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As we grow and develop, our perspectives and opinions tend to change, often making us view some things completely differently than we used to; and that applies to everything, from favorite pasta to reading books, and beyond.

One common thing that people tend to view differently as children is people themselves. When you’re a kid, a 20-something-year-old might seem like they know what they’re doing, when you’re a teen, a 35-year-old might look old, and when you’re a freshman in high school, seniors might appear to be so much cooler than they often are.

Members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community discussed views similar to the latter, after one user asked them what was something that seems cool in the eyes of most high schoolers but is actually cringe. Fellow redditors came up with many answers, including “high schoolers” themselves, so scroll down to find them and see what other things people have grown out of or into as they closed the awkward chapter of the high school years.

#1

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Driving like an idiot/ having a loud car.

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Tamra
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, this one applies to certain adults, too. In fact, many of these do.

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30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Discussing sex loudly with the purpose of having random strangers hear it as if that somehow is a sign of maturity.

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Timbob
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As you read these posts, please remember, teenagers brains are not finished being made !

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30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Vaping.

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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You flex your vape, I flex my lungs - me to my bf, March 2024

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#4

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Being rude to teachers. Every person who I know who was rebellious in school cringes hard when they think about the s**t they said to teachers.

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Bernd Herbert
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still feel embarrassment thinking of some situations back in school, and that was 25 years ago

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#5

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Being loud and obnoxious everywhere they go. Like dude no one thinks you’re or your friends are cool over there yelling penis and moaning cause you think it’s funny.

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#6

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Calling Millenials/any older generation cringe. They're also going to get old and seem cringe to the kids one day. It's the cycle of life.

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30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool "It's just a prank bro" no, you're being an a*****e.

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Luke Branwen
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Schrödinger's Douchebag: decides whether the $hitty thing they just said was "just a joke" based on the reaction of the surroundings.

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#8

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Worrying what other people think. The concept of “cool” in the first place.

My brother and I (in our early 30s) were watching a group of teenagers trying so hard to put on this cool, unemotional facade at Disneyland while everyone else around them just enjoyed themselves and we were laughing to ourselves that teenagers are so afraid of displaying emotion or passion and nobody else cares. But we all went through it, and we all reach the realization that it’s more fun to just enjoy ourselves.

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#9

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Blasting loud music in busses and public places.

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Luke Branwen
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And also, whenever someone is blasting loud music in public, it's ALWAYS the $hittiest music you've ever heard.

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#10

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool That one like, tikok haircut that guys get where they have like, no hair on the sides and then too much hair on top. No shade it's just douchey.

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30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Teens who think they know about anything in this world. I know it's a phase we all went through but it's very cringe listening to a kid lecture you on stuff theve never stopped to think about or arnt even capible of thinking about.

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Roger9er
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that's just part of being a teenager. I also regularly hear my daughter (17) and her friends talking about things that, if I may believe, they have enormous experience with, which of course is not the case at all.

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#13

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool I wouldn’t say that this applies to the majority, but it does apply to a pretty decent amount at my school: saying slurs and barking at people they find weird (they really think it’s peak comedy).

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Jack Smith
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that's just the a*sholes. don't worry, a lot of us are pretty nice :)

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#14

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Hickeys or so I've been told.

I actually have no issue with them just so long as they're hidden.

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IamMe
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know if it was just where I lived, but a few years ago it was "cool", for teenage girls to give themselves and their friends hickeys on their arms and faces. They didn't look cool. They looked like they were being abused.

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#15

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Pretending to have some type of disorder, like that makes them special. Like some how everyone has multiple personalities now, one of the rarest disorders of it's kind and everyone and their cousin suffers from it.

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Corvus
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People with actual disorders don't "enjoy" them in the slightest. I know a guy with genuine OCD and I've seen how it could mess up his life at times.

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#16

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Doing things to gain other peoples approval..

Seriously, when you grow up and stop giving a f**k about other peoples opinions, life is so much better.

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ORSOrama
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I regret so much trying to be funny at all costs when I was at school. Of course, I was not.

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#17

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Telling people how mature you are.

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Tucker Cahooter
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm very mature for my age. But as I am over 60, I guess people expect me to be

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#18

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Making fun of people. Like you're not funny, you're annoying and childish.

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BrookeBT
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah....sadly that doesn't end with youth. Adults do the same

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#20

Older you get the more you realize the one truly cool thing is the air conditioner.

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#21

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Being d***s to the teacher who just tries to do his\her job.

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BrookeBT
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a grade 9 math class in a portable (basically a trailer outside the school because they had run out of real classrooms) so there was a seemingly sense of more freedom because we weren't in the actual school. My teacher, I hate to say it, was ripe for young jerks to make fun of - picture the principal from Billy Madison. It was a basic math class, people just taking the class because we had to. The class was complete chaos. The whole semester I don't think we learned much of anything about math. He was nice to me. I wasn't one of the trouble-makers. But I still feel terrible about it all. Young and stupid. He never got mad at the verbal assaults against him, the non stop chatter, and people not paying attention...he just nervously laughed and tried to get everyone back on track. It never worked. He was a nice man just trying to do his job. I hate my classmates. He died a few years ago - I wish I could say I'm sorry for what he went through.

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#22

Filming instead of helping.

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#23

Being 'edgy' and 'offensive' just for the sake of it.


Yeah, we get it. You think that mocking dead people or posting racist/sexist stuff on social media makes you a tough edgelord not to be f****d with. No, it just makes you look like a complete tryhard.

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Luke Branwen
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The sad thing is that edgelord teens usually grow up to be actually dangerous incels / alt-rights.

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#24

“I’m not like other girls”.

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Shark Lady
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was watching a compilation of Say Yes to the Dress recently and every other bride started their interview by saying they weren't like the average bride. They then went on to describe their perfect dress which was just like every other Dress chosen.

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#25

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Saying 'hashtag' in a spoken sentence, and not ironically.

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Spittnimage
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also the word *like* that doesn't need to be said to make the sentence complete.

Hey!
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was shocked when I heard someone say that the first time, and ever since.

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#26

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool The lifestyle of being "young and reckless".

Having an addiction to d***s is not cool.
Being in codependent relationships is not cool.
Having sex in bathroom stalls and on a couch stored behind the theater stage is not cool.
Its just gross.
Skipping class is not cool.
I don't even know why people skipped classes at my high school. There was literally nothing to do but loiter in a bathroom.

Just enjoy your time not paying bills and be as self-centered for as long as you can.

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#27

Calling themselves an Alpha male or Redpill and Calling random people npcs.

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Corvus
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a classic "Tell me you have severe self-confidence issues, without telling me you have severe self-confidence issues."

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#28

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Bullying. For example, that thing where they comment "oh" on peoples posts and then claim to "just be saying oh." Everyone knows it's not innocent, it's done with the purpose of making the poster feel insecure or dumb. Just things that can be played off as small, but that they know will have a bigger impact.

Does anyone know what Im talking about? I really dont know how to explain this.

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Corvus
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Finished high school before social media were a thing, so this one is unknown to me.

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#29

Calling things 'cringe'.

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#30

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Binge drinking. It's fairly prevalent and accepted within a lot of social circles when you’re in your 20s. You know, those nights out with your buddies when you pre-game, go to the bar and order a few rounds of shots, and let the night take you where the alcohol fuel leads. This feels progressively out of place as you move into your 30s and beyond.

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Corvus
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could never understand the "appeal" of feeling sick, being unable to walk in a straight line, or having no memories from the previous night. I guess I'm not "cool" enough ;)

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#31

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Using mature language to sound smart. Anyone can string together a bunch of big words, doesn’t make you intelligent.

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Surenu
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True intelligence can show itself by explaining complex matters with simple words.

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#32

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Sleep deprivation. I loved pulling all nighters as a teen and young adult. Now, they just give me migraines and make the entire subsequent day hell.

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Corvus
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pulling an all-nighter was trivial at the age of 20. Today, it would probably incapacitate me for several days :P

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#33

Bragging about how much weed you smoke or how much you drink.

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#34

Flipping off the camera when you get your picture taken.

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C .Hunger
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, if you don't want your pic taken, and someone insists, have no problem with this one.

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#35

Disrespecting other people for no reason.

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#36

The cringe culture. Just do whatever the f**k you want who cares.

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#37

Adults who hang out with them.

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Subaru645
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one right here…especially the ones who tell young girls they are so mature for their age…suspect on every level.

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#38

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Being popular for the wrong reasons. As soon as you graduate that s**t starts over. Better not to rely on being popular and prepare.

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#39

Using slang terms like “the fuzz” with reference to police or “bread” for money. Also, wearing bell-bottomed trousers and beads. (Note, I’ve been away from the high school scene for a while, so take this with a grain of salt, as it may be somewhat dated).

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#40

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Bailing on plans last minute. If you don’t want to do something, just say so.

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#41

Talking back to teachers and laughing in their faces, bullying others, smoking and drinking and then bragging about it. Acting "alter" when they are just following the trend and not really belong there.

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#42

Moaning in the middle of the class.

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#43

Starting fights for no reason (at least in my school anyways).

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#44

TikTok b******t.

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Luke Branwen
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've recently seen a teen guy scrolling TikTok. One of the videos consisted solely of Peter Griffin saying the N-word. Like...

#45

30 People Share Cringe Things High Schoolers Do While Thinking It's Cool Could say quite a few, but the best is probably - Not caring.

Being genuine even to the point of seeming uncool is an amazing personality trait in adulthood that some don’t get back until they are parents.

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Lydsylou (she/her)
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The people who act like they care the least about what other people think normally care the most. Those people that actually go about their day actually not caring what others think are the happiest

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#46

Putting people down

You best stop doing that s**t real quick cause it won;t score you points in college.

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#47

Crying on TikTok, or any kind of dancing on TikTok to something completely inappropriate, like a funeral or someone in a hospital bed fighting for their life.

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#48

Insult humor as the primary way of interacting with your friends.

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#49

Most high schoolers.

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#50

The concept of "cool".

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kath morgan
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Monks of Cool, whose tiny and exclusive monastery is hidden in a really cool and laid-back valley in the lower Ramtops, have a passing-out test for a novice. He is taken into a room full of all types of clothing and asked: Yo, my son, which of these is the most stylish thing to wear? And the correct answer is: Hey, whatever I select.

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#51

Civics with loud mufflers.

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Blue Bunny of Happiness
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dunno, it was quite handy to be able to tell my boyfriend’s brother was on his way over a couple of minutes before he arrived.

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#52

Pretty much the whole persona they play to fit in.

You'll eventually grow out of it. The question is just when.

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#53

Guys who "get around" with lots of girls.

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BrookeBT
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8 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, Brian Wilson was a terrible influence on the youth. We were warned. (I do agree. I just wanted to make a Beach Boys joke)

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#54

Yelling “Let’s gooooooooooooooooo!”.

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KillerKiwi
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why? If it’s not in a public place or anything what is the problem

#55

Sleeping eight people to a hotel room to save money.

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Me Oh My
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's wrong with this one? It's likely all they can afford.

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#56

Dating older guys.

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Jihana
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No to that one, that's victim blaming. It's the older guys that are the problem.

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