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Babysitter Shares A Text Exchange With Parents Who Were Looking For Someone To Exploit As Cheap Labor
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Babysitter Shares A Text Exchange With Parents Who Were Looking For Someone To Exploit As Cheap Labor

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Kids are adorable, fun, and downright cute. That’s what most people think and it’s easy to see why. However, babysitting them is by no means an easy task. In fact, taking care of kids is something akin to handling teenagers: their mood changes like the wind changes direction, they’re hungry all the time, and their sleeping patterns are somewhat erratic.

So it’s no wonder that babysitters want to be paid a decent hourly wage for looking after someone else’s children. Even if that ‘someone’ thinks that their children are extremely well behaved and that the babysitter would have to simply spend the entire day eating chocolate chip and peanut butter ice-cream (yum!), playing with LEGOs (fun!), watching Mexican soap operas on TV, and relaxing.

Something like that happened to one person (let’s call her ‘Alice’) who was shamed by a mom for ‘daring’ to ask for 15 dollars per hour. According to the mom (shall we call her ‘Betty’?), such a price was way too steep for taking care of her ‘well-behaved’ kids who’d be sleeping most of the time. Fortunately, the babysitter had enough sense to stand her ground and not give in.

A babysitter stood her ground after being shamed by a mom

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In ‘Betty’s’ opinion, ‘Alice’ shouldn’t have been asking for such a ‘steep’ price because her 3 kids are well-behaved (even though they’re not potty-trained) and would’ve been sleeping most of the time anyway. Betty thought that 8 dollars per hour would be enough. Betty was wrong.

‘Alice’ wasn’t planning on giving in to emotional blackmail and showed that her pride and dignity were worth more than a few measly bucks.

Being a great babysitter is more than just about showing up. Healthline provides some helpful tips for babysitters when they have to deal with both parents and kids. For example, babysitters shouldn’t have to figure out every detail by themselves: if you have any issues or questions, call up the parents and ask. Nobody expects you to be an omniscient mind-reading savant the first day on the job. If you can’t calm a kid down, it might have nothing to do with you and everything to do with them losing their favorite plushie. But you need to know about the toy in order to look for it.

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Furthermore, in case anything bad happens [knocks on wood], it’s best to keep a handy list of emergency contacts, from poison control to other family members’ phone numbers. Also, be sure to mind any allergies the toddlers might have. A good babysitter keeps the kids alive, while a great babysitter actively engages them and helps them grow into awesome people, instead of plonking them down on the couch in front of the screen.

So, dear Pandas, do you think ‘Alice’ did the right thing by refusing to work for 8 dollars per hour? Would have refused as well? How else would you have dealt with a parent who was shaming you? Do you have any interesting babysitting stories to tell us? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!

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Jonas Grinevičius

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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Jonas Grinevičius

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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This lazy panda forgot to write something about itself.

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FloC
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they have the money to go out, they must have the money to pay properly their babysitter.

Agnes Pethes
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How are you sure about this? What is it's a mandatory office party? What id they go and visit some friends? What if someone was in trouble and they had to visit him/her? I mean...HOW DO YOU KNOW what is the situation?

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Martha Meyer
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I can see is: 3.5 years old and NOT potty trained yet!! I'd double the price just for that.

William Burkin
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you spend more on a night out than the safety and well being of your children your priorities are wrong

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FloC
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they have the money to go out, they must have the money to pay properly their babysitter.

Agnes Pethes
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How are you sure about this? What is it's a mandatory office party? What id they go and visit some friends? What if someone was in trouble and they had to visit him/her? I mean...HOW DO YOU KNOW what is the situation?

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Martha Meyer
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I can see is: 3.5 years old and NOT potty trained yet!! I'd double the price just for that.

William Burkin
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you spend more on a night out than the safety and well being of your children your priorities are wrong

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