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Body positivity is a term many people are embracing with open arms nowadays. After all, the social movement promotes feelings of acceptance and love, regardless of anyone’s size, shape, or appearance.

In fact, this new mindset is so widely used and known that there are content creators who blow up by simply sharing their journeys of what it’s like to be a plus-size person in a vastly different and constantly changing world.

They aren’t afraid to call others out for ‘fatphobic’ behavior, rooting for inclusivity for everyone. But as many know, sometimes audience members aren’t the big fans of what influencers create. Here are 11 times plus-size customers spoke their mind and shared it on social media — whether it seems reasonable or logical remains up to you!

#1

Discrimination Within Bollywood

Plus-size person in a blue outfit, expressing confidence against societal norms in outdoor urban setting.

Actress Anjali Anand believes it to be unfair that Bollywood has given her the “plus-size” tag when actors such as Govinda and Rishi Kapoor were never labeled as such.

She told Fever FM, “Nobody would call [Govinda] a plus-size actor. Nobody would call Rishi Kapoor a plus size actor. He is an actor. But for a woman, I’m always called Anjali Anand — a plus size actor. I hate talking about it.

“We need to normalize it. People ask me why I don’t promote plus-size representation on the internet, and it’s because I don’t want to.”

She later went on to describe how society treats women in a harsher light than men.

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K
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9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The 7% who said no.. probably men.

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    #2

    Denied Entry From A Party Bus

    Plus-size person in a stylish black top poses confidently, challenging conventional beauty norms.

    Miami Beach in Florida is known for its vibrant nightlife and creative parties, and that’s exactly what 27-year-old body positivity advocate Fallon Melillo wanted to take advantage of.

    Unfortunately, when she and her friends decided to take a party bus to get to a pool party, things took a turn.

    Although the pool party itself said on Eventbrite, “Sorry No Big Girls for this party!” the promoter themselves did not disclose this information to the girl who bought the tickets for the party bus.

    Thinking things would be okay, Fallon decided to go, only to be turned away

    “There’s no law, but it’s just downright awful and rude and humiliating,” the advocate told Bored Panda.

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    Emilu
    Community Member
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granting or denying someone access to a party based on their size is gross. Be grateful you weren’t allowed to go to that s**t show!

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    #3

    Inclusivity In Target

    TikTok content creator Samyra has always been loud and proud when it comes to showcasing different kinds of bodies. 

    She recorded a video where she attempted to shame Target for only marketing their clothes towards thin people.

    Samyra picked up a women’s jacket with the tip: “Go up a size or two on your purchase for an easy, effortlessly cool vibe.”

    “This is a clear example of how brands center on thinness. How can someone who is 3X of 4X go up a size or two?” she argued.

    But the comments were anything but understanding and forgiving.

    “Very few people are built like you. Market moves corporations, not your feelings,” one person stated.

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    Hippopotamuses
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As one of the commentator pointed out. 'Market moves corporations...'. That's the reality. To achieve economies of scale, they cater for the majority, and the majority has been conditioned to expect smaller sizes.

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    #4

    Handrails In Swimming Pools

    @jaebaeofficial No handrails at pools? That’s not inclusive. Demand accessibility for all. ⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #EqualAccess #PlusSize #PlusSizeTravel #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #Fyp ♬ Not my fault sped up - Abby :)

    And Jaelynn Chaney stirs the pot of controversy once more.

    She claims that public swimming pools that don’t feature handrails are “not inclusive” in a video from July 2024, repeatedly stating that “obesity is not a disability.” 

    For the 27-year-old, handrails are a crucial part of helping her stabilize as she gets out of the water. 

    “Accessibility isn’t optional,” she shared. “Make handrails mandatory at all pools for swimmers of every size and ability.”

    Chaney continued, “Without handrails, we’re excluding so many from enjoying pools safely. It’s time to ensure everyone can swim with confidence. Demand mandatory handrails now!”

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with weight exclusively, IMO. Handrails should be a safety feature in most pools?

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    #5

    Quitting A Job After Being Told To “Cover Her Stomach”

    Plus-size woman in a casual outfit expressing frustration in a home setting, addressing uncomfortable spaces.

    Abigayle Canterbury was just doing what she needed to do when she was dress-coded at her job… that did not have a dress code.

    She was indirectly told by her manager that she needed to “dress something nicer and cover the stomach,” to which she responded with “So no crop tops, got it.”

    But after talking to her other co-workers, some who had been there significantly longer than she had, she realized they had never been dress-coded — even though a few were wearing something “inappropriate,” by the manager’s standards.

    After all, what drew Abigayle to this job was the “laid-back environment,” and how the employees could wear whatever they wanted. 

    “That sh–t really not only caught me off guard but kind of hurt my feelings,” she said. 

    Her response? Quitting.

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    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A crop top is not acceptable for work even if it's part of some slutty uniform like at Hooters. I refuse to go there because of the uniform. They can call it a family restaurant all the want to but I call BS on that! If there is a dress code it should apply to everybody!

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    #6

    A Look Of Disgust In An Airplane

    Plus-size customer in two contrasting moments: looking upset indoors and joyful at a theme park wearing Mickey Mouse ears.

    A Brazilian plus-size influencer known as Sidney recorded an emotional video for his social media followers, recounting a particularly unpleasant experience he had while traveling.

    As he was heading to Rio de Janeiro on a plane, he recounted having a difficult time passing through the aircraft aisle and accidentally bumping into a woman.

    “When I passed by her and unintentionally, because of my size, my belly touched her, she looked at her arm, wiped it off, and gave me a disgusted look,” he said. “I felt like the worst human being alive.” 

    The small incident also triggered his anxiety. 

    “I had never gone through something like this, never in my life. I don’t give room for anyone to disrespect me, but this time it was completely different,” he concluded.

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    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find planes extremely narrow regardless of someone's size, I get anxious every time

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    #7

    Lyft Driver Refuses To Let A Plus-Size Woman In His Car

    Plus-size individual standing confidently between two men in suits, emphasizing inclusive spaces.

    When Dajua Blanding, known as ‘Dank Demoss’ ordered a Lyft ride to the Lions playoff game, she was met with rejection over her weight

    In a video posted on January 19, Dajua captured the whole conversation between her and the driver.

    When he showed up, he allegedly took one look at her and immediately locked the car’s doors, denying her entry into his Mercedes-Benz sedan.

    “I can fit in this car,” Dajua said in the clip. 

    “Believe me, you can’t,” replied the driver. “I’m sorry. I’m going to cancel. You’re not going to be charged,” and added, “I’ve been in this situation before.”

    Shocked, Dajua asked, “So every big person, you turn down because they can’t fit in your car?”

    The driver apologized and then suggested she order herself a bigger vehicle, such as an Uber XL, for easier access. 

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    Upstaged75
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's hardly just plus size. I'm overweight and wear plus sizes, but I still fit in to normal airplane seats and cars. She's super morbid obese.

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    #8

    Bigger Car Seat Size

    Plus-size customer in colorful dress standing by a car, highlighting discomfort with inadequate space.

    “Supercars should be for everyone,” stated Panamanian plus-size influencer Gracie Bon as she posted a video demanding that the luxury sports car McLaren should increase the size of their seats to accommodate her 55-inch hips.

    Unsurprisingly, users online slammed her and suggested she go for bigger cars that have bigger spaces.

    But Gracie has labeled herself a “body positivity advocate,” despite the fact that many people have claimed her body is the result of numerous surgical procedures.

    “It’s not my fault to have an a– this big,” said the 27-year-old in a viral video from last year. 

    One person countered, “There’s no way that’s natural. It’s absolutely your fault.”

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    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B***h modified her body, that's not natural. She should admit she's a publicity hound.

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    #9

    “Why Do You Need Two Chairs?”

    Once again, Gracie Bon has sparked a viral debate. After posting a video where she demanded two chairs for her body — where most of her weight remains in her lower half — to sit comfortably at a restaurant. 

    In the clip, a person who appeared to be the restaurant owner laughed with her as they helped her arrange the seats.

    Since then, it’s received over 5 million views and 80K comments, with some saying there was no natural way for Gracie to achieve her specific physique. 

    “She isn’t plus-sized; she is surgically altered,” stated one person.

    But Gracie has made it clear that her body is not a product of any cosmetic procedure, writing, “Life changes when you love yourself. I’m happy to have you all witness my evolution, and to those who criticize me: no, I have never done any procedure to my face.”

    She added, “This body is literally what God gave me. And I have to embrace every single part.”

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    Maisey Myles
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poll Question: Should people lie about their a$$es being god given?

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    #10

    Paying Extra To Fly

    @jaebaeofficial 🤬 Want to fight fatphobia with me?⁣ Donate to my GoFundMe and sign the petition to support the Fat Equality Bill of Rights and the Fat Accessibility Act! 💥 Link in bio to donate and sign the petition! ✊⁣ ⁣ Let’s break down these fatphobic “solutions” once and for all: ⁣ ❌ Lose weight⁣ ❌ Upgrade to first class⁣ ❌ Don’t fly⁣ ❌ Flying isn’t a right, it’s a privilege⁣ ❌ I pay extra for luggage, so fat people should too⁣ ⁣ These aren’t solutions, they’re excuses to keep fat people from having equal access and rights. 🚫 It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect. ✊⁣ ⁣ I’m fighting for fat justice, body equality, and accessibility for all! Let’s make the world more inclusive and stop letting corporations and society get away with fatphobia. 🛑⁣ ⁣ Donate and sign to help push for the change we need to see! 🔥⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #FatEquality #FatAccessibilityAct #BodyJustice #FightFatphobia #Donate #EqualityForAll #FearlessFatAdvocacy #FatEqualityBillOfRights #PlusSizeTravel #BodyEqualityInTravel #FlyingWhileFat #FlyingWhilePlusSize #GoFundMe #SignThePetition #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #FatActivist #Fyp ♬ Drake style/HIPHOP beat(1491552) - Burning Man

    Airplanes are known to have uncomfortable, small spaces in order to use the most of the room available. But this wasn’t working for 28-year-old Jaelynn Chaney

    As a plus-size woman, she often took up more space than one seat could hold, and so she demanded airlines give free tickets to customers like her.

    This solution was met with a wave of hate comments saying it wasn’t an airplane’s job to accommodate her size. A few netizens came up with the “suggestion” that she should be “charged by weight” in the way someone pays “extra for luggage.”

    “So my body is being compared to luggage?” she asked. “Charging by weight is fatphobic and dehumanizing,” adding that she wasn’t a suitcase. 

    The influencer closed the debate with, “It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect.”

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    Marnie
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure what the solution is to this, but one thing that is NOT as solution is to bump someone else off the plane in order to give someone two seats. People have plans. It's NEVER okay to bump someone from the seat they paid for (except for obviously some poor behavior by the person themselves).

    Maisey Myles
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The solution is to buy 2 seats or 3 if you have a god given butt

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    Lady Eowyn
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you take up two seats, for God's sake pay for two seats! I don't want to buy a seat and end up having to share it with part of someone else's body.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're so big that you know that you need 2 or 3 seats shut up and pay for them.

    K
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe if you take more than one seat you pay for more than one seat. Not anyone's fault people are as big as they may be. Reality check needed.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't consider myself fatphobic, but these people who have maimed their bodies because they lack self-control shouldn't expect a dämn thing from any company or person. Medications can cause a weight gain of 40-50 pounds, but this level is self-induced. Instead spending so much time buying food, she should be spending it on a psychologist. BTW, she ain't plus-size. She past that a couple hundred pounds back.

    Scott Rackley
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Charging by weight would actually be most fair way to do it. Weight is directly proportional to fuel used.

    Jason Kennith
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoa...that's profound. I'm not even kidding. That's the best idea I've heard in a while.

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    Bob Brooce
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a very good physics argument for making weight a factor for every ticket. Every pound requires fuel, and even if they fit in one seat somebody who weights 20o or 250 pounds (or more) costs the airline more than an average passenger. Even with a car seat, if you buy a seat for a toddler it costs the airline less than either of the parents.

    Shoopyfloop Roundbird
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used to be policy to purchase 2 seats. Somewhere along the way that was deemed unfair practice

    Jason Kennith
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's obviously not unfair practice. If they take up two or three seats, they should pay for them. They obviously have enough money to pay for their disgusting diet of junk food.

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    Lily Robertson
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my mom passed, i had to take the one seat left on the plane to get back home. I was put next to a plus sized woman on a five hour flight. I had to sit sideways the whole trip, while she glared at me for being in the seat next to her. I was grieving and didn't have the capacity to put up a squall about it, but it got so bad that at one point, one of the flight attendants snuck me into her seat for a bit just so i could have a break from being twisted the whole way. Buy two seats if you can't fit into one instead of tormenting the person next to you.

    Jason Kennith
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm very sorry you had that uncomfortable experience. I know for a certainty I could never handle that.

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    Lola July
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is,demanding special allowances for her over indulging herself. If she sits next to another person she invades their space. That is rude! She feels that fat people have a "Right" to occupy as much space as they want. What's next? 3 seats at no extra charge? Should airlines be made to provide more than just a wheelchair? Perhaps electric carts, special sized vehicles to transport the ones that can not fit in a regular car? Should hotels be made to provide people to bathe them, to wipe their butts? These,people cannot do these things alone, they can't reach, I was a home care worker. I speak from experience.

    Jason Kennith
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know who downvoted your comment, but I hope bags of flaming poop show up at their doorstep.

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    Andrew Bridge
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair it would be nice if planes gave you an adult amout of room

    Jan Kovář
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you respect your body, you will never allow yourself to be so obese. Why does she require respect from other people when she does not have respect to her own body?

    Morgan Carpenter
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do think that airlines need to stop making their seats smaller and smaller. I'm a size 14 and 5'10 and I always feel cramped as heck.

    talliloo
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    while i was never in the morbidly obese catagory i did have weight issues that made flying more difficult in regards to the seats and moving down the aisle but that was quite awhile ago. now, i have issues with my legs so i have to fly first class in order to literally not be able to walk after a long flight. prior to my mobility being so compromised i would often reserve the seat at the emergency exit because of the extra leg room. however, at my age and ability now i am not a good candidate to assist if there was an emergency so i opt for first class. when it comes to weight issues - no, the airline does not have to give you a second seat for free or even at a discount. taking up a second seat without compensation to the airline means they are losing money - not that they don't already charge too much and give too little in regard to amenities that were once normal. frankly, when it comes to airlines, they have become too greedy in their redesigning of seating over all

    Kurtz Frausun
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I own two houses, I pay two property taxes. If I own two cars, I pay two notes. If my a*s takes up two seats, I pay for two seats.

    Santiago
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rightful criticism is not hate. She needs two seats, she needs to pay for two seats. There are people who are actually naturally very tall and thus also wider, and they have to pay for two seats no matter what, while this woman could (and should!) just loose the excess weight.

    Marie Adamson
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand why fat people think society needs to accommodate their size like this. And I'm a fatty!!!

    Rathoren
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a plus sized person, i can squeeze into the seatbelts and don't need an extension (pheew!!) but if didn't fit into my seat thats MY fault. Instead of weighing people (come on people, thats dehumanizing!!) they should do what theme parks do, if you don't fit in the tester seat, buy a second seat!

    Maples Dad
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This woman is so f'n annoying and narcissistic.

    SlightlyTarnished
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Plus" is an understatement, the woman is beyond obese. If you need two seats, buy two seats.

    StumblingThroughLife
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bigger seats, fewer passengers - and airlines are all about profit, so can't see them changing, unless the passengers pick up the tab. GoFundMe to pay for extra seats? Did I read that right? The world is getting crazy. The ridiculously limited leg-room on planes will still be an issue even if she has extra seats.

    kathoco
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to be very overweight and have paid for two tickets before, on a low-cost flight. If you need more room you have to pay for it, unfortunately.

    Emilu
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is it discrimination if everyone is charged by weight? We’d all be luggage…?

    Alex Schneider
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the more persons they transport the more they gain..this isn't a debate about service or humanity .. as long as they lose money no company will adapt to more space, more material cost etc. No one makes money for having better service,cause people nowadays choose a cheap flight over a more expensive with good service ( even more cause only a few people depend on the service of bigger seats) it's simple capitalism maths here

    Nathan Lewis
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    9 months ago

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    Marianne
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the companies had some dignity, they would offer options to share a row of 3 economy seats between 2 pluz-sized people for no or little additional cost. (Maybe let them show a doctor's certificate for booking, so that this option is not used by others to get more room for free when they don't need it.)

    BP Aunt C
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Planes are ridiculous. I flew often for my job. I was a 14/16/18. depending on the clothing size. I carried it well. Depending on the airline, sometimes, I’d have to ask for an extender. I fit in the seat fine. Did I take ALL of the seat? Usually. It’s still embarrassing. Having to ask for an extender. You have to ask right away. They only have a few. The belts fit but it could be tight. The extender just made it more comfy. I flew for years and over time the seats were less and less comfortable. For me,it’s all about comfort. If I needed more room, I would have paid for more room.

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    #11

    Flying Private Is The Solution

    Plus-size woman in black outfit at an airport, highlighting discomfort in 'fatphobic' airline spaces.

    For the third time, Gracie Bon is standing up for what she believes is right.

    After campaigning for bigger seats on aircrafts, the plus-size model said she was now banned from a few select airlines. But to her, this wasn’t a problem as she’s now decided to fly with her own private jet.

    “Some airlines banned me so this is how I have to travel,” Gracie said in a video showcasing her experience flying privately. 

    “Everytime I travel, I used to buy two or three seats. So I started a campaign requesting bigger seats and they didn’t like it. Now flying private is my only solution,” later saying that being banned was the “best thing” to ever happen to her. 

    “Is flying private the solution for big girls like me?” she asked.

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