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“I Will Not Apologize”: 100th Woman In Space Refuses To “Bow To Small Men On The Internet”
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“I Will Not Apologize”: 100th Woman In Space Refuses To “Bow To Small Men On The Internet”

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History was made when Emily Calandrelli became the 100th woman to go to space and social media certainly had something to say about it — though not all the comments were positive.

On November 22, Emily joined six other people with Jeff Bezos’ aerospace company Blue Origin as they flew above the Earth’s atmosphere for space tourism.

Highlights
  • Emily Calandrelli became the 100th woman in space with Blue Origin.
  • Social media response included both praise and online trolling.
  • Emily refuses to apologize for her emotional reaction in space.

Image credits: blueorigin

In a live stream, the author and astronaut could be seen in complete awe, exclaiming, “Oh my God, this is space.”

Not even 24 hours later, however, “hoards of men” began sexualizing her response and making inappropriate comments.

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    While many rallied their support on social media, calling Emily an “inspiration” and a hero, especially for women, she said there were a few men who tried to ruin an experience that brought “the most life-altering spectacular joy and awe.”

    “I refuse to give much time to the small men on the internet. I feel experiences in my soul,” she said. 

    “I will not apologize or feel weird about my reaction. It’s wholly mine and I love it.”

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    Image credits: blueorigin

    As she got off the flight, a Southwest flight attendant recognized her and offered some advice, whispering, “Don’t ever let them dull your shine.”

    “I felt an immediate sense of camaraderie with her, with all the women,” Emily said.

    The rude comments were so vast in numbers that Blue Origin had to take down the original video and replace it with an edited version.

    Emily’s representative told CNN that she’d much rather focus on what the milestone meant for the future, rather than the unexpected hate it’s received. 

    The mission, while fairly simple, was an unreal experience for Emily

    The launch this past Friday had a simple goal: fly above the Kármán line—the boundary separating Earth’s atmosphere from outer space—for a couple of minutes, before landing back on the ground.

    And Emily had nothing but good things to say about the journey.

    “I immediately turned upside down and looked at the planet and then there was so much space, and I kept saying, like, ‘that’s our planet!’”

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    Image credits: thespacegal

    As a mother, it reminded her of her children.

    “It was the same feeling I got when my kids were born where I’m like, seeing it for the first time.” 

    Also aboard the rocket were Sharon Hagle, Marc Hagle, Austin Litteral, James (J.D.) Russell, and Henry (Hank) Wolfond. 

    Many of the positive comments stood behind Emily and praised her for her unforgettable journey

    Image credits: thespacegal

    It seems Emily’s mission touched many viewers, despite the online trolls.

    “I watched many times just to see your reaction, because it brought me so much joy,” one user gushed. “It made me feel like I achieved something great with you. You deserve better, women deserve better. You are so loved!!”

    Another commented on the expectations of women, saying, “So insane. Women are always expected to suppress our emotions.”

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    “Joy is the most radical form of rebellion,” a third stated. “We love you! You pushed history forward for all women. We love your joy.”

    The first woman to travel to space came just two years after Yuri Gagarin’s massive accomplishment

    Image credits: blueorigin

    On June 16, 1963, Valentina Tereshkova launched into the great beyond aboard the Vostok 6 spacecraft, making her the first woman to ever achieve the milestone.

    The flight lasted approximately 70 hours, as she orbited the Earth 48 times.

    This journey made the impossible possible — and 20 years later, Astronaut Sally K. Ride became the first American woman to go into space in June 1983.

    Users on TikTok called Emily a “legend” for breaking barriers

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    WindySwede
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have the trolls been to space och similar? no? then p**s off. Always this hatred towards women... 🤨😡

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haters are going to hate because they wish they could be happy but are not...

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misery loves company, and when it can’t find any it tries to create some by attempting to make others feel as s****y as they do. Emily’s not going to let them, and I applaud her for it.

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    Ariom Dahl
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please remember Valentina Tereshkova, the first woman into space.

    Seedy Vine
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have to start finding the bosses and family members of these awful male commenters and forward them on. Let's not let hate hide in plain sight.

    Rizzo
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haters gonna hate. F*ck 'em! Reach for the stars, lady! Go for it!

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that's not the reason they trolled her. Fair comment and I largely agree but welcome to Trumpland-sexist egos running wild against women is the problem.

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    Nizumi
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know who absolutely did not troll her? Any other astronaut.

    Bec
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's not an astronaut. Note the distinction, she's the 100th woman in space via Blue Origin space tourism.

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    PeepPeep the duck
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m so glad she knows it’s all just weenie little fùcķs. Sad that she cried about it though :( I’m sad also if any of those commenters have daughters, it’s kind of a fail move them. And I’m not an astronaut obviously, but I can relate, when I wanted to stop being a stripper/skimpy and be a mermaid entertainer, allll the weenie bar men made fun of me, laughed at my dreams and said mean things. And then I quit and did the mermaid gig and made a name for myself and friends (more importantly) and had a great career as an underwater entertainer and kids entertainer on weekends, got to be on tv in Germany etc Never EVER let the boring mundane people who don’t want to live life themselves get you down. I also had a lot of paid jobs and experiences through being my weird self, so any weirdos who feel what I’m getting at, always be you and the experiences suited to you will follow & “shine bright”!

    Bec
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's NOT an astronaut. She went into space on Blue Origin. She's a space tourist, not an astronaut

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    Arlene Harris
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in space no one can hear you whiny a*s man-children and your little tantrums

    Arabiata Arabiata
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her journey was extraordinary and helped space science take a big step forward. She is a strong, independent woman who wasn't afraid to be in a small capsule with four men and an older woman who might have been jealous of her age and her gorgeous looks.

    Christian Golden
    Community Member
    1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who wants to tell this champion for women that "stewardess" is about as outdated a term as "aviatrix?"

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't matter. These people aren't astronauts. They're tourists.

    Justin Tyme
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In summary: She did something that 99 other women had already done. But she did it as a tourist and accomplished absolutely nothing except looking out a window. Then when people replied to her posts and correctly noted the fact that she was bragging about a trip that accomplished nothing, she labeled them “trolls”. Well, I say she is the troll.

    Rahul Pawa
    Community Member
    1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's awesome! What a wonderful experience. It's b******t NASA caved to the trolls and edited the video. Seeing someone's reaction to that kind of experience is the best part. I hope someone reposts the original so we can all share in her joy.

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did that other woman in the photo not go up with them or what?

    Parmeisan
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was curious too, so I googled the name they gave. She'd been in space before.

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    Scott Rackley
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not an astronaut. Space tourist. Astronauts train to do work in space.

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure why you were downvoted for this. It's an accurate, factual statement.

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    Rafael
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She for sure doesn't deserve any harassment for being a woman. But she is with Jeff Bezos' Blue Origin, so she should expect to get some fair criticism for that.

    TCW Sam Vimes
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh wow, that is our beautiful earth and I just f****d up its atmosphere for a few minutes in "space" without any scientific benefit, just for my personal pleasure. I'm such a feminist hero, look at me. F**k off, space tourism.

    Westy
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting bent out of shape about being trolled - or worse yet, claiming to be too strong/brave/'authentic"/whatever to get bent out of shape - just serves to validate the trolls because all they're after is a reaction. re. 100th woman in space: She bought (or was given) a seat on a tourist flight, which is actually far less of an accomplishment than the rest of the items on her resume. Could've just as easily strapped my dog into that seat.

    Murdock Schlegel
    Community Member
    1 month ago

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    I really dont care if she is ab woman, cries or pisses heraelf, but going to space for fun, while the plantet is f****d is just an a**hole move, nobody should be praised for. Eat the rich!

    Nathan Hibbs
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    100 women have been to space. great. what do I do with that info.

    Justin Tyme
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    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    This comment has been deleted.

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have the trolls been to space och similar? no? then p**s off. Always this hatred towards women... 🤨😡

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haters are going to hate because they wish they could be happy but are not...

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misery loves company, and when it can’t find any it tries to create some by attempting to make others feel as s****y as they do. Emily’s not going to let them, and I applaud her for it.

    Load More Replies...
    Ariom Dahl
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please remember Valentina Tereshkova, the first woman into space.

    Seedy Vine
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have to start finding the bosses and family members of these awful male commenters and forward them on. Let's not let hate hide in plain sight.

    Rizzo
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haters gonna hate. F*ck 'em! Reach for the stars, lady! Go for it!

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that's not the reason they trolled her. Fair comment and I largely agree but welcome to Trumpland-sexist egos running wild against women is the problem.

    Load More Replies...
    Nizumi
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know who absolutely did not troll her? Any other astronaut.

    Bec
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's not an astronaut. Note the distinction, she's the 100th woman in space via Blue Origin space tourism.

    Load More Replies...
    PeepPeep the duck
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m so glad she knows it’s all just weenie little fùcķs. Sad that she cried about it though :( I’m sad also if any of those commenters have daughters, it’s kind of a fail move them. And I’m not an astronaut obviously, but I can relate, when I wanted to stop being a stripper/skimpy and be a mermaid entertainer, allll the weenie bar men made fun of me, laughed at my dreams and said mean things. And then I quit and did the mermaid gig and made a name for myself and friends (more importantly) and had a great career as an underwater entertainer and kids entertainer on weekends, got to be on tv in Germany etc Never EVER let the boring mundane people who don’t want to live life themselves get you down. I also had a lot of paid jobs and experiences through being my weird self, so any weirdos who feel what I’m getting at, always be you and the experiences suited to you will follow & “shine bright”!

    Bec
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's NOT an astronaut. She went into space on Blue Origin. She's a space tourist, not an astronaut

    Load More Replies...
    Arlene Harris
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in space no one can hear you whiny a*s man-children and your little tantrums

    Arabiata Arabiata
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her journey was extraordinary and helped space science take a big step forward. She is a strong, independent woman who wasn't afraid to be in a small capsule with four men and an older woman who might have been jealous of her age and her gorgeous looks.

    Christian Golden
    Community Member
    1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who wants to tell this champion for women that "stewardess" is about as outdated a term as "aviatrix?"

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't matter. These people aren't astronauts. They're tourists.

    Justin Tyme
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In summary: She did something that 99 other women had already done. But she did it as a tourist and accomplished absolutely nothing except looking out a window. Then when people replied to her posts and correctly noted the fact that she was bragging about a trip that accomplished nothing, she labeled them “trolls”. Well, I say she is the troll.

    Rahul Pawa
    Community Member
    1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's awesome! What a wonderful experience. It's b******t NASA caved to the trolls and edited the video. Seeing someone's reaction to that kind of experience is the best part. I hope someone reposts the original so we can all share in her joy.

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did that other woman in the photo not go up with them or what?

    Parmeisan
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was curious too, so I googled the name they gave. She'd been in space before.

    Load More Replies...
    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not an astronaut. Space tourist. Astronauts train to do work in space.

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure why you were downvoted for this. It's an accurate, factual statement.

    Load More Replies...
    Rafael
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She for sure doesn't deserve any harassment for being a woman. But she is with Jeff Bezos' Blue Origin, so she should expect to get some fair criticism for that.

    TCW Sam Vimes
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh wow, that is our beautiful earth and I just f****d up its atmosphere for a few minutes in "space" without any scientific benefit, just for my personal pleasure. I'm such a feminist hero, look at me. F**k off, space tourism.

    Westy
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting bent out of shape about being trolled - or worse yet, claiming to be too strong/brave/'authentic"/whatever to get bent out of shape - just serves to validate the trolls because all they're after is a reaction. re. 100th woman in space: She bought (or was given) a seat on a tourist flight, which is actually far less of an accomplishment than the rest of the items on her resume. Could've just as easily strapped my dog into that seat.

    Murdock Schlegel
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    I really dont care if she is ab woman, cries or pisses heraelf, but going to space for fun, while the plantet is f****d is just an a**hole move, nobody should be praised for. Eat the rich!

    Nathan Hibbs
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    100 women have been to space. great. what do I do with that info.

    Justin Tyme
    Community Member
    1 month ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    This comment has been deleted.

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