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WandererOverFog , August de Richelieu Report

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Finding out your co-workers are all going out for drinks that you are not invited to.

Final score:

93points

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Otto Katz 11 months ago

What's annoying is being with co-workers, and having them all talking about the party they were all at last night, that you were not invited to, and you are just finding about now.

35points

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Basically you do something that everyone has a problem with for some reason and then someone else does the same thing and people are fine with it.

Gobo_Cat_7585 , Mikhail Nilov Report

Final score:

90points

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TheGoodBoi 11 months ago

All the time. All the time...

32points

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Trying to share an idea in a work meeting but no one acknowledges that you’re trying to speak.

notstephanie , Athena Report

Final score:

82points

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bigoldthor 11 months ago

You have to be vocal and persistent in these settings. If you are a shrinking violet, you WILL get drowned out.

11points

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Being ignored in a conversation.

trymycourage , Keira Burton Report

Final score:

81points

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Panda-sized Potato 11 months ago

That's my whole life.

36points

Lauren S 11 months ago

Me too! I hear you Panda Sized Potato. And I kind of suck at interrupting others and talking over them because I’m so scared I’ll never get to speak or I’ll forget what I was going to say or mostly, it won’t be relevant by the time I get a word in. So I can be annoyingly dominate in conversations and passively quiet. I’m nearing 40 and still don’t have a hold of how to balance this in basic conversation. But my goodness do I make sure my son is heard and gets to speak his piece because I never want him feeling like us.

1point

Sharon Ammons 11 months ago

Or constantly interrupted or talked over.

9points

SCP 4666 11 months ago

And then they ask you why you're always so silent

6points

TheGoodBoi 11 months ago

Talking to someone, another person walks up and just starts talking to that person you were talking to. Like great, I was just moving my mouth for no reason anyways...

4points

SCP 4666 11 months ago

That's just rude. And the best part is when the person you were talking to turns to them instead.

1point

John Dilligaf 11 months ago

there's a saying a read - "better to be alone by yourself than alone in a crowd"

3points

Miss Violet Knightchild 11 months ago

Especially if there's only 3 of you there :/

3points

Tabitha 11 months ago

I mean, a group of people will break off into separate conversations periodically, then usually coming back around to the whole group conversing together. However, when one person is quite pointedly left out and ignored, that is simply f*****g rude, as well as cruel.

2points

Apatheist Account2 11 months ago

Sorry, did you say something?

2points

PeepPeep the duck 11 months ago (edited)

I always make a point to stop for the these people, it used to happen to me in school a lot, but as I developed better people skills it stopped as an adult but in so aware when it happens to others and it bothers me. I like everyone to have a say if I’m hanging out and I’ll stop a whole group chat to go back and hear the person who was spoken over or interrupted etc

2points

Frank Russell 11 months ago

Thereby making it easier, and more fun, to insert snarky comments.

1point

Lady Gypsy Rain 11 months ago (edited)

In my family we all talk loud. Because if you don’t you’ll never get a thought out edgewise. I’m trying to work on this on myself but retracing conversational boundaries at 50 is a tough change. Plus my memory issues make it so if I don’t speak immediately upon thinking it, my brain will melt before I can finish my sentence later in the conversation. But still I try.

0points

Lavern Defazio 11 months ago

I just nod my head in agreement and continue thinking about other stuff. Let them converse while i space out.

0points

DarkViolet 11 months ago

Me, at Coffee Hour at my church. Everyone else at the table are conversing with each other, and it's as if I didn't exist, even when I try to engage. Yah, I'm better off being solo at a Peet's.

0points

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Walking behind the group on the sidewalk because there’s no room for you to be next to them

bigredstl , Ron Lach Report

Final score:

76points

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Panda-sized Potato 11 months ago

Sidewalks are meant to be shared. Don't be that selfish group.

26points

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful When the group chat goes silent after you suggest something.

PositiveEmo , Ketut Subiyanto Report

Final score:

67points

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bigoldthor 11 months ago

What is this "group chat" of which you speak? /s

19points

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Watching people plan an event in the same room as you but not inviting you

__DVYN__ , fauxels Report

Final score:

67points

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Frank Russell 11 months ago

That sure makes it easier than coming up with an excuse as to why I can't attend.

34points

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Seeing everybody in the office return from a lunch outing you were never told about.

And the even worse flip side, arriving at the location for a group outing, and nobody else shows up because it was cancelled but nobody told you.

khendron , Redd F Report

Final score:

65points

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Frank Russell 11 months ago

Being part of a critical department in your company, but never getting invited when the rest of the company caters lunch. They sure don't hesitate to call when their equipment goes down.

29points

#10

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful being invited to a social event but not really being completely welcome. like, everyone is nice to you but it feels like it’s out of obligation.

junoinbloom91 , Antenna Report

Final score:

63points

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Lyoness 11 months ago

Pity invites are the worst.

26points

According-News-5901 , Monstera Production Report

#11

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful When your best friend mentions their best friend and it isn't you

Final score:

54points

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Lydsylou (she/her) 11 months ago

That's why I don't have a best friend. I have really great friends but I can choose just one person to be the best it's not fair. Either everyone is my best friend or everyone is a good friend

19points

#12

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful When you ask someone if they want to do something on a certain day and they go

“Yes but I’ll let you know if something else props up”

As in “I will but only as a last resort in case someone even better wants to hang out”

Mushroomc0wz , Liza Summer Report

Final score:

53points

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Frank Russell 11 months ago

Oh, in that case, never mind. Sheesh, find better acquaintances.

20points

Either-Sherbert-8845 , Kampus Production Report

#13

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Being asked to take a group picture of the group that you had come with.

Final score:

49points

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Lyoness 11 months ago

Or they take it while you're getting a drink or in the bathroom

20points

#14

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful In a group chat everyone wishing the respective birthday girl "Happy Birthday" and forgetting yours three years in a row!

KaligirlinDe , Robert Anderson Report

Final score:

48points

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Big Chungus 11 months ago

I've had mutual friends tell my twin happy birthday and not me, fully aware we are twins and have known the person for years

30points

every-one29 , Jarritos Mexican Soda Report

#15

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Last resort friend because someone is bored and no one else will hang with them

Final score:

46points

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Mike F 11 months ago

This also comes from declining invitations fairly often. You tend to drop off the radar of the main group, then...

9points

#16

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Everyone knows about something important, and you're the last to find out.

Zhantae , Karolina Grabowska Report

Final score:

44points

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Lydsylou (she/her) 11 months ago

I knew stuff had been going on but no one told me anything. I didn't pry because I thought it was insensitive to do so. A year later I found out from a mutual friend that my friends ex had been making death threats. I'm pretty sure I could've at least supported her in that time

11points

#17

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Your supervisor quit

You weren’t considered for promotion because “something something HR says we’ve got to hire someone from outside”

You get asked to train the new hire to be your supervisor

mad_king_soup , JESHOOTS.COM Report

Final score:

41points

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Frank Russell 11 months ago

Hmmm, bye-bye.

24points

#18

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful No one laughing at your joke and someone repeats it and everyone laughs. Yeah pretty hurt about it lol

Spirited_Ad9924 , ELEVATE Report

Final score:

38points

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Shannimal 11 months ago

Yes!!! All. The. Time!! I always tell myself I need to be louder, but it's always with a group I'm not 100% myself with.

15points

#19

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful I went to my son’s Halloween class party last year and all the moms stood in the complete opposite corner of the room and I sat by myself the whole time. No one said a word to me and I’m not sure why. That one kinda stung.

Lvsucknuts69 , Maryland GovPics Report

Final score:

36points

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Panda-sized Potato 11 months ago

This one actually sounds like a "you" problem. You chose to sit opposite of everyone, and you expected them to come to you.

34points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#20

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Being turned down for a job you’re very qualified for and you can tell that it’s because they just don’t like your personality or style or don’t think you’ll fit in.

Clean-Frame-4625 , Christina @ wocintechchat.com Report

Final score:

35points

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TheGoodBoi 11 months ago

This always happens to me with promotions. They always end up hiring a buddy or family member that they end up having to let go...

16points

#21

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Not being in a group chat.

Mr-Ginny , Ketut Subiyanto Report

Final score:

32points

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Lydsylou (she/her) 11 months ago

I had one friend group who made a group chat specifically to plan a surprise birthday party. I couldn't make it to the party so I wast part of the chat which was fine. A few weeks later the conversation in the group chat I was on with the same people had almost gone silent. Then someone told me that the people in the party group chat had added the.person they were throwing the party for after the event and that was pretty much the main group chat now. So basically instead of removing me from a group chat they just made a new one and abandoned the one I was on

14points

#22

Out of all the people at work doing very little/ nothing at all, and being the only person to get a very s**t task, while the others have no tasks assigned. That's me.

ImperialZippo Report

Final score:

32points

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Lyoness 11 months ago

It's the stereotype - the better you do the more work you get. You're reliable, they aren't. Speak up - otherwise it gets worse.

16points

#23

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Bringing in some homemade treat for the office to share, and nobody eats it.

FalstaffsMind , Afif Ramdhasuma Report

Final score:

31points

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bigoldthor 11 months ago

Awkward. But tbh, lots of people don't like to eat homemade foods in these settings anymore due to not knowing the environment or conditions in which they were made. I'm a little skittish of this myself these days.

37points

#24

Coworkers ordering lunch / coffee and not asking if you want anything.

DrRonnieJamesDO Report

Final score:

29points

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Ms.GB 11 months ago

Ugh, I had to do this all the time and I hated it. Driving back w 8 coffees...we took turns but it was the price u had to pay to get out of the office for a half hour.

5points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#25

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Having your tinder date leave the bar with someone else

PMmeyourboogers , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

26points

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Frank Russell 11 months ago

Good riddance.

20points

#26

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Being invited to a party as an afterthought

Leela-Stone , Pavel Danilyuk Report

Final score:

25points

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Donald 11 months ago (edited)

Once got my older cousin to get some adult beverages for a party for a "friend" of mine. Set it up, got the order delivered to my place and he comes by to load it up in his car. We have a short conversation and he was on his way. The only real friend I had at the party asked why I wasn't there several hours later, well guess who was never invited. That one made me cry a little that night alone in my room. I was young and naive and was hoping that the invitation would come at some point.

16points

#27

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Getting skipped when someone brings a birthday card for everyone to sign. Not just once, every time. I worked there long enough that I knew the birthday person way better than the person bringing around the card to be signed.

Then of course there is the "hey let's order pizza" day but they don't ask if you want to go in on it.

The best one is when someone tell you about something that happened and you were there and saw it yourself. You say I know I saw it. Their response "You were there?" Yes. I was standing right next to you.

Smile_Terrible , George Dolgikh Report

Final score:

22points

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Zephyr343 11 months ago

Get them a better card just from yourself then

14points

True_Turnover_7578 Report

#28

Texting all your friends merry Christmas and not a single one of them texting it to you first.

Final score:

22points

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Apatheist Account2 11 months ago

Well, if you will do it at 00:01 on the 25th...

11points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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French Diver’s “Jewels” In Tight Swimming Trunks Become Talk Of The Town At Olympics

#29

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Being dared to go home, while playing Truth or Dare!

CaLM0509 , Harsh Gupta Report

Final score:

21points

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Donald 11 months ago

Brutal.

21points

#30

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Getting the mail and finding wedding invitations for all of your roommates, but not for you, for a friend you all knew from college the year before.

Varkain , Job Ferrari Report

Final score:

20points

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Frank Russell 11 months ago

Was never a friend then.

21points

#31

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Having two ubers to get somewhere, being someone who ordered one of the Uber, and everyone obviously wanting to ride with the other person.

Panda_Mon , Paul Hanaoka Report

Final score:

20points

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Quarkbeast 11 months ago

I'd be headed in the other direction, or home. Pick some different "everyones".

20points

#32

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Every year, my father and stepmother host Christmas dinner. We all get assigned something: appetizer, desert, sides, etc. I always get assigned cheese. I have never, in my entire life, enjoyed cheese. And I'm a pretty good cook (nothing special, but just sayin' I could put something together).

Every year, they give me f**king cheese. And they bring their own, so why bother even giving me cheese?

BananasPineapple05 , Waldemar Report

Final score:

17points

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Frank Russell 11 months ago

Show up with a bottle of your favorite booze. Pour yourself a glass, smile, and say, "cheese!"

64points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#33

Going to the bathroom with the girls and then they leave you in there alone hahahahaha

bigredstl Report

Final score:

15points

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bigoldthor 11 months ago

Dump and run?

7points

#34

Being Picked Last In Gym Class Hurts, But Here Are 34 Adult Situations That Are As Painful Being given the day off on a big inspection day

Jiggly_dong , RDNE Stock project Report

Final score:

2points

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Lyoness 11 months ago

Isn't being given a day off a good thing? Well, clearly not to OP. Also not sure why the downvote as this is clearly one person's opinion.

11points

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Panda-sized Potato 11 months ago

Some of these just sound like straight FOMO. But you can't expect to be a part of everything. You are not the center of the world. People's lives don't revolve around you. I have good friends that do stuff without me. That's perfectly fine. I've done stuff without other friends, too. Can't involve everyone everytime. And sometimes you have to take the initiative, if you want to do something. I understand it is hard sometimes/all the time. I'm an introvert, so I understand. And I know how much rejection hurts. It causes me to shy away from doing things sometimes. But you can't expect people to put in the effort if you are not willing to do the same. And you can't be a part of everything all the time.

22points

Astro 11 months ago

Yeah honestly I’ve known people who were not well-liked for legitimate reasons (they’re a jerk/racist/make other people uncomfortable, etc) and I’ve heard them make a lot of the arguments presented in this post. It’s not always everyone else’s fault if they don’t enjoy your company! But sometimes you can be a lovely person but introverted just stay in the corner without h letting anyone else get a chance to get to know you. Human interaction is annoying and complicated, and we all deserve friends, but you can’t always just wait for friends to just happen sadly :(

13points

Denise Melek 11 months ago

When those things happened to me, with hindsight I often realized that I kinda was annoying or unfriendly that time.

8points

Ms.GB 11 months ago

If this kinda thing consistently happens to you perhaps look within. These kind of things happen to everyone once in a while but I have worked with people that were purposely not told about get togethers etc. but it was never because they were too shy or introverted or awkward. If you have terrible hygiene or constantly creep on people or insult others nobody wants to be around you...those are the only scenarios I can see of this happening time after time with different groups of people in the adult world. There was one person that would never pay for themselves etc...sometimes there are reasons.

5points

Bec 11 months ago

When I was struggling with depression, I felt unwelcomed or unliked, but it was probably mostly in my head. I watched this with a loved one as well, we'd go out to eat and he would complain that people were giving him dirty looks or being rude - nope, most people aren't paying attention to you, and even if they are, don't base your self worth on their opinions

4points

Mila Sliacka 11 months ago

Here’s one: supporting your friend during the long breakup on daily basis. Planning to see each other when he comes to town. Rescheduling my day so we can spend time together, calling him to check how the train ride is going only to find out he is not coming because he made plans plans with his new boyfriend. Didn’t bother to tell me. After this happened more than once I bailed out.

2points

Poediddy 11 months ago

Not once in any of these stories did anyone say, "Hey, maybe I'm the problem!"

2points

INGI 11 months ago

Well, most were one-liners, not deep, introspective essays, so...

1point

Enlee Jones 11 months ago

I once heard my boss badmouthing me to a coworker. Fun times.

2points

Nils Skirnir 11 months ago

Being forced to be a project manager

2points

Jennifer Clayton 11 months ago

Having a friend confide their drama to you and say "I could never tell my real friends about this."

2points

DarkViolet 11 months ago

Wow, just....wow. What are you, then, a mannequin?

1point

Did I say that out loud? (he/him)cis/het 11 months ago

So many pathetic, whinging, needy people. Maybe there's a very good reason others don't you around.

2points

Beverley 11 months ago

Never knowing if your work colleagues are going to remember/acknowledge your birthday. When it gets missed more often than remembered you kinda give up expecting anything.

0points

Nancy Doughty 11 months ago

Hell has no fury like a Bored Panda Admin that decides it doesn't like you.

0points

Steve Hall 11 months ago

If you aren't included, maybe there is a reason, maybe you should seek the answer from within.

-1point

Mitchell 11 months ago

A lot of self indulgent whining here IMO. If people are treating you like s**t, there is a reason and you need to figure out what it is. Either some aspect of your personality is off putting and you need to reflect on how you land on people, or the people are a bunch of mean girls and why would you want them as friends anyway? Boo hoo.

-1point

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Panda-sized Potato 11 months ago

22points

Astro 11 months ago

13points

Denise Melek 11 months ago

When those things happened to me, with hindsight I often realized that I kinda was annoying or unfriendly that time.

8points

Ms.GB 11 months ago

5points

Bec 11 months ago

4points

Mila Sliacka 11 months ago

2points

Poediddy 11 months ago

Not once in any of these stories did anyone say, "Hey, maybe I'm the problem!"

2points

INGI 11 months ago

Well, most were one-liners, not deep, introspective essays, so...

1point

Enlee Jones 11 months ago

I once heard my boss badmouthing me to a coworker. Fun times.

2points

Nils Skirnir 11 months ago

Being forced to be a project manager

2points

Jennifer Clayton 11 months ago

Having a friend confide their drama to you and say "I could never tell my real friends about this."

2points

DarkViolet 11 months ago

Wow, just....wow. What are you, then, a mannequin?

1point