuse to cover damages if the rules are broken. The rules being poked fun at are absolutely reasonable, try smoking in a no smoking room at a hotel; and no glass, food, drinks or urinating around/in a pool is common. Most video files are far too large to be sent via email, there are defined limits people, though I concede that saying they would be uploaded to YouTube would be an invasion of privacy. However, that didn’t happen. I reckon that was a hollow threat made in anger. If compromising stills were sent to Mackey’s wife: one, that isn’t public, it/they were sent to a private individual. Two, I don’t see how two people merely standing next to one another proves infidelity. This is based on the specific image in the article; maybe it was a different image showing them in flagrente. Who knows? The bottom line here is Mackey broke a lot of rules and there is video evidence. That his wife now knows he’s a slimy cheater is icing on the s**t sandwich he tried to force on the host.
the cameras were advised for security reasons not for blackmailing purposes
Load More Replies...The surveillance was advised before he arrived and therefore not an invasion of privacy. Putting it to the public though? Yeah, that's defamatory as context cannot be ascertained or defended by the group now exposed. She is in deep poopoo and I have have no sympathy for his marriage issues but his poor wife has my sincere condolences and I support whatever she does about this, petty or other included..
Wow both people are awful.... AirBNB is overpriced and should be done away with
Whoever thinks this is an appropriate way to deal with an unruly guest should get tested for psychopathy. Is the man an ässhole, you bet he is. Is he a cheater, dang right. Does that excuse sending private pics to get revenge, not in the slightest way. This time, it might be "justified", but a pereon who does this just to damage someone will not stop at "justified" times. The host should be punished. Severely.
These photos show no proof if rule violations. The host was DEAD WRONG, and definitely invaded his privacy. I don't see anyone outside yelling in any of these video stills, do you? He stated more guests would be coming, and she agreed. She was WRONG
Absolutely love it. The host should have had a statement in the rental agreement that all footage is their property and at their discretion how its used. And he absolutely deserves everything he got and hopefully his wife knows to leave his worthless, petty, lying, cheating @ss
Mm. Having footage for security reasons, or to prove something happened, is entirely separate from sending a photo of your guest to an unrelated party.
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