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Body positivity is a term many people are embracing with open arms nowadays. After all, the social movement promotes feelings of acceptance and love, regardless of anyone’s size, shape, or appearance.

In fact, this new mindset is so widely used and known that there are content creators who blow up by simply sharing their journeys of what it’s like to be a plus-size person in a vastly different and constantly changing world.

They aren’t afraid to call others out for ‘fatphobic’ behavior, rooting for inclusivity for everyone. But as many know, sometimes audience members aren’t the big fans of what influencers create. Here are 11 times plus-size customers spoke their mind and shared it on social media — whether it seems reasonable or logical remains up to you!

#1

Discrimination Within Bollywood

Plus-size person in a blue outfit, expressing confidence against societal norms in outdoor urban setting.

Actress Anjali Anand believes it to be unfair that Bollywood has given her the “plus-size” tag when actors such as Govinda and Rishi Kapoor were never labeled as such.

She told Fever FM, “Nobody would call [Govinda] a plus-size actor. Nobody would call Rishi Kapoor a plus size actor. He is an actor. But for a woman, I’m always called Anjali Anand — a plus size actor. I hate talking about it.

“We need to normalize it. People ask me why I don’t promote plus-size representation on the internet, and it’s because I don’t want to.”

She later went on to describe how society treats women in a harsher light than men.

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    #2

    Denied Entry From A Party Bus

    Plus-size person in a stylish black top poses confidently, challenging conventional beauty norms.

    Miami Beach in Florida is known for its vibrant nightlife and creative parties, and that’s exactly what 27-year-old body positivity advocate Fallon Melillo wanted to take advantage of.

    Unfortunately, when she and her friends decided to take a party bus to get to a pool party, things took a turn.

    Although the pool party itself said on Eventbrite, “Sorry No Big Girls for this party!” the promoter themselves did not disclose this information to the girl who bought the tickets for the party bus.

    Thinking things would be okay, Fallon decided to go, only to be turned away

    “There’s no law, but it’s just downright awful and rude and humiliating,” the advocate told Bored Panda.

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    Emilu
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granting or denying someone access to a party based on their size is gross. Be grateful you weren’t allowed to go to that s**t show!

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    #3

    Inclusivity In Target

    TikTok content creator Samyra has always been loud and proud when it comes to showcasing different kinds of bodies. 

    She recorded a video where she attempted to shame Target for only marketing their clothes towards thin people.

    Samyra picked up a women’s jacket with the tip: “Go up a size or two on your purchase for an easy, effortlessly cool vibe.”

    “This is a clear example of how brands center on thinness. How can someone who is 3X of 4X go up a size or two?” she argued.

    But the comments were anything but understanding and forgiving.

    “Very few people are built like you. Market moves corporations, not your feelings,” one person stated.

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    No, most still cater to thin bodies

    Some are making progress

    Yes, many are inclusive now

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    Hippopotamuses
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As one of the commentator pointed out. 'Market moves corporations...'. That's the reality. To achieve economies of scale, they cater for the majority, and the majority has been conditioned to expect smaller sizes.

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    #4

    Handrails In Swimming Pools

    And Jaelynn Chaney stirs the pot of controversy once more.

    She claims that public swimming pools that don’t feature handrails are “not inclusive” in a video from July 2024, repeatedly stating that “obesity is not a disability.” 

    For the 27-year-old, handrails are a crucial part of helping her stabilize as she gets out of the water. 

    “Accessibility isn’t optional,” she shared. “Make handrails mandatory at all pools for swimmers of every size and ability.”

    Chaney continued, “Without handrails, we’re excluding so many from enjoying pools safely. It’s time to ensure everyone can swim with confidence. Demand mandatory handrails now!”

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with weight exclusively, IMO. Handrails should be a safety feature in most pools?

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    #5

    Quitting A Job After Being Told To “Cover Her Stomach”

    Plus-size woman in a casual outfit expressing frustration in a home setting, addressing uncomfortable spaces.

    Abigayle Canterbury was just doing what she needed to do when she was dress-coded at her job… that did not have a dress code.

    She was indirectly told by her manager that she needed to “dress something nicer and cover the stomach,” to which she responded with “So no crop tops, got it.”

    But after talking to her other co-workers, some who had been there significantly longer than she had, she realized they had never been dress-coded — even though a few were wearing something “inappropriate,” by the manager’s standards.

    After all, what drew Abigayle to this job was the “laid-back environment,” and how the employees could wear whatever they wanted. 

    “That sh–t really not only caught me off guard but kind of hurt my feelings,” she said. 

    Her response? Quitting.

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    Beth Wheeler
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A crop top is not acceptable for work even if it's part of some slutty uniform like at Hooters. I refuse to go there because of the uniform. They can call it a family restaurant all the want to but I call BS on that! If there is a dress code it should apply to everybody!

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    #6

    A Look Of Disgust In An Airplane

    Plus-size customer in two contrasting moments: looking upset indoors and joyful at a theme park wearing Mickey Mouse ears.

    A Brazilian plus-size influencer known as Sidney recorded an emotional video for his social media followers, recounting a particularly unpleasant experience he had while traveling.

    As he was heading to Rio de Janeiro on a plane, he recounted having a difficult time passing through the aircraft aisle and accidentally bumping into a woman.

    “When I passed by her and unintentionally, because of my size, my belly touched her, she looked at her arm, wiped it off, and gave me a disgusted look,” he said. “I felt like the worst human being alive.” 

    The small incident also triggered his anxiety. 

    “I had never gone through something like this, never in my life. I don’t give room for anyone to disrespect me, but this time it was completely different,” he concluded.

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    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find planes extremely narrow regardless of someone's size, I get anxious every time

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    #7

    Lyft Driver Refuses To Let A Plus-Size Woman In His Car

    Plus-size individual standing confidently between two men in suits, emphasizing inclusive spaces.

    When Dajua Blanding, known as ‘Dank Demoss’ ordered a Lyft ride to the Lions playoff game, she was met with rejection over her weight

    In a video posted on January 19, Dajua captured the whole conversation between her and the driver.

    When he showed up, he allegedly took one look at her and immediately locked the car’s doors, denying her entry into his Mercedes-Benz sedan.

    “I can fit in this car,” Dajua said in the clip. 

    “Believe me, you can’t,” replied the driver. “I’m sorry. I’m going to cancel. You’re not going to be charged,” and added, “I’ve been in this situation before.”

    Shocked, Dajua asked, “So every big person, you turn down because they can’t fit in your car?”

    The driver apologized and then suggested she order herself a bigger vehicle, such as an Uber XL, for easier access. 

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    No, that’s discrimination

    Only if it’s a real safety or space issue

    Yes, it’s their personal vehicle

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    Upstaged75
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's hardly just plus size. I'm overweight and wear plus sizes, but I still fit in to normal airplane seats and cars. She's super morbid obese.

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    #8

    Bigger Car Seat Size

    Plus-size customer in colorful dress standing by a car, highlighting discomfort with inadequate space.

    “Supercars should be for everyone,” stated Panamanian plus-size influencer Gracie Bon as she posted a video demanding that the luxury sports car McLaren should increase the size of their seats to accommodate her 55-inch hips.

    Unsurprisingly, users online slammed her and suggested she go for bigger cars that have bigger spaces.

    But Gracie has labeled herself a “body positivity advocate,” despite the fact that many people have claimed her body is the result of numerous surgical procedures.

    “It’s not my fault to have an a– this big,” said the 27-year-old in a viral video from last year. 

    One person countered, “There’s no way that’s natural. It’s absolutely your fault.”

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    Lady Eowyn
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B***h modified her body, that's not natural. She should admit she's a publicity hound.

    Robin Roper
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disagree with the rude term used for this woman, but agree that this behind is not natural or normal.

    Hippopotamuses
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    1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty sure McLaren would be would be happy to supply larger seats. All you need it to pay for them, and for the appropriate modifications. She's just trying to find something to say.

    BeesEelsAndPups
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    10 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Super cars are NOT for everyone. If they were for everyone, the people who can afford to spend $1 million on a car wouldn't want them. McLaren likely wouldn't want to do this too one of their cars.

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    Jon Steensen
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Larger seats require that there is room for them, and as the cabin only have certain size, it would probably also require that the outer dimension of the car is increased, and then we are practically talking about designing an entirely new car. Sure they might be glad to do so, provided they are paid enough, but it would be so ridiculously expensive that it isn't really a practical option. The cabin of a sportscar is usually rather crammed, as they are normally optimized for speed, not comfort, and hence the cross section is minimized.

    K
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on! If you choose to surgically alter your body in anyway.. it is your fault for any repercussions of it. What is with nobody taking accountability for their actions! Parents we MUST start raising our children better than this! Accountability accountability accountability!

    Beth Wheeler
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That chick needs to stop wearing those horrible pants and put on some freaking underwear so that it doesn't look like the pants are gonna split her in half.

    Riley Quinn
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gracie Bon needs to get a van or a bus. Or maybe stop with the BBL and implants. Maybe really tall people should raise a stink about sports cars being too small. Body positive! No you're just whinging to get attention.

    Mel in Georgia
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm short (5') and have a really hard time with visibility in modern cars. Didn't used to be a problem, but now since people are bigger car manufacturers have accommodated to them. Not sure I should be catered to since I'm an outlier, but it's just not safe when I'm crammed against the steering wheel and can barely see above the dash!

    zububonsai
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    6 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You made me snort 😆. and you are 💯 right. I'm 5'1" and drive a 3t delivery truck professionally and I NEED to put at least a jacket behind my lower back to comfortably reach the pedals (I have the "long back but short legs " version of the short people problem).

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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm the opposite! So yeah, phone books for me .. ;-)

    patricia patricia
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    6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a different problem. You didn't choose to be short and there's nothing you can do about it. This idiot chose to get those huge hideous unnatural implants. It's fine. Her body, her choice. But she should know choices have consequences. Her choice, her problem.

    KieLeaHar
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can’t stand this woman. Can’t stand anything about it. This is the second time I’ve seen this twit and I cannot stand her. Last time I saw her was about her trying to trying to get them to extend the size of plane seats or some bullshït She’s an idiot. All natural my arsê!

    KatSaidWhat
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sports cars are not known for their accommodating seats. Perhaps remove the silicone from your head and a*s and try again.

    Viktor Stepanov
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Supercars should be for everyone”. Agree, but manufacturers discriminate against me based on income.

    Kabuki Kitsune
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some context for folks, the cheapest McLaren starts at 195,000 dollars US. However those actually aren't too common. The one in the photo is a McLaren w1. Those start at 2.1 million dollars US.

    Bob Brooce
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she's going to choose an a*s like that she should choose a dump truck.

    Maples Dad
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    5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she can afford a Mclaren, she can afford Ozempic.

    Bart
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    7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Supercars aren't and will never be for everyone, it's a 0,1% thing and will always be...

    Royal Stray
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    11 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She did this to herself though? She would probably have been able to fit if she hadn't had surgery to make her butt bigger

    Jon Steensen
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sportscars are optimised for two things, being fast and looking sleek. To achieve that, it is a question of having a small cross section, and reducing the weight. Putting in bigger seats ruins both (takes up more room, an needs to be constructed to be sturdier, e.i. have more material in them), and then it is no longer a sportscar, but an SUV.

    Tropical Tarot
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do know she has lipedema. It's abnormal fatty deposits on your body. I don't know how much she is modified her body that I do know people with this condition and it can be devastating.

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    #9

    “Why Do You Need Two Chairs?”

    Once again, Gracie Bon has sparked a viral debate. After posting a video where she demanded two chairs for her body — where most of her weight remains in her lower half — to sit comfortably at a restaurant. 

    In the clip, a person who appeared to be the restaurant owner laughed with her as they helped her arrange the seats.

    Since then, it’s received over 5 million views and 80K comments, with some saying there was no natural way for Gracie to achieve her specific physique. 

    “She isn’t plus-sized; she is surgically altered,” stated one person.

    But Gracie has made it clear that her body is not a product of any cosmetic procedure, writing, “Life changes when you love yourself. I’m happy to have you all witness my evolution, and to those who criticize me: no, I have never done any procedure to my face.”

    She added, “This body is literally what God gave me. And I have to embrace every single part.”

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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poll Question: Should people lie about their a$$es being god given?

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    #10

    Paying Extra To Fly

    Airplanes are known to have uncomfortable, small spaces in order to use the most of the room available. But this wasn’t working for 28-year-old Jaelynn Chaney

    As a plus-size woman, she often took up more space than one seat could hold, and so she demanded airlines give free tickets to customers like her.

    This solution was met with a wave of hate comments saying it wasn’t an airplane’s job to accommodate her size. A few netizens came up with the “suggestion” that she should be “charged by weight” in the way someone pays “extra for luggage.”

    “So my body is being compared to luggage?” she asked. “Charging by weight is fatphobic and dehumanizing,” adding that she wasn’t a suitcase. 

    The influencer closed the debate with, “It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect.”

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    Sometimes — depends on the tone

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    Marnie
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    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure what the solution is to this, but one thing that is NOT as solution is to bump someone else off the plane in order to give someone two seats. People have plans. It's NEVER okay to bump someone from the seat they paid for (except for obviously some poor behavior by the person themselves).

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    #11

    Flying Private Is The Solution

    Plus-size woman in black outfit at an airport, highlighting discomfort in 'fatphobic' airline spaces.

    For the third time, Gracie Bon is standing up for what she believes is right.

    After campaigning for bigger seats on aircrafts, the plus-size model said she was now banned from a few select airlines. But to her, this wasn’t a problem as she’s now decided to fly with her own private jet.

    “Some airlines banned me so this is how I have to travel,” Gracie said in a video showcasing her experience flying privately. 

    “Everytime I travel, I used to buy two or three seats. So I started a campaign requesting bigger seats and they didn’t like it. Now flying private is my only solution,” later saying that being banned was the “best thing” to ever happen to her. 

    “Is flying private the solution for big girls like me?” she asked.

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