i think you are missing the point too. whether she actually is/was/would/could/will ever be fat has nothing to do with the case. It's about a stranger pointlessly being a b***h to her - guess to boost her own poor self esteem or whatever- and being instead blasted to pieces by the happiness this couple radiates as it is

As a fat woman I disagree Daria. You are missing the point. So you are saying that people should be nice to her because she may lose weight and become thin someday. Not the point!!!! No one has the right to rude and make someone feel less than just because they don't fit the mold of beauty societvhas set forth.

Daria is my sister and you have to believe me - she does know what is like to be body shamed! Because of her non conventional appearance, she suffered from lots of bad people at our school, even one teacher! Our parents and I went to the school's principal to defend our loved Daria, but the principal was an a*s too. My sister has been told she's ugly and never will find love - and then she did find love, she got married, has a good job - and she is a big inspiration to me! 'Cause i used to be calld the nice one, and I had lots of boys and fans and now I'm 30 and got nothing. But when I think of my little sister how she maked it trough when it seemd the whole world was against her, I gain hope! I look up to her and keep "fight". So don't be offended Porto and Mindy, she knows what she's talkin' about. Her comment was just a thought. Big <3 to you all!

For Mindy - although it may sound so, that's really not what I'm saying. You missed the "my thoughts exactly" part of my comment, meaning I wholly agree with Sheralyn, and I'd have said the same if s/he didn't do it already. Everything else in my reply was just additional.

Aweeee..... Thank you, sistah! *blush blush* ♥

I'm not missing the point, Porto, and, honestly, I expected a reply like yours. I'm just adding a possibility, since everybody seemed to be "concerned".

With "You're not fat" he could have meant that she is simply not fat for him. There are many girls with more weight out there and maybe, in his eyes, she isn't fat yet. Just another possibility.

Well said Lennart. But as a woman i can be daft as a post when it comes to navigating the emotional nuances of others. I don't mean to be insensitive, sometimes that's very much how i come across though

Dzoana, ugly can actually be just as much your fault as anything else, you see ugly is not just what you see on the outside of a person, but what is inside them. Your comment kind of proves that point. A person may be pleasing to the eye, but what is inside them, their personality, can be extremely ugly, and there is only one person to blame for that, and it is usually not their parent.

Oh, good lord. She still has her baby fat, as many teens do. She's not unhealthily overweight. Fat-shamers love to use this argument, as if they give one single solitary shite about the physical health of the person they're disparaging.

if you are sorry for talking junk, why can't you just skip both the b******t and the follow-up sorry

Wow Dzoana.. where does ugly on the inside fit with your percentages ? You must be freakin perfect.. well the way you calculate anyway