“I Will Not Apologize”: 100th Woman In Space Refuses To “Bow To Small Men On The Internet”
History was made when Emily Calandrelli became the 100th woman to go to space and social media certainly had something to say about it — though not all the comments were positive.
On November 22, Emily joined six other people with Jeff Bezos’ aerospace company Blue Origin as they flew above the Earth’s atmosphere for space tourism.
- Emily Calandrelli became the 100th woman in space with Blue Origin.
- Social media response included both praise and online trolling.
- Emily refuses to apologize for her emotional reaction in space.
Image credits: blueorigin
In a live stream, the author and astronaut could be seen in complete awe, exclaiming, “Oh my God, this is space.”
Not even 24 hours later, however, “hoards of men” began sexualizing her response and making inappropriate comments.
Emily Calandrelli was met with online trolls after she had an emotional response to being the 100th woman to fly to space
View this post on Instagram
While many rallied their support on social media, calling Emily an “inspiration” and a hero, especially for women, she said there were a few men who tried to ruin an experience that brought “the most life-altering spectacular joy and awe.”
“I refuse to give much time to the small men on the internet. I feel experiences in my soul,” she said.
“I will not apologize or feel weird about my reaction. It’s wholly mine and I love it.”
Image credits: blueorigin
As she got off the flight, a Southwest flight attendant recognized her and offered some advice, whispering, “Don’t ever let them dull your shine.”
“I felt an immediate sense of camaraderie with her, with all the women,” Emily said.
The rude comments were so vast in numbers that Blue Origin had to take down the original video and replace it with an edited version.
Emily’s representative told CNN that she’d much rather focus on what the milestone meant for the future, rather than the unexpected hate it’s received.
The mission, while fairly simple, was an unreal experience for Emily
View this post on Instagram
The launch this past Friday had a simple goal: fly above the Kármán line—the boundary separating Earth’s atmosphere from outer space—for a couple of minutes, before landing back on the ground.
And Emily had nothing but good things to say about the journey.
“I immediately turned upside down and looked at the planet and then there was so much space, and I kept saying, like, ‘that’s our planet!’”
Image credits: thespacegal
As a mother, it reminded her of her children.
“It was the same feeling I got when my kids were born where I’m like, seeing it for the first time.”
Also aboard the rocket were Sharon Hagle, Marc Hagle, Austin Litteral, James (J.D.) Russell, and Henry (Hank) Wolfond.
Many of the positive comments stood behind Emily and praised her for her unforgettable journey
Image credits: thespacegal
It seems Emily’s mission touched many viewers, despite the online trolls.
“I watched many times just to see your reaction, because it brought me so much joy,” one user gushed. “It made me feel like I achieved something great with you. You deserve better, women deserve better. You are so loved!!”
View this post on Instagram
Another commented on the expectations of women, saying, “So insane. Women are always expected to suppress our emotions.”
“Joy is the most radical form of rebellion,” a third stated. “We love you! You pushed history forward for all women. We love your joy.”
The first woman to travel to space came just two years after Yuri Gagarin’s massive accomplishment
Image credits: blueorigin
On June 16, 1963, Valentina Tereshkova launched into the great beyond aboard the Vostok 6 spacecraft, making her the first woman to ever achieve the milestone.
The flight lasted approximately 70 hours, as she orbited the Earth 48 times.
This journey made the impossible possible — and 20 years later, Astronaut Sally K. Ride became the first American woman to go into space in June 1983.
Users on TikTok called Emily a “legend” for breaking barriers
Poll Question
Thanks! Check out the results:
Have the trolls been to space och similar? no? then p**s off. Always this hatred towards women... 🤨😡
Haters are going to hate because they wish they could be happy but are not...
Misery loves company, and when it can’t find any it tries to create some by attempting to make others feel as s****y as they do. Emily’s not going to let them, and I applaud her for it.
Load More Replies...We have to start finding the bosses and family members of these awful male commenters and forward them on. Let's not let hate hide in plain sight.
But that's not the reason they trolled her. Fair comment and I largely agree but welcome to Trumpland-sexist egos running wild against women is the problem.
Load More Replies...She's not an astronaut. Note the distinction, she's the 100th woman in space via Blue Origin space tourism.
Load More Replies...I’m so glad she knows it’s all just weenie little fùcķs. Sad that she cried about it though :( I’m sad also if any of those commenters have daughters, it’s kind of a fail move them. And I’m not an astronaut obviously, but I can relate, when I wanted to stop being a stripper/skimpy and be a mermaid entertainer, allll the weenie bar men made fun of me, laughed at my dreams and said mean things. And then I quit and did the mermaid gig and made a name for myself and friends (more importantly) and had a great career as an underwater entertainer and kids entertainer on weekends, got to be on tv in Germany etc Never EVER let the boring mundane people who don’t want to live life themselves get you down. I also had a lot of paid jobs and experiences through being my weird self, so any weirdos who feel what I’m getting at, always be you and the experiences suited to you will follow & “shine bright”!
She's NOT an astronaut. She went into space on Blue Origin. She's a space tourist, not an astronaut
Load More Replies...in space no one can hear you whiny a*s man-children and your little tantrums
Her journey was extraordinary and helped space science take a big step forward. She is a strong, independent woman who wasn't afraid to be in a small capsule with four men and an older woman who might have been jealous of her age and her gorgeous looks.
Who wants to tell this champion for women that "stewardess" is about as outdated a term as "aviatrix?"
This doesn't matter. These people aren't astronauts. They're tourists.
In summary: She did something that 99 other women had already done. But she did it as a tourist and accomplished absolutely nothing except looking out a window. Then when people replied to her posts and correctly noted the fact that she was bragging about a trip that accomplished nothing, she labeled them “trolls”. Well, I say she is the troll.
That's awesome! What a wonderful experience. It's b******t NASA caved to the trolls and edited the video. Seeing someone's reaction to that kind of experience is the best part. I hope someone reposts the original so we can all share in her joy.
I was curious too, so I googled the name they gave. She'd been in space before.
Load More Replies...Not an astronaut. Space tourist. Astronauts train to do work in space.
I'm not sure why you were downvoted for this. It's an accurate, factual statement.
Load More Replies...Oh wow, that is our beautiful earth and I just f****d up its atmosphere for a few minutes in "space" without any scientific benefit, just for my personal pleasure. I'm such a feminist hero, look at me. F**k off, space tourism.
Getting bent out of shape about being trolled - or worse yet, claiming to be too strong/brave/'authentic"/whatever to get bent out of shape - just serves to validate the trolls because all they're after is a reaction. re. 100th woman in space: She bought (or was given) a seat on a tourist flight, which is actually far less of an accomplishment than the rest of the items on her resume. Could've just as easily strapped my dog into that seat.
Have the trolls been to space och similar? no? then p**s off. Always this hatred towards women... 🤨😡
Haters are going to hate because they wish they could be happy but are not...
Misery loves company, and when it can’t find any it tries to create some by attempting to make others feel as s****y as they do. Emily’s not going to let them, and I applaud her for it.
Load More Replies...We have to start finding the bosses and family members of these awful male commenters and forward them on. Let's not let hate hide in plain sight.
But that's not the reason they trolled her. Fair comment and I largely agree but welcome to Trumpland-sexist egos running wild against women is the problem.
Load More Replies...She's not an astronaut. Note the distinction, she's the 100th woman in space via Blue Origin space tourism.
Load More Replies...I’m so glad she knows it’s all just weenie little fùcķs. Sad that she cried about it though :( I’m sad also if any of those commenters have daughters, it’s kind of a fail move them. And I’m not an astronaut obviously, but I can relate, when I wanted to stop being a stripper/skimpy and be a mermaid entertainer, allll the weenie bar men made fun of me, laughed at my dreams and said mean things. And then I quit and did the mermaid gig and made a name for myself and friends (more importantly) and had a great career as an underwater entertainer and kids entertainer on weekends, got to be on tv in Germany etc Never EVER let the boring mundane people who don’t want to live life themselves get you down. I also had a lot of paid jobs and experiences through being my weird self, so any weirdos who feel what I’m getting at, always be you and the experiences suited to you will follow & “shine bright”!
She's NOT an astronaut. She went into space on Blue Origin. She's a space tourist, not an astronaut
Load More Replies...in space no one can hear you whiny a*s man-children and your little tantrums
Her journey was extraordinary and helped space science take a big step forward. She is a strong, independent woman who wasn't afraid to be in a small capsule with four men and an older woman who might have been jealous of her age and her gorgeous looks.
Who wants to tell this champion for women that "stewardess" is about as outdated a term as "aviatrix?"
This doesn't matter. These people aren't astronauts. They're tourists.
In summary: She did something that 99 other women had already done. But she did it as a tourist and accomplished absolutely nothing except looking out a window. Then when people replied to her posts and correctly noted the fact that she was bragging about a trip that accomplished nothing, she labeled them “trolls”. Well, I say she is the troll.
That's awesome! What a wonderful experience. It's b******t NASA caved to the trolls and edited the video. Seeing someone's reaction to that kind of experience is the best part. I hope someone reposts the original so we can all share in her joy.
I was curious too, so I googled the name they gave. She'd been in space before.
Load More Replies...Not an astronaut. Space tourist. Astronauts train to do work in space.
I'm not sure why you were downvoted for this. It's an accurate, factual statement.
Load More Replies...Oh wow, that is our beautiful earth and I just f****d up its atmosphere for a few minutes in "space" without any scientific benefit, just for my personal pleasure. I'm such a feminist hero, look at me. F**k off, space tourism.
Getting bent out of shape about being trolled - or worse yet, claiming to be too strong/brave/'authentic"/whatever to get bent out of shape - just serves to validate the trolls because all they're after is a reaction. re. 100th woman in space: She bought (or was given) a seat on a tourist flight, which is actually far less of an accomplishment than the rest of the items on her resume. Could've just as easily strapped my dog into that seat.
38
38