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A Story Of Tragedy And Loss: I Explored An Abandoned House Belonging To A Family That Got In A Car Accident In The 1980s (20 Pics)
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A Story Of Tragedy And Loss: I Explored An Abandoned House Belonging To A Family That Got In A Car Accident In The 1980s (20 Pics)

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This is a sad story, but I thought it was important to share. These pictures are from an abandoned estate in France. In the 1980s, the family who lived here was in a horrific car accident that killed everyone except the mother. Her husband and two young children were lost in the accident.

The mother’s grief was unbearable and she stayed in this large house by herself for years. She used the walls and scribbled thoughts and poems all throughout the house. One such line in French reads… “Here, I don’t feel loneliness: who knows? Maybe I’m not really alone.” As her mental state declined, she was institutionalized, where she eventually died. Today, everything remains as if a family was still living there.

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    The exterior

    This particular house is well-known in France by urban explorers. It has been like this for a long time. I was shown this place by a French explorer who is also my friend. Usually, I find abandoned houses just by driving around certain areas or using Google maps.

    The dining room, covered with thoughts and poems

    The woman who survived the accident spent years in the large estate with her mental health declining before she was institutionalized and passed away. The house walls are covered in poems and thoughts she painted to help her cope with her loss. In this image, if you look closely enough, you can read some of these poems.

    The back wall in blue on the left (most likely her own words): “Here, I don’t feel loneliness: who knows? Maybe I’m not really alone.”

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    Back wall center in green: “To gregarious vacationing, I prefer my familiar backyard… (with or without sunscreen). It’s a matter of personality, as would say La Bruyére.”

    Upper left wall: “On the walls to be repainted; On the sunlit trees; On my intense 50 years I write your name.” -Laferté

    In green behind the green chair: “To those who rise up early God helps them.”

    The red writing says: “You have to believe, of course, believe in yourself” -Françoise Giroud.

    An upstairs bedroom

    An abandoned bedroom inside of the house. I believe this was the children’s bedroom.

    Family clothing

    An upstairs bedroom

    I learned about the tragic backstory of this house from a person who showed me the house. I believe it was in the news as well back when it happened. It was very eerie to photograph as well as quite sad, specifically seeing children’s belongings and photographs of them.

    Dining room walls

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    The secret bed behind the dining room walls

    I love that each picture can tell a story on its own but a series of photographs is really like reading a book. I love the mystery and I enjoy making others think about what’s in a particular photograph. If they are thinking about an image, then hopefully they will remember it in the future as well.

    The woman’s bedroom

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    What remains in the bedroom of a woman who lost her entire family in an auto accident.

    Beside objects

    The children

    Upstairs bedroom

    The woman’s bathroom

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    The living room

    Inside a bedroom

    Family clothes

    A dresser top

    An old photo

    The kitchen

    Pots on the wall

    A downstairs window

    Abandoned places as well as models for fashion editorials were the first things I started photographing. Particularly photographing models in abandoned places. I still prefer photographing people rather than buildings.

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    I am currently working on a photography book of abandoned places throughout Europe after the success of the American Decay. So there are many more abandoned locations with many different stories behind them coming. I look forward to sharing those as well!

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    Hi there! I'm Gabrielė, but you can also catch me responding to Gab, Gabi, Gabert, or Gabe – take your pick. Professionally, I'm the senior community manager over at Bored Panda, helping people share their awesome work and connecting artists with a worldwide audience. Beyond work, you'll catch me traveling, listening to vinyl and diving into movies, art exhibitions, and concerts. I'm a culture buff at heart, always eager to explore and embrace the richness of the human experience.

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    ruslana_kusova avatar
    Remi
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is such a monument preserving human grief. My heart goes for that poor soul, no, all of them. And it's sad that the house kind of died after the family, but also nice that no one has touched it, no one got an idea to steal as it usually happens

    jessica-bertram1 avatar
    Jessica Bertram
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i agree, this is unbearably sad. And true urban desiccation/abandoned location photographers know to never touch anything; they are simply there to observe and record. hopefully this place (and others like it) will be preserved by all who visit🫂

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    justinjones_2 avatar
    Justin Jones
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wife and I went to look at a house for sale in a small town. It was an old Victorian house with two levels. The owners had two sons. Tragically the younger son had died 6 years prior due to an injury suffered in a football game. He had gotten a concussion one week in a game - but convinced everyone he was ok to play the following week. He took another blow to the head and became unconscious. He later died at the hospital. Being a small town we knew the story. When we went into one of the upstairs rooms it was like entering a time capsule. All of his stuff was still in the room like he still lived there. Posters on the wall, homecoming tickets on his desk, school books, letter jacket laying on a chair, clothes in the closet. It was heartbreaking and we lost complete interest in the house - the vibe was just gone. We solemnly came out of the room and told the real estate agent we had seen enough. She got a knowing look and we left.

    bobbyrowe avatar
    Old Roadie
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My heart knows her pain. Wish I could translate her musings.

    rosieetike avatar
    Tyke
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only one I can make out, she's talking about the beautiful sunrise. Poor poor woman, I can't imagine what it must have been like for her to lose her entire family

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    Brandi Moore
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow!! What an incredible photo essay. For an empath, it was a lot to take in. A chasm of longing, yet beautifully haunting. Sad but hopeful but broken. There is sometimes such artistic, poetic stillness in tragedy.

    joshuadavid avatar
    Joshua David
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from the 80s and yet things look so much older. P.s. I'm not saying it isn't the 80s, my recollection is different.

    kirbywalker avatar
    PotatoNinja5000
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are nice, but it would have been interesting to see everything as it was and not staged. There's a fair few things here strangely without dust (a sign that things have been tampered with) and I'm 99% sure fresh flowers can't survive that long when abandoned.

    weylandyutani1 avatar
    Sleepflower
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking the exact same thing. The picture of the record player in particular.

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    mindylegault9 avatar
    Minknows
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why the kitchen bedroom? It looks like it's in a cupboard. It seems creepy. Was it a discipline closet?

    rodger-coghlan avatar
    rodger coghlan
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a fictional story about the Angolan revolution, A General Theory of Oblivion, that is very much like this house (https://www.washingtonindependentreviewofbooks.com/index.php/bookreview/a-general-theory-of-oblivion)

    seansean avatar
    Sean Sean
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    1 year ago

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    Yet another staged, fake "abandoned" photo shoot.

    ruslana_kusova avatar
    Remi
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is such a monument preserving human grief. My heart goes for that poor soul, no, all of them. And it's sad that the house kind of died after the family, but also nice that no one has touched it, no one got an idea to steal as it usually happens

    jessica-bertram1 avatar
    Jessica Bertram
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i agree, this is unbearably sad. And true urban desiccation/abandoned location photographers know to never touch anything; they are simply there to observe and record. hopefully this place (and others like it) will be preserved by all who visit🫂

    Load More Replies...
    justinjones_2 avatar
    Justin Jones
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wife and I went to look at a house for sale in a small town. It was an old Victorian house with two levels. The owners had two sons. Tragically the younger son had died 6 years prior due to an injury suffered in a football game. He had gotten a concussion one week in a game - but convinced everyone he was ok to play the following week. He took another blow to the head and became unconscious. He later died at the hospital. Being a small town we knew the story. When we went into one of the upstairs rooms it was like entering a time capsule. All of his stuff was still in the room like he still lived there. Posters on the wall, homecoming tickets on his desk, school books, letter jacket laying on a chair, clothes in the closet. It was heartbreaking and we lost complete interest in the house - the vibe was just gone. We solemnly came out of the room and told the real estate agent we had seen enough. She got a knowing look and we left.

    bobbyrowe avatar
    Old Roadie
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My heart knows her pain. Wish I could translate her musings.

    rosieetike avatar
    Tyke
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only one I can make out, she's talking about the beautiful sunrise. Poor poor woman, I can't imagine what it must have been like for her to lose her entire family

    Load More Replies...
    iphone_brandi avatar
    Brandi Moore
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow!! What an incredible photo essay. For an empath, it was a lot to take in. A chasm of longing, yet beautifully haunting. Sad but hopeful but broken. There is sometimes such artistic, poetic stillness in tragedy.

    joshuadavid avatar
    Joshua David
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from the 80s and yet things look so much older. P.s. I'm not saying it isn't the 80s, my recollection is different.

    kirbywalker avatar
    PotatoNinja5000
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are nice, but it would have been interesting to see everything as it was and not staged. There's a fair few things here strangely without dust (a sign that things have been tampered with) and I'm 99% sure fresh flowers can't survive that long when abandoned.

    weylandyutani1 avatar
    Sleepflower
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking the exact same thing. The picture of the record player in particular.

    Load More Replies...
    mindylegault9 avatar
    Minknows
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why the kitchen bedroom? It looks like it's in a cupboard. It seems creepy. Was it a discipline closet?

    rodger-coghlan avatar
    rodger coghlan
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a fictional story about the Angolan revolution, A General Theory of Oblivion, that is very much like this house (https://www.washingtonindependentreviewofbooks.com/index.php/bookreview/a-general-theory-of-oblivion)

    seansean avatar
    Sean Sean
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Yet another staged, fake "abandoned" photo shoot.

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