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Woman Abandons Family After Husband Gets Paralyzed, And The Way Their Little Girl Started Taking Care Of Him Is Incredible
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Woman Abandons Family After Husband Gets Paralyzed, And The Way Their Little Girl Started Taking Care Of Him Is Incredible

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When tragedy strikes, family members need to stick together. But after Tian Haicheng from China got paralyzed in a car crash, his wife of 7 years abandoned him. Luckily, not everyone turned from him.

According to Chinese media, Tian was left paralyzed from the chest down after a taxi he took crashed into a ditch in March 2016. His wife left just two months later, taking their eldest on with her. “She told me on the day that she was going to stay in her mother’s home for a few days. But she never returned, and she took our son with her,” Tian said. Only his little girl, Jia Jia, stayed with him. And she’s been taking complete care of him ever since.

Jia Jia gets up every day at 6 am and massages her father’s muscles for half an hour. Before the little caretaker goes to school, she also brushes his teeth and washes his face.

While she’s out studying, her elderly grandparents, both farmers, look after her father. After she comes back, Jia Jia feeds her single parent his dinner and helps him move around the house using a DIY mobility device.

Jia Jia even shaves her father’s beard. “At the beginning, I didn’t know how to shave, and I cut dad’s face, and it bled,” she said. “But dad said it wasn’t painful. Now, I’m very good at shaving his beard. My grandmother says I shave it very clean.”

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When asked about her mother, Jia Jia said she doesn’t miss her at all because “she doesn’t look after dad.” She misses her older brother, though. “I used to be very close to him.”

To document his daughter’s selfless work, the family man has set up an account on China’s live-streaming app Kuaishou. As of this article, as many as 480,000 people are following their daily struggles.

(h/t metro)

6-year-old Jia Jia has been helping her father to get about his daily life for 2 years now

He was paralyzed in a car accident in 2016, and she helps him move around the house using a DIY mobility device

Tian was left paralyzed from the chest down after a taxi he took crashed into a ditch in March 2016

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Just two months later, his wife of 7 years left him, taking their eldest son with her

When asked if she missed her mother, Jia Jia said no. “She doesn’t look after dad. But I miss my brother. I used to be very close to him”

Jia Jia even shaves her father, “At the beginning, I didn’t know how to [do it] and I cut dad’s face and it bled”

“Now, I’m very good at shaving his beard. My grandmother says I shave it very clean”

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Jia Jia gets up at every day at 6am and massages her father’s muscles for half an hour

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Before she goes to school, the little girl also brushes his teeth and washes his face

She leaves her father only to go to school and while she’s there, her elderly grandparents look after her father

People were heartbroken to hear the story

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Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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Rokas Laurinavičius

Rokas Laurinavičius

Author, BoredPanda staff

Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her mother is an a*****e for leaving a young girl to look after her father.

Orsolya
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And taking the older son with her... I hope when her time comes, the son will turn his back on her just as she did on her husband and little girl.

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Janine B.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there a crowdfunding campaign for the little family? I'd gladly donate for them.

Aaron Kara
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's just unbelievably beautiful and tragic in equal measure. Good luck to both of them and a big f**k you to the mother

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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her mother is an a*****e for leaving a young girl to look after her father.

Orsolya
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And taking the older son with her... I hope when her time comes, the son will turn his back on her just as she did on her husband and little girl.

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Janine B.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there a crowdfunding campaign for the little family? I'd gladly donate for them.

Aaron Kara
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's just unbelievably beautiful and tragic in equal measure. Good luck to both of them and a big f**k you to the mother

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