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Woman Turns Down Arranged Marriage After Man Asks To Give Up Her Dog
Woman Turns Down Arranged Marriage After Man Asks To Give Up Her Dog
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When New Dehli-based Karishma Walia found out that her potential husband is not of fan of dogs and wouldn’t want one after marriage, it became clear to her that it’s going to be an issue. So she turned down the arranged marriage.

“Having a dog is definitely not a temporary phase. I can’t abandon my dog for anyone,” Walia told him in a Whatsapp conversation. Though the guy still tried to get her to reconsider, it didn’t work. Walia just loves her pooch, Lucy, too much and if he can’t accept that – it’s a dealbreaker! She posted the full Whatsapp conversation to Facebook, and people on the Internet have been supporting her since. Take a look below!

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    Meet Karishma Walia – an analyst currently based in New Dehli, and her adorable pup Lucy

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    Image credits: Karishma Walia

    Walia recently found out that her potential husband doesn’t want to live with Lucy

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    Image credits: Karishma Walia

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    She was heavily pressured by her family – mom tried to convince her that he’s an excellent match as he’s good-looking and well-off

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    Image credits: Karishma Walia

    The guy still tried to get her to reconsider…

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    Image credits: Karishma Walia

    But Walia is certain that “having a dog is not a temporary phase,” and she can’t abandon [her] dog for anyone!

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    Image credits: Lucy Walia

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    Lily Yeo
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What arrogance?! Pet is for life. Not something you dump just because it gets in your way. And I'll be very wary of that guy. He expected her to give up her dog because he didn't like dogs. What else will he be demanding her to give up just because he doesn't approve? I'm so glad she stood firm!

    Carries
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! First it's the dog, then what? Her career? Her friends? She absolutely made the right choice!

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    Gensuzi
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This girl is really a very good human, and a brave girl. I ADMIRE.

    Grace Barclay
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love me, accept my cats. No acceptance of my cats - there is the door, close it on your way out. No negotiation at all. Karishma Walia - you are an awesome Human Being & Woman!!!

    Joanna Olek
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    exactly! i cant imagine house without pets this is huge issue.

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    Carol Cooke
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like he is controlling and abusive. She did herself a big favor by rejecting him and keeping her dog. The dog will give her unconditional love. The husband, abuse and no love.

    Mihai Tabacaru
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not even about the dog, it's about accepting other people's stuff if you want a relationship. The dude is a douche and has no respect for other people, he wants what he wants and that's it.

    Susan Armstrong
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, very true. Shows major character flaw in this guy. Good for her! Never regret the decision.

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    Shana
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very brave of her to stand up against this since pre-arranged marriages can have alot of pressure coming from both families. And I think it's just awesome she won't give up her dog because someone tells her to. I would do the same though, you don't have to love my pets the same way I do but telling me to get rid of them... How about no, I'll just stay with my pets.

    Jolene Wood
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you girl! If only more people were like you. In a marriage, arranged or not, you need to be accepted for who you are - including everything you come with! A pet is a life-long commitment and deserves the best love and care you can give. As for someone who doesnt like animals - always be wary of them. Best decision of your life right here!

    Vishvesh Tadsare
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gandhi's statement : 'If you want to see a true nature of a person see how he behaves towards lower creatures'

    cyn smith
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can I add this quote to my file (for later use) compartment of my brain? If we could channel his wisdom the world would be a better place

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    Lily Yeo
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What arrogance?! Pet is for life. Not something you dump just because it gets in your way. And I'll be very wary of that guy. He expected her to give up her dog because he didn't like dogs. What else will he be demanding her to give up just because he doesn't approve? I'm so glad she stood firm!

    Carries
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! First it's the dog, then what? Her career? Her friends? She absolutely made the right choice!

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    Gensuzi
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This girl is really a very good human, and a brave girl. I ADMIRE.

    Grace Barclay
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love me, accept my cats. No acceptance of my cats - there is the door, close it on your way out. No negotiation at all. Karishma Walia - you are an awesome Human Being & Woman!!!

    Joanna Olek
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    exactly! i cant imagine house without pets this is huge issue.

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    Carol Cooke
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like he is controlling and abusive. She did herself a big favor by rejecting him and keeping her dog. The dog will give her unconditional love. The husband, abuse and no love.

    Mihai Tabacaru
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not even about the dog, it's about accepting other people's stuff if you want a relationship. The dude is a douche and has no respect for other people, he wants what he wants and that's it.

    Susan Armstrong
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, very true. Shows major character flaw in this guy. Good for her! Never regret the decision.

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    Shana
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very brave of her to stand up against this since pre-arranged marriages can have alot of pressure coming from both families. And I think it's just awesome she won't give up her dog because someone tells her to. I would do the same though, you don't have to love my pets the same way I do but telling me to get rid of them... How about no, I'll just stay with my pets.

    Jolene Wood
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you girl! If only more people were like you. In a marriage, arranged or not, you need to be accepted for who you are - including everything you come with! A pet is a life-long commitment and deserves the best love and care you can give. As for someone who doesnt like animals - always be wary of them. Best decision of your life right here!

    Vishvesh Tadsare
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gandhi's statement : 'If you want to see a true nature of a person see how he behaves towards lower creatures'

    cyn smith
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can I add this quote to my file (for later use) compartment of my brain? If we could channel his wisdom the world would be a better place

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